Dear Seeker of Success,
Making the transition from a life by default – where you simply accept whatever success with women happens to fall into your lap because you don’t this part of life handled – to becoming a Speed Seduction® Master can have its moments of overwhelm and frustration.
Moments that feel like a cold shower:
One of the biggest causes: now that you’re seriously laser-focused on meeting more women, getting laid more, finding a girlfriend or wife, etc. you’re paying attention to every interaction or Sarge and evaluating yourself.
What’s more, you second-guess yourself as in “Cripes, why didn’t I just go for it, I mean, was she or was she not giving me the doggy bowl dinner look?”
I certainly understand.
It can be confusing to take on new learnings and, more importantly…
….An Entirely New Relationship To
Frustration And Confusion
I want to say that again, in another way.
Learning seduction is not just about learning to successfully seduce women.
It’s also about learning to successfully relate to frustration and confusion.
You can score big victories in one, or the other, or both.
When it’s not yet working with women, you can STILL win in regard to how you handle frustration and confusion.
This is as key a skill set as knowing how to do walk ups, knowing how to get women hot and ready, etc.
When overwhelm and frustration rear their ugly heads, start by doing these 6 things:
- Chunk down. Start small. Get good at ONE skill at a time. For example, get good at walking up and the introduction BEFORE you try to go any further.
- Work on changing your orientation to first and foremost NOTICING WHAT WORKED. Remember, it takes training to recognize progress in an area of life that’s been loaded up with negativity.
- Have a reward system in place. Anytime you do ANYTHING right, however small, reward yourself in some way.
- Have a weekly reward: I recommend a weekly, good, therapeutic massage (not happy ending!)
- Keep getting support from fellow smart men who have blazed the same trail you are.
- Keep a journal to record what you did, what happened, and what you learned.
Try this out and see how your frustration and overwhelm subside.
P.S. With my Nail Your Inner Game system, you’ll have no further need for pre-assurance or upfront-guarantee of success of any kind before you take bold (and fun) seduction steps.
You will walk like a giant where previously you feared to step.
Get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted!