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    Maddy D Skillz December 11, 2016, 10:09 am

    I would of framed it differently. I would of said you know what you are a great lady, you deserve to spend some time with me and see what you’re missing. I agree with rj to stay away from that checklist part of her mind.

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      Ross Jeffries December 11, 2016, 4:47 pm

      Keep in mind, every situation with every woman is a unique situation. There are cases where your phraseology will work perfectly. Calibration and vibe my friend, calibration and vibe.

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    Well, I pretty much avoid any kind of future plans. I can’t think of a single time in the last decade that a woman I was genuinely interested in kept plans more than 24 hours into the future – regardless of how I framed it.

    Then again, I’ve never had much problem finding dates when I’ve had any kind of “social proof” whatsoever and the only issues I used have around sex were 100% due to having deeply internalized religious teachings.

    Nowadays my biggest challenge is conserving enough energy to get out there and deal with how receptive they can actually be.

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      Ross Jeffries December 11, 2016, 4:46 pm

      Reading your share, I am reminded of this: “How many women will say yes, once you actually ask!”

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    Dan December 11, 2016, 6:46 pm

    What if you said something like “OK good because I’m so tired of women chasing me all the time, I think going as friends would be refreshing for me.”

    Or some way of trying to deny her so she would want it.

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      Ross Jeffries December 12, 2016, 8:43 am

      Every situation with every woman is unique and different. Calibration and vibe.

      I do like how you “switch the game” with the phrase you have created. Good luck, let us know how it plays out.

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    Rheo December 12, 2016, 7:27 am

    Sometimes, just being casual about it and accepting the “just friends” and then actually getting together and doing the right things can change. Most important however I feel is to not get freaked out about the “friend” word. This is something I have observed in the community. Its almost as if there is a stigma attached to it, when there is none really! I read a book once where there was this guy and girl who had met and things had progressed quite well. They made good conversation and were in a resturant when the waiter asked them, if they were a couple. Without missing a beat the woman said, “No we are just friends”. The guy agreed too (very casually) and yet on the ride back home they made out in the taxi and then when the woman was dropped she, ïmagined the guy fucking her and caem quickly”. While this was fiction, I do think it can happen for real too. Composure is the key I suppose.

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      Ross Jeffries December 11, 2016, 4:45 pm

      Like, when people shut down the moment the hear the “F” word. It’s not a closing statement, just a reaction to the moment. The world rotates clear round daily.

      Excellent share – thank you!

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