Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Those who have devoured my 4-part Sarge report have come to me with some awesome follow-up questions.
Stay with me while I dive into them now and illustrate in several ways the TRUE power of Speed Seduction®….
“She was 45 minutes late, and you waited for her?
Wasn’t that a flake? Weren’t you surrendering
control to her?”
In this case, I felt a “hard line” approach really wasn’t warranted.
Because her responses to me overall were very positive, eager, and I think she was genuinely running behind. I think she did everything possible to squeeze me into an otherwise crazy day because she wanted to see me right away.
In fact, when I first offered to meet, she texted me that she was busy that day, but how about the next day? (A “flake” would not say “today’s tough, how about tomorrow?”)
Plus I brought a book to read. I wasn’t some guy getting “stood up” looking like a desperate dingface. I was a regular guy having coffee in a coffee shop, reading a book, waiting for someone who was running behind – nothing more.
“Why did you ask the question about the things
about herself she finds attractive,
other than her looks?”
One student took 3 guesses and got all 3 correct (smart man, Robin). As follows:
- To get her invested, and challenge her. SHE had to give ME reasons why I should be interested in her; looks are not enough.
- She goes to college, so she’s somewhat younger than me. By stating that looks are secondary, I take away some resistance she might have when being hit on by an older guy.
- To set up the theme, and prepare her for the three things that I find important. Time’s an issue when you only have 45 minutes to Sarge, so best to jump right into a seduction topic than waste excess time with fluff talk.
“First time you met her, you did a number close.
Really? A number close?!?!?!“
I KNEW this would come up, and my gratitude for those of you who asked. I wasn’t surprised by your questions.
In THIS situation with THIS woman, a non-threatening, promises-nothing, no pressure approach was my best bet.
She was a co-ed in college. I was probably older than her father, almost certainly looked older at least.
Unlike most “can I call you” situations that end up with a few frustrated dances after her phone “inexplicably” rings exactly one and a half times and goes to voicemail before the guy gets “the hint”, I got her meeting me.
What’s The Big Sargy Lesson Here?
More than a mere set of pick-up lines, Speed Seduction® gives you the tools and skills to apply the teaching to THIS situation with THIS woman in a way that makes sense RIGHT NOW.
It’s calibration. It’s vibe. It’s adaptation.
Peace and piece,
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