Dear Seeker of Success,
A lot of us have been there.
Your Sarge is going well, she’s already snuggled up right next to you, her hands boldly going places on you they’ve not gone before (for her).
Any minute now, you’re going to use one of the proven Speed Seduction® techniques for getting her back to your place.
Just one problem – it’s not really, ahem, “your” place.
It happens: hot and horny women go ice-cold and incurious before you finish saying the word “parents”.
All that’s about to change.
I, Too, Moved Back In With My Parents
At One Point As An Adult
When I was 28 or 29, when my comedy-writing career finally failed dismally and right before I published my first book, “How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed” in 1988, I moved back in with my folks for a bit.
In this photo (a publicity shot for the book promo) you are looking at a man who hadn’t exactly been out on his own for a long time, but had nonetheless become a published f@@king AUTHOR and was about to take the talk-show circuit by storm.
Listen: as far as your situation just don’t bring it up. If she brings it up, say something like “I live here. I’m sharing space with some people right now.”
That is a 100% truthful statement.
Whatever You Want With Women,
You Can Have…At Home
Are you looking to get married? If so, knowing you’re being frugal and investing wisely in the future by staying with your parents to save up some dough could be a point of attraction for her, especially if you’ve already tapped into her “dream” vision (FREE Sarge tip – you’re welcome).
Are you just looking to have fun and talk to women? Unless your parents forbid you to bring women home, when she’s that into you, WHERE things happen won’t matter. Women will do it in the back seat and the bathroom stall, why not your basement bungalow?
Let Me Drive This Point Home
When Speed Seduction® works, it works so well that it makes logistical details irrelevant. All this stuff about texting and how to get her phone number that the other guys are teaching tells you what they’re doing. It’s a very low level of power.
When you ramp up your girl-getting game, fly females and sultry senoritas will bang down your f***ing door to get at your cock.
They’ll fly across an ocean.
They’ll do anything.
The rest of this shit doesn’t mean jack-shit. It’s like having an H-bomb, and you’re worried about the bunker.
Bomb the f@@king bunk-her (phonological ambiguity in action – again, you’re welcome) and WIN.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. Discover just some of what you’ll be experiencing, learning and automatically absorbing, from me: the living legend and undisputed father of the seduction community. You can study this at home.
Hey Ross, why don’t you do more interviews?
Some good candidates:
Manosphere Radio
Danger & Play podcast
Good Looking Loser podcast
Would be cool to hear you appear together with some of the newer guys in the game.
@Swedish fan
Thank you for the great suggestions. As you will see shortly, we are about to launch a new campaign to move both the Speed Seduction and the Persuasion Mastery Systems brands to the very top of this whole podcast thing that’s been making its rounds on the interwebs lately.
Stay tuned, as it were.
Again, thank you for your excellent recommendations!
RJ
Speaking of interviews,
How can I get access from all your interviews from the good ol’ days back in the 90’s. Weren’t you on Springer and Donahue and that one lady’s show?
Too bad you were never on Oprah. (or were you?)
I really want to see those interviews!
You really think they’ll come after you if you leak them on YouTube? I mean, for real? The most they could do is get YouTube to take them down but I doubt it’s going to happen.
I (and others) wanna see those interviews from back in the day!!!
Will you make them available somehow? Pleasssee? 😀
Oh… and my response to living in parents is…. (I used to think it was a big deal…)
1) I love my puppy too much.
2) That rent money goes to growing my business and taking care of people in the UK and Phillippines. If I got my own place,
I literally deprive others of work and means to making a living. How selfish.
3) I’m not focused on creating a lifestyle. I’m focused on making the world a better place.
4) Parents work all day to pay the mortgage and are not at home for most of the day… Pretty stupid to want my own place.
5) Fools go to work and trade their time for a wage in order to afford a place to live. I don’t believe in that.
6) It’s environmentally friendly to be minimalist and share.
7) I would get too lonely and so would parents and dog.
8) I’m just fine here.
9) Could take rent money and buy a property and get a renter to give me money every month. You know… others first. 😉
10) Not interested in impressing anyone.
11) Just not interested in my own place right now. I’m comfortable.
But really…. it’s more of the attitude. If you you’re comfortable with it, it doesn’t matter. Unless you’re playing the dating game/frame.
Other thing: If she is expecting I’m some sugar daddy… That then disqualifies her in my book.
Most college-age girls don’t give a fuck if you live with mommy and daddy.
What’s that one guy from Britian? IATF (just abbreviated so I won’t promote him ;). He was living on welfare (I think he still does)
and would get women to take care of him so he could do pick-up…. I don’t believe in that but that’s an extreme and far worse
than living with folks and he was still getting women.
Not to say that I’m proud of living with parents. It’s actually very annoying. They’re always talking about Jesus and how evil sex is. Especially my father. He’s been rejected by my mother so many times. My mother apparently never gave him a blow job because it’s against her Catholic morals (I find out all this crazy stuff because he keeps getting older and doesn’t care anymore and will say whatever).
But… still far better than working to afford my own place. I want my business to pay for that. I’m not going to get a job just for a place to live.
Even if I was offered $50 per hour… I doubt I would move out. I would use all that surplus money to grow business for another couple years.
“They’re always talking about Jesus and how evil sex is. Especially my father. He’s been rejected by my mother so many times. My mother apparently never gave him a blow job because it’s against her Catholic morals ”
And people say there is no such thing as hypnosis.
“Meaning and morality of One’s life come from within oneself. Healthy, strong individuals seek self expansion by experimenting and by living dangerously. Life consists of an infinite number of possibilities and the healthy person explores as many of them as posible. Religions that teach pity, self-contempt, humility, self-restraint and guilt are incorrect. The good life is ever changing, challenging, devoid of regret, intense, creative and risky.”
― Friedrich Nietzsche
“I (and others) wanna see those interviews from back in the day!!!”
I agree, and it has been mentioned before. I think in this day, people want, CRAVE rebellion against all the mainstream nonsense and bogus authority figures…the time is right to strike. Nowadays, rebellion on utube is commonplace and is beginning to be homogenized into the mainstream. Jeffries had the balls to spit in their faces when it wasn’t in vogue and there wasn’t the seclusion from an audience as there is with the internet
Such an interesting article!! HAHA!
I live with my parents and have definitely struggled with this from time to time. Usually it does cause a bit of a stir so I usually try go back to theirs!! lol.
I have not yet read through your other articles (but will soon!). I just started a segment on my blog about picking up chicks! I only have a single article but I think it might have a few valuable tips in there that I have learnt!
If you don’t mind me throwing a link here 😛
http://www.path-2-greatness.com/pick-up/
Its nothing really, if you check on the SS list there was a brother who took a girl home while his folks were there and she already knew that he lived with his parents.