Dear Seeker of Success,
Pretty much every single day, our customer support team gets questions like “which recorded course has so-and-so pattern?”
I get asked this all the time on webinars and group calls, too.
I’ll say here, what I say there:
Memorizing patterns and reciting them to women will rarely, in and of itself, get you laid.
Not unless, that is, you
Make Her FEEL What It Would Be Like To Be
Inside The Experience You’re Describing!
For example, let’s say you’re doing the Discovery Channel pattern.
You’re describing that long, slow, vertical climb. You have to imagine in your mind being on that rollercoaster. You know what I’m talking about. First of all, the pattern has to reflect an experience you’ve either had, can imagine or have watched. Do you understand that bit?
If you’re doing a pattern about incredible connection, in order to make it sound like it’s coming from your experience, you have to imagine what it would feel like in your body to feel that kind of connection.
Also:
Be Sure NOT To Edit Out The “Ums”
and “Uhs” In Your Presentation
When people are speaking extemporaneously, meaning that they’re being spontaneous, they have pauses. I’ll add in a few uhs and pauses to make it sound natural.
For example, I’d say, “Have you ever, uh, felt, like, an incredible connection with someone? You know, that kind of sense of click?”
That’s right: actually rehearse it so that it’s like you’re trying to draw the words from your mind rather than it being something you have memorized. Add in a few pauses like you’re almost struggling to find the words.
This way you
Don’t Sound Like You’re Cold-Calling Her To Sell
Her A New i(don’t-actually-answer-my)Phone
Put some variety in your voice. Have people ever called you on the phone and tried to sell you something?
They say, “Good evening, sir. I’m so-and-so from AT&T Sprint. Tonight, we’re offering ____.”
You can tell, just from the way they’re talking, that there’s a script.
There’s something nonhuman about it. You want to make sure you don’t sound like that.
Finally, SLOW DOWN!
Make sure that you’re speaking slowly enough so she can process what you’re saying.
If you’re speaking a million miles an hour, even if she wants to hear you, she’s not going to be able to.
(For even more on this topic, click here.)
Peace,
RJ
P.S. The “New Code” you will discover in London allows you to apply the methods and techniques in a way that feels much more natural and much less forced.
That translates into many more Mattress Macarenas.
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Yes….Ross, you may disagree, but I’ll even count 3 seconds in my head, to slow me down…to ‘pause’ at the right moment…for instance, “Have you ever (1-2-3) felt an incredible connection with someone? (1-2-3) Like maybe (1-2-3) while you were there, (1-2-3-) looking at them (1-2-3-) it was like there was a chord of light (1-2-3) going from you (1-2-3) to them”.
This “pausing’ does seem to actually have a ‘hypnotic’ effect….I’ve actually had a woman say, “your voice is like demerol. It feels so good all the way through me” Ha….she kissed pretty good!
@Rhino
No disagreement here! I’d just suggest, rehearse this looking in the mirror a few times and make sure you’re not mouthing the “1-2-3” silently with your lips while you count down in your mind. And if so practice NOT mouthing it.
I think this why many men who try this stuff out say “it doesn’t work” in part probably because they are not introspective to feel comfortable in there own emotions . So that is the reason it may not work if it recited flatly, that women can somehow pick up on our own internal states,.
@Harry
I’ve told many students who ask “how long does it take to achieve mastery” that it takes about 10-12 weeks. Which is why all of my private coaching programs have at least a 12-week commitment if not more.
hi there, I have not been successful at figuring out how to do an embedded command. Is there a video or anything where I can learn how to do these? I do not know how to drop my tonality or volume and stuff. thank you.
Inside the Secret Training Collection there is a video on this inside one of the bonuses.
Once you claim your access to the Vault (if you have not done so already), go to “Bonuses” and then scroll down to “Up To Speed With Speed Seduction” (it’s the second link) and it will be the third video in the “up to speed” series.