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  • Zarathud July 23, 2013, 6:17 am

    Does the absurdity have to be provocative? Are you opposed to the safe,normal and everyday standard of breaking the ice for those of us for our who are already struggling with the freaking women out more than being a outright afraid of them?

    • Ross Jeffries July 23, 2013, 9:00 am

      @It’s not required; but I like to test women to see how they respond to something a bit off the wall, that is also not
      threatening. If they lean into it, they are of interest to me.

      RJ

      • ZaraThud July 24, 2013, 3:51 am

        Somehow it seems less threatening after your reply. This really hit a nerve yesterday because the one time I set out to use it several months ago I had a really bad reaction. I realize now that the target and context may have made it a little threatening, not to mention my own state of unrest.

        Here’s what I’ve done instead a couple of times, just to have some experience of observing her response and walking away without making it a big emotional even:

        “Hey can I ask you a question?”
        [I wait for her to reply – it’s always been positive.]
        “What’s the first thing that pops in your mind when someone says to you, ‘Can I ask you a question?'”

        The answers have been, “Directions?” and “What’s the question?”

        Not one has said, “Pickup, sales, etc”

        I don’t know if there’s anywhere else to go with that one. It’s satisfied my curiosity that there are women out there who are not spring loaded to pre-reject a decent guy who approaches them respectfully.

  • A M July 23, 2013, 7:21 am

    Amazing post as usual….
    I also use this synesthesia to get rid of bad advices and learnt limitations, I love it because it’s powerful and fun at the same time: I create a situation and I associate a terrific wind of dump when they start talking. Then I visualize and enjoy a reality according to the new unleashed beliefs.
    “She is too young for you, she has a boyfriend, my friend likes her too, she shouldn’t desire you….blah-blah ….”
    I love this “give the finger breath visualization”
    I think it’s a kind of magick.

  • charlie July 27, 2013, 4:48 pm

    I used that on my way home from work just less than an hour ago. she just looked away, as though she was trying to understand what I just said, gave a cute smile, looked at me, and said, “I don’t know how to do that, sorry” and walked away. I said thanks after fifteen seconds. I lost my watch at the library so I had to use my fingers.

  • ZaraThud July 30, 2013, 2:49 am

    I’ve had two women in the last 3 days coldly ignore me without being asked, which is rare. The second was in the lobby waiting for car service so there was no escape for either of us. I felt the disproportionate rage, let it pass and eventually did get a conversation going with her when she walked out for a minute and came back I said, “Just couldn’t resist my sunny smile, could you?” [blah blah blah] asked her what she did and answer was lingere design. Couldn’t get the wording right on the curiosity question for that to really engage her (tried 2-3x), but that’s a recent post I can review…

  • Isaac September 6, 2013, 5:21 pm

    Willing to try something and having the will to make mistakes is better then doing nothing at all 🙂 I like to think of it as a win win situation. If you approach a girl and whatever happens happens, good or bad…thats better then not approaching at all then hating yourself for it.

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