Dear Seeker of Success,
In the past 25+ years, I can’t tell you how many times a student of mine has told me about a hot chick he KNOWS he could have scored, if only he knew she was single.
He’ll tell me has no fear of approaching a woman and knows how to get her hot, and that he would have done it…
…except he thought she was married or had a boyfriend and didn’t want to “make waves.”
Look: when you claim who you are and what you give to the world, by definition, that makes waves.
But sometimes, that’s only in your mind – your worry that by Sarging on a particular hottie, you might cause a problem with someone who actually won’t care one way or the other (in other words, no jealous husband or boyfriend who might want to fight you.)
This just in:
Ross, about a week ago I went to a party hosted by some friends of the family. The same people host the same party every year so it was routine. In fact I knew the Sarging pickings would be slim, so I had about zero expectations. I was there mostly to make an appearance and planned to leave early so I could held elsewhere and up my odds for the night.
Anyway, one of the women at the party is someone I always thought was hot and I always got along with. Mutual acquaintances tell me that she asks about me all the time. Every time I’ve seen her before she was with her husband, who is a friend of the family. Two minutes before she came up to me, in fact, I had been talking to him. Well, I found out the next day that he is now her EX-husband.
So the woman I always knew as his wife…is now his EX-wife. Best part – she was there without a date, just like I was.
Man, I could have banged her, if only I had KNOWN she was single!
Why didn’t someone TELL me?
A better question would be,
Why The Hell Didn’t You FIND OUT?
Were you paying attention to her body language, signals, and the ‘vibe’ she was putting out toward you when she approached you at the party?
Did you ask her how things were going, what she was up to, what she had been doing with her life since the last time you saw her?
This “sudden” change in her status would have come up in conversation if she is, indeed, interested in you.
When I Sarge on a woman, whether she is someone I’ve just met or someone I know from before. I ask a lot of questions.
I do this not to fill gaps in conversation, but to gather information I can immediately use to
Arouse Her Senses And Get Her Hot
To Go On A Carnal Carnival Ride
Perhaps, since this was a “family” party and you’re friends with her husband (well, make that ex-husband), using one of my Boyfriend Destroyer patterns might have seemed inappropriate.
But dude … there was no boyfriend or husband to “destroy.”
Next time you see her (or any other “blast from the past”), do your homework with her and use my teachings to get an accurate read on the likely success of your girl-getting game.
Then claim mastery of your game!
P.S. With insights and practical applications of the fundamental female functioning principle-the “operating system” and “machine language” of the female body and mind – this student would not have needed to ask anyone what her “status” is.
He would have known the “coast was clear” and the “water slide was wet”.
In my Rapid and Total Success With Women System, you will learn how to create irresistible POSITIVE challenge that draws women forward and massively magnifies her her attraction to you, from the first word spoken to her last gasp of pleasure – whether you just met her or you’ve seen her a hundred times.
DO NOT let her get away again.