Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I’ve experimented with beach-pickups and I’ve hit on a formula worth trying.
I have to confess first: the beach was one place that really had me stumped for a long time.
Just something about approaching women who were asleep in the sun half-naked… something about the dynamic I didn’t like. I’ve done it before, but never could quite enjoy it.
Here’s how I fixed it.
I go to the beach and meditate/do magick for about 20 minutes. Then I start walking.
One day, I spot from 100 feet away a super-hottie in a skimpy black bikini and even at that distance, I could tell she was hot. She was asleep in the sun on her back.
I walked up and said, “Excuse me”.
She jumped!
I said, “Sorry to startle you. I’ve got 5 minutes before I have to go back to my meditating and you looked like you might be fun to talk to. I’m….”
That simple…
I’ve tried this a few times, and in every case the women (including two girls at the same time) were open, eager and friendly. Whereas, at least for me, at the beach, the “I noticed how stunning you were” approach just seems to put them off.
I think the answer is:
