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  • Diño August 31, 2010, 11:54 am

    That´s an h-bomb pattern. Unfortunatelly those ambiguities in the 2nd part doesn´t totaly aplly in portuguese, although i could divise from myself some poetry with similar ambiguities… The results are devastating, and the way i´ve used it, it turns in something you want to use with caution, just like some of the “forbidden” patterns…
    Great insights about the responses, although i think sometimes even when you get a type 5 response you can get your way around it with some metacomments and reframing, specially when i use it with quotes. Of course you do this only if you find it worthy, if not, i direct my precious time to someone who could enjoy it more…

    • Ross Jeffries August 25, 2017, 2:53 pm

      I’m aware that we sometimes need to, well, translate the wording to account for language and cultural considerations.

      When you understand the techniques, as much as (or more than) the words themselves, you have the power to adapt.

      You seem to have a pretty good handle on this.

  • Tom August 31, 2010, 4:28 pm

    This is a good short pattern. I have had 2 threesomes in my life and neither were very hard to get. My girlfriend at the time of the first one was bi curious which opened up many doors of opportunity. The other one was when I was in Miami on vacation. Two “girlfriends” I was partying with invited me to come back to their hotel room with them. Now I am a white male that only dates black and hispanic women. The reason that is significant is because as a general rule communication tends to be a bit different with these women. I find that just stating what you like and want and are willing to do at the very beginning goes a long way toward getting it from them in the end. I don’t know that such bluntness would work as well with white females.

    • Ross Jeffries August 25, 2017, 2:55 pm

      These kinds of experiences are easier to get than many people are willing to believe.

      A student of mine was in the library working on a term paper with two female classmates. He knew the one was into him, but thought the other didn’t even like him.

      Then they proposed going back to his place so he could have them both at the same time.

      It was a surprise. He went for it. Found out he hit it off more with the one he didn’t think liked him!

  • Mat August 31, 2010, 4:49 pm

    OH Wow! I never thought about that.. 😉 I’m gonna try this tomorrow! I’ll let you know.

    Cheers!

  • steve August 31, 2010, 11:27 pm

    I find it too hot sleeping between 2 girls you sweat heaps ..lol and they being gals they ended up breaking up as friends.. caused more trouble than it was worth…lol

    • Ross Jeffries August 25, 2017, 2:56 pm

      1) Air conditioning.

      2) That’s not your fault.

  • ali September 1, 2010, 2:42 am

    when I asked my girlfriend about threesome, she answered she will be ok with it if I accept a 2-male to 1 female threesome, too!
    How do you handle this answer?

    • Ross Jeffries August 25, 2017, 2:57 pm

      Ask yourself if you’d enjoy that.

      If you don’t mind, go for it. You won’t be judged by anyone who matters, and you’ll be surprised how many heterosexual guys have done the MFM.

      If you do mind it, though, don’t.

      Stay true to your integrity.

  • K.K. September 1, 2010, 7:53 am

    Heh! Nice incantation, you crafty bastard.
    (Trivia: it’s said that only 1 in 30 girls would consider a threesome, but when alcohol’s involved, it drops to 1 in 9.)

    You might just want to include a ‘caveat emptor’ line that threesomes work best as spontaneous ‘flings’ with new girls. If you have an existing relationship with a girl you really care about and want to keep around, a threesome can be what ends the relationship. (Of course, maybe Speed Seduction includes a way around this.)

    • Ross Jeffries August 25, 2017, 3:01 pm

      When you have open communication and everyone’s on the same page, it can work out fine.

      Some chicks are into polyamory; or are bisexual, want to be in a relationship with a man but also play with other girls.

      Find a woman who meets the criteria you need and go from there.

  • Bartman September 1, 2010, 3:45 pm

    Ross, that’s pure gold!! And not just for threesomes – a pattern like that could cause her to lose every inhibition she has.

    I have the benefit of living in a tourist town. Most of the women I meet are in an environment where nobody knows them and they don’t expect to see anyone around here again. I’ve made a habit of reminding them of that fact. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard something along the lines of, “I wouldn’t do this back home where my friends could find out about it, but I want to .”

    Girls on vacation are FUN!! Now just imagine getting any girl into that mindset at will! Whew! The possibilities are mind blowing.

    Honestly, Ross, that pattern is priceless, and you gave it away for free. We all owe you a great big “Thank You”!!

