Dear Speed Seduction® Student
One of the most common scenarios students present me with is this:
“I do fine if I am introduced to women or already know them. But walking up to a stranger, dead cold, in any situation, scares the bejezus out of me. I just can not do it. What can I do to resolve this?”
Over the years, I have seen this question or variations on it more times than I can count.
If you have felt shy, anxious or even afraid of women, especially beautiful ones, I can assure you that you are far from alone. In fact, I would have to say that fear and shyness around women is so common among men, it’s close to being an epidemic.
Now, this “fear factor” can strike guys at different stages.
For most, it has to do with the initial approach/ice breaking.
For a few guys, approaching is easy, but they freeze up when it comes time to making that serious physical pass.
Wherever you may be having your “fear” or “shyness” or “freezing” problem, the good news is that there are powerful solutions to this that can get you going rapidly in the direction you want, without fear, shyness or shame.
Your Fear Of Women Is Not A “Thing”
Here is why: “fear” and “shyness” or “hesitation” are not THINGS that happen to you even though it may seem that way.
You don’t have a bunch of “fear” or “shyness” or “hesitation” fluid running through your body, like transmission fluid in a car that some mind mechanic has to drain out so you can then be “confident”.
“Fear” or “shyness” or “hesitation” are internal mental processes that you DO to yourself.
You don’t HAVE “shyness”. You DO “shyness”, usually so quickly and outside of your awareness of how you are doing it that it seems like something that is just happening to you.
A good, solid meditation practice, using breathing, helps you overcome anxiety and fear.
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. Inside “Magick, Meditation, And Non-Local Influence” we show you actual breathing and meditation practices that uncover and bring to light deeply hidden patterns and deconstruct them so they no longer bind you.