Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,
The easiest thing you can possibly do is sit on your ass and let things go on as they are. Yeah, you might have a miserable life, out of shape, bad health, need a haircut really bad, no women, no nookie, no Giggity Giggity Goo.
But there’s no risk. You can be certain (unless there’s a blackout) the boob tube will keep you company when you sit alone on the couch watching late-night TV.
Now, if you choose to “rock the boat” by taking drastic measures such as updating your wardrobe, getting a haircut, hitting the gym (to feel good about yourself), and getting yourself in circulation so people can see the gifts you offer to the world…that’s downright scary. What if it doesn’t work? What if your friends (or even family members) make fun of you? What if the women you Sarge on dust you off with a dismissive hand gesture?
Case in point: one of your fellow readers on this blog, who is now working his way toward girl-getting mastery:
I am still in the “trying” phases and haven’t got laid yet – what could I possibly be doing wrong? Also, when a girl doesn’t respond when I use the patterns (such as “have you ever…”, the Twin Brothers, etc.), how can I handle the discouragement I feel in me after that?
And finally Ross, which is the fastest way to learn Speed Seduction® via home study?
First of all, congratulations on your decision to “step up” and claim results with the women you really want. Who said you’re doing anything wrong?
I have to ask, though (just to be sure): are you reciting the patterns verbatim? And if you’re not, could it be that you sound like you are, like you rehearsed the lines? She’s not going to respond to that, because it’s not YOU she’s experiencing.
Now, I don’t think you’re going up to women reading the patterns off cue cards, but I’ve had students who DID. One of them got laid. With the cue cards. His secret? He applied the lessons of Speed Seduction® to that SPECIFIC situation with that SPECIFIC woman. He used the cue cards to make her laugh and open her up… then he took it naturally from there.
Handling discouragement? Well, when something bad happens, AND when something good happens, I repeat as necessary:
Show me better, show me more, show me more, show me better, now!
That galvanizes me to go get more chicks. If I “strike out”, there’s always tomorrow (or even 5 minutes from now). Even if the one I just met is a straight up fox, now that I’ve had her, I want one even hotter.
Keep Sarging. You have me, and the entire community, on your side and in your corner.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. The fastest way to learn Speed Seduction® via home study is, of course, my home study course called Speed Seduction® 3.0. It’s like having me, Ross Jeffries, on tap, 24/7, whenever you need me. Click here to learn more.
I believe the fastest way to become a speedseducer is to BECOME a speedseducer. I mean, is understanding that SS is not sth you learn as a traditional learning, memorizing and spiting everything back… it´s sth once you realize what it is about, you start BEING. This means that what he´s doing wrong is exactly thinking that he´s “trying phases”, what he´s actually doing is DOING the phases and should be learning from each experience, therefore there´s no failing, only growing in skills and irrevesibly getting closer to his goals…
Btw, thanx again Ross for this blog and for your sharing these stories
College town here. Girls down at the pub are so starved
for good solid sexy convo, that when he walks in, they crowd
around this 60 year old guy just to get their ears full.
I swear to it. Ross is straight telling truth. Yes, it
is indeed likely that one will get laid with que cards.
But be carful. Those young college jocks, will start
swinging, when they get drunk. My nose is proof.
Hi Ross,
Last night I was at a math class and when the teacher dismissed for 5min. break I saw this particular girl that had this sexy gait.. I could just tell she was a creampieable (before seeing her face et. al. feats) ’cause rarely can ugly girl walk like she did.
I then notice as she walked right pass me out the door she had this wonderful scent/perfume on. I walked out the door and followed after her and got her attention. I told her as she walked pass me I smelled the scent and I wonder what it was. She said it was called, “Love spell”.
I responded, “Well, it sure worked because it drove me toward you and I found it very attractive.”
Immediately she responded, “I have a boyfriend.” and started walking away. I shouted, “You’re crazy! I didn’t say anything about that. I only wanted to compliment. Bye.”
She then stopped and thought for a second and said, “Oh!”
I walked off and let her go. (it was very dark outside and I wasn’t gonna run after her in the dark across the parking lot)
Well, all I can say is that I sure hope her boyfriend is hott and fulfills and fucks her in all the ways she truly wants to be touched.. but either way, I don’t care. Next time I see her, we won’t remember each other and b/f will probably be non-existent.
Didn’t get to sarge today but sure will meet some nice, new flesh tomorrow! =)
Cheers!
p.s. Ross, I really think there is a scarcity in the female population. I swear to Thor, the ugs far outnumber the princesses. If I ever become dictator.. I’ll make it illegal for ugly people to procreate.
Ross,
That chick with the cigar is kinda ugly in the face. But for some reason I would still enjoy fucking her. Like jizzing on her breats. I’m sure she would be a lot more prettier in the face and younger if she didn’t smoke. I hate when chicks smoke.. (unless in moderation and not around me)
Mat – Ha ha ha – it’s a phallic symbol!