    • Ross Jeffries August 25, 2017, 3:02 pm

      You’re welcome.

      Many of my students go to the “tourist” areas of their own town for the reasons you describe.

  • Diño September 1, 2010, 4:00 pm

    This topic also reminded me an old pickup line: The guy says to the girl: “Debbie, do you like pu##y?” she answers: “NO! of course not…” Guy: “So, could you give me yours?” LOL

    • Ross Jeffries August 25, 2017, 3:02 pm

      Combine that with the “What’s His Pickup Line?” technique and you’re mining solid gold.

  • Sgt Paul September 7, 2010, 9:11 am

    To Little #4 (if he’s even an adult), drink less if you want to sweat less in bed. ANY kind of bedwetting is not cool, just so you know. #5 might actually consider honestly telling her his feelings! What a f@@king concept! #8 should come back when his pu##y grows pubic hair. Ross, YOU are one dangerous bastard. I salute yer crazy a$$. Consider yourself an Honorary USAF Security Forces member minus the wussy PC bull$#it.

    • Ross Jeffries September 7, 2010, 12:00 pm

      USAF Security Forces?

      Hmmm…just what exactly are you guarding? Any UFO type stuff?

      I’ve seen some VERY weird shit flying around and I’m not kidding. Even had a Close Encounter when I was 9 years hold. Damn thing filled up the window of the room I was in, just hung there, making no possible sense. Was a shifting, glowing blob of light with a vaguely barrel shape. I’m not joking.

  • Chuck July 17, 2013, 9:14 am

    Hey Ross,

    This is a follow-up to your email of September 7, 2010 at 2:00 pm to Sgt. Paul.

    I’ve seen some weird sh*t too and no, I wasn’t smokin’ any. Also, had an Air Force radar operator confirm same. Maybe you should contact Major Mark, or someone a little closer to home, for a little regression hypno….might be there’s more that occurred in your experience, that you’re not recalling.

    Just a thought.

    • Ross Jeffries August 25, 2017, 3:03 pm

      It’s been a long time since I’ve spoken with Major Mark.

      Some guys have been asking for an update to the old “Frame Control” curriculum. I’m tossing the idea around.

    • Wifeylinks August 26, 2017, 4:03 pm

      wtf u really taking about Ross…for real bro …u had dat fucking awesome fucking experience..lolllllll

  • tara July 17, 2013, 10:52 am

    Ross,here u r really tricky.u ask her to think herself but actually u through a “direction” by giving a situation and then u hv narrowed down the option to direct it to froce her to think of-lonely place-no fear-so socail leakage- some person whom u like–what feeling u want to hv
    Ross u hv actually no given her any choice but thrown a scene with no choice but to think only sexuall pleasure and that too she will feel that it was her thinking and not urs.
    really great conversation design…..

    • Ross Jeffries August 25, 2017, 3:04 pm

      You decoded it!

      Here are the keys to the Kingdom of Sarge.

      The Gray Cat awaits your arrival.

      • PeteV-NYC August 29, 2017, 10:22 pm

        RJ, you still got it! (not that I’d ever thought you’d lose it, haha).

        Just checking in on you, and glad to see you’re still the greatest teacher these guys could ask for. I hope all’s been well.

        -Pete

  • Harry Lime August 25, 2017, 7:12 pm

    Reunite with that flip flop wearing bastard mark CUNNINGham ? Last I heard he was in Hollywood gallivanting around with 80’s star Katherine Oxenberg, and has been rejected by mainstream America with trying to introduce his world….Speaking of frame control , what was the point of that long ass pattern at the end, was it a DOS version of the pattern you introduced on this blog?

    • Ross Jeffries September 1, 2017, 3:47 pm

      It’s been a long time since I’ve spoken with Major Mark.

      Some guys have been asking for an update to the old “Frame Control” curriculum. I’m tossing the idea around.

  • christian August 27, 2017, 1:36 am

    you displayed curiousity by asking them if they were sisters

  • Paul August 27, 2017, 4:02 pm

    Good one. and blah, blah, blah……I also find that as our lives..GO BY (I)QUICKLY. NOW WITH ME… THIS MOMENT to discover…blah, blah, blah, ha, ha and under the radar

    • Ross Jeffries September 1, 2017, 3:43 pm

      See, you got the idea! With this wisdom, you can make up your own patterns now. That’s a rubicon few ever manage to cross.

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