“How Can I Tell If She’s Interested In Me?”

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you Sarge on the amazing, incredibly sexy women in your world, the goal is to succeed with as many women as possible who meet your standards, based on the screening tools that you use to interpret the feedback they give you.

fotolia_2085866_smallLike I’ve said: it’s a matter of interpretation. I hear many stories about students of mine who effortlessly approach a woman and use my techniques for getting her aroused and excited, but they don’t “make the move” because they just can’t tell if she’s really interested, or if he goes for the close, she might slap him.

Case in point:

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I would appreciate some good tips from you on “women’s signals of interest”. Also if there are any exceptions to those “signals of interest,” meaning they really may not be what they sound like….I am really terrible at this, although the obvious things are slamming my forehead screaming “Dude, wake up!!! That’s the signal!”

I still somehow hesitate because most of the time I am really unsure and don`t wish to screw up anything – and most importantly lose her as a friend.

Last time I had coffee with a friend of mine, everything was fine. We chatted a little bit and had some really good laughs. Somehow I noticed there may have been some interest from her side. Although she smiled, I still wasn’t too sure if it was a GO or NO GO. I mean, a man can’t simply see a woman’s interest just from her smile, if she is having a good time or laughing about something unless it is you.

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Thank you for your excellent question. My answer is in two parts.

First, let me challenge your thinking. Are you looking to make more friends, or are you looking for Penthouse-worthy erotic encounters with dripping-wet, hot women? I first powerfully approach women, then based on the feedback they give me I decide what category they fit in. When you approach women, you need to be clear on your end goal – and focus ALL of your energy, skills, and power toward claiming that goal.

Second, you don’t need to wait for sure to see if there’s interest on her side. When you use Speed Seduction®, you’ll see the fascination and desire in her face. I call this the “doggy bowl dinner” look.

The student I spoke about on my blog last month who had sex with the squirter on the first date told me that he had encountered challenges “reaching” her during their dinner to the point where he almost took her home early. But back at his place, after some bantering and patterning, she gave him this “look”. He chose to interpret it as her way of nonverbally saying, “it’s on” and powerfully made his move. He used Speed Seduction® to tell the difference.

Peace, piece, and here’s “looking” at much girl-getting success,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

P.S. Forget about ever again being confused by a woman’s emotional 180s, her fluctuations between wanting you and pushing you away, her last minute buyer’s remorse, contradictory signals, sudden loss of interest and other up until now deeply frustrating and seemingly irrational actions.

SpeedSeductionDeluxe100With what I teach you about this principle throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS in my Speed Seduction® 3.0 System, you’ll remain calmly in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation.

Claim your copy now and next time you’re trying to read her signals, you’ll know exactly what you’re looking at.

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2 Responses to “How Can I Tell If She’s Interested In Me?”

  1. saintsfan20 says:

    Ross, isn't this a perfect example of one/two of your Mantras?

    I make no excuses for my desires as a man.
    I move through the world without apology.

    Still don't have all this stuff memorized/”mastered” but one lesson I vividly remember was along the lines “Take what is mine, and make no excuses.” I believe this was one of your lessons in response to a guy who was uncertain about when/if to make a move.

  2. If a girl is truly interested in you she would make it a point to look into your eyes every time you talk to her. Her mouth would be slightly open while she talks to you and she would be very attentive to each and every word which comes out of your mouth.
    She would make it a point to brush your arm slightly while she passes you by. This is a sign that she is trying to ignite that sensual feeling in you so that you notice her more and give her your attention.
    She would tend to get nervous and a bit uneasy around you as she would try to act and be her best self.

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