Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,
Since today is Independence Day here in the United States, I want to share with you some thoughts about magic and freedom.
There is magic in the mastery of using language to capture and lead imagination and emotions.
There is the magic of knowing what to notice that remains invisible to the eye of most.
And, then, there is the deeper magic.
The magic of being willing to step into the unknown AND freeing the other person of any expectation about how THEY should respond or will respond.
Truly freeing them.
As in willing and able to ground yourself into a place of energetic acceptance (they can do whatever they want, **I** control where my energy goes) of their first response, whatever it may be. You are going to respond by staying grounded and holding compassion.
That doesn’t mean you STAY there or make their first response YOUR permanent “truth” about the situation.
Here is why this is so powerful, and why this brings you freedom:
Even the hottest woman has areas of her life where she feels stuck. Things or ways of being or feeling she’s like to try but doesn’t. And she wants reassurance BEFORE she steps out of the boat – so she stays in the boat and just watches the waves and wonders. EVERY WOMAN HAS A PART OF HER LIFE WHERE THIS IS SO.
So when she sees you, a person WILLING to step into what is unknown for you, willing to be open and vulnerable (but not needy) with life and living that is sexy.
She won’t be able to explain it, she’ll feel it.
By itself, that is sexy.
Now, so many people, when they finally do have a way to step beyond their comfort zone are SO filled with expectations and demands on the situation and on others.
“Hey, I opened up to you. I risked. Now I DEMAND you open up back”
So when you open up and step beyond the known as a choice for yourself WITH NO DEMANDS AT ALL ON THE OTHER PERSON, that freedom, that “not doing”, that “vacuum” around you creates a pull forward.
You place no pressure. You have no “push” on them at all.
There is no-thing for them to resist.
These two elements combined create a deeper magic few will ever even see.
And the two elements don’t add up.
They MULTIPLY.
So it’s not 100 points of attractive vibe PLUS 100 points of attractive vibe.
It’s 100 points times 100 points. That’s 10,000 points of attractive vibe.
Now, add to that:
Basic walk up energies that enable you to effortlessly approach any woman, any time, anywhere.
Language skills.
The energetic touch secrets.
I think that puts you up near the 20,000 points of attraction – right out of the gate.
None of this requires arrogant swagger or being a loudmouth.
And NONE OF IT REQUIRES ANY PAST “SUCCESS”.
You can have it now, in a heatbeat, in between the passing of one second to the next, in between the fading of this thought and the arising of the next.
Strip away the nonsense and crap that has swirled and guess what: YOU ALREADY ARE THIS.
You just have to be quiet enough to remember.
And in that, there is freedom that goes beyond words.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Imagine a life that has no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, where you walk like a giant where other people fear to step.
No matter what is holding you back, now is the time to break free of the chains, get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted.
Beautiful, Ross! Love it!
HI Ross,
I have read heaps of your work and I am amazed at your understanding of the human mind.My conclusion to date is that I think the mind is so complex that to analyze it like you do and from that to discover why we act the way we do,is a complex road.I recon your grounding all emotional energy,then letting the natural personality energy,undistorted by past experiences energy, is the nucleus of successful behavour in energy charged situations,going to a high pressure meeting,walking up to an attractive woman,anything.That is the answer then let the natural spontanious energy which is you,come forth.You taught that to me.You are a great man Ross doing great things in this world.You are an amazing teacher.Wow
Ross, I’ve been following your blog for about a year and a half, and this has got to be the most powerful and beautiful (yes I said it) thing that I’ve had the good fortune to read. I just wanted to say thanks, and happy 4th!
G’day JR
You have indicated:
As in willing and able to ground yourself into a place of energetic acceptance (they can do whatever they want, **I** control where my energy goes) of their first response, whatever it may be. You are going to respond by staying grounded and holding compassion.
You then go to explain
Could you explain it better, now for me, and give a real life practical example.
Thanks RJ
See Ya
Ross, sometimes you truly amaze me how you give so much for free… it´s really admirable, no wonder why people keep refering to you as a guru…
Dino, it’s because I AM the Kwisatz Haderach!
Al,
I’m the best at what I do. And what I do isn’t very nice.
amazing read ross. really makes you think about things a different way than most of us are used to. thanks.
Amazing post, Ross. Way to make how I see my interactions with people do a 180.
It’s almost like they’re free people too ….
Your teaching has only gotten better throughout the years.
Samwise,
I agree about my teaching. As I enter my 20th year of doing this, I am even more pleased at how I keep improving. I love my work.
Catch me at a seminar one day! I’m in Norway and London this summer!
RJ
Ross,
You are the best. Best in the world in what you do.
Thank you for being a great service to man-kind!
Freedom comes from knowing but still accepting the uncertainty and giving radical permission to the other person in what they want to do!
Ram
Your stuff is great. I just finihed 3.0 On my last sarge I ask an HB if she is from Tennessee. (as part of a put on, and she said yes).
But back to Ross, he is a true lifesaver for all the men drowning in the sea of Dating Misery)
p.s. Screw David DeAsshole and the rest of the fakers that wasted my time.
Hey Ross,
… the other day I was getting coffee and this beautiful, tall brunette,
and her aviator sunglasses…
places herself Right next to me at the counter and says…
ahem…
Can you please…
stir my coffee
(in a sexual tone)
(I didn’t say a WORD it’s just that I was really excited about
studying more of your material, over a cup of coffee and
BAM!!
before I could even mix in the sugar
this girl just
walks up!?)
All I can say is thank you, and (ahem)
Happy 4th of July Ross!!
RJ that whole article was poetry. Wow! Complete motivation.
Ross,
Would you please make a MP3 sound file of this text and post it in your website or vault?
Thank you in advance.
Ram
@Ram Damn good idea. I’m on it. Forward this to my tech guy too: shophelp@seduction.com and he’ll remind me.