Dear Seeker of Success,
Why do first dates turn into last dates?
Why are they so tedious that not only does she start thumbing her i(don’t-answer-my)Phone to check in on her other “orbiters,” but you find yourself struggling to keep her attention?
Why does she say “call me later” instead of “let’s do it again Thursday at 6” as she gives you a warm, friend-ly hug at the end of the (short) evening?
What about those short, slowly-returned phone calls that always seem to end before you get a real Sargy word in?
How To Convey The Sexual Vibe That
Brings Her Back For More
There are some subtle things you can do to begin to convey a sexual vibe to a new woman, in addition to the language patterns and the story you tell about what your buddy saw on the Discovery Channel the other night.
One of them is harder eye contact, and to allow points in the conversation to actually drop and for no one to say anything.
Let it get a little bit uncomfortable. Then keep looking in her eyes, but don’t look away. Let her look away.
IMPORTANT: don’t keep doing it. Do it once during the course of hanging out with her. That alone will make a little bit of tension that might spark things.
Another: sit side by side. Sit the way couples sit if you want to couple with her.
Think of it as a nonverbal cue that gets her subsconsciously thinking, “Oh, I must be in a relationship with him. I must already be involved to sit side by side with him.”
The third happens either before or after the in-person meet: when you talk to her on the phone, YOU be the one to end the conversation. Leave her wanting more.
You know how it feels when she says “Well, I have laundry to do, and my dog needs a walk” just as you’re about to wow her with another language pattern.
You think to yourself, “wow, I hope I didn’t bore her.”
You find yourself checking her Facebook to make sure she doesn’t post 13 more status updates tonight – even if you guys aren’t “friends” there and she doesn’t know you found her there. It drives you crazy when she posts the latest pic of herself and 9 guys like it and comment on it, wondering how many of these guys she’s f@@ked.
Hell, you probably check out the GUYS to see how often she writes on THEIR wall, and how many pics of her are in THEIR albums. (Ha ha, you do this. Admit it.)
No.
Instead, let HER have those feelings when she Facebook stalks you. She’ll probably call, text, IM, or whatever before you have a chance to.
Okie dokie?
Now stop fussing and start seducing.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. For the “whole enchilada” on how to convey a Sargy sexual vibe, claim your Rapid and Total Success With Women.
Hey mr ross jeffries I watched one of your seminars on you tube called beyond confidence and the information in that seminar was just truly out of this world,I especially loved the part where you talk about how our language either curses us like in fairy tales or it makes us feel free to do whatever it is that we desire to do depending on what we say to ourselves!after absorbing and listening to that seminar I just felt different about myself,like I know now that I I have more to offer and that I’m more valuable to the chicks and me giving them my attention is the best gift they can get!eva!and im slowly but surely certainly implanting that into my subconcious mind!to all the you guys who haven’t spent some cash to learn some amazing stuff frm ross,I suggest u do it asap cuz this shit is mind blowing!absolutely fantastic!I’ve said enough now,peace!
@Flowmania
Thank you for these awesome words! Although we don’t promote the Beyond Confidence course anymore, these teachings are available inside Secrets of Hyper-Response and Core Attraction.
Ross
How can people say looks dont matter- do 45yo pot belly guys out pull 22yo ripped college ball players in a club for the prime 18-24 yo girls?
Most old guys get laughed out of youth centric venues (clubs, day game on campuses). Older guys tend to need some $ for provider game for the broke young girls.
Those are neither the venues nor the approaches older men should take to attract younger women.
For fun, note that although Andy Sipowicz is a fictional character, he’s a classic example of how to be bald, overweight, middle-aged, uglier than original sin, and generally disagreeable with the charm of a toad and continually score with progressively younger, hotter women.
There are two modules on how to succeed with younger women in The Secret Training Collection.
Also these:
What The “Everyman” Needs To Know About Scoring With Celebrity Chicks
https://www.seduction.com/blog/scoring-with-celebrity-chicks/
How To Be Uglier Than An Inbred Toad And Still Get Laid Like Crazy!
https://www.seduction.com/blog/ugly-guys-get-laid-too/
Yes, You CAN Score With Younger Women (Despite What “They” Say)
https://www.seduction.com/blog/score-with-younger-women/
He Wants To “Date” Younger Women….How Dumb!
https://www.seduction.com/blog/he-wants-to-date-younger-womenhow-dumb/
Succeed With Younger Women: Key Understandings
https://www.seduction.com/blog/succeed-with-younger-women/
Ross,
I notice a recurring theme in your work is to make women have those feelings of eroticism, passion, etc.
But…
What should I do if I don’t have those feelings as an early 30s virgin man?
It jus seems weird for me to be like “when this comes to mind” and “you feel this now with me” when I’ve never felt it at all (literally).
@Seth
Check this out: How To Transform Your Self-Image With Women
This is also a function of Showing Up Attractive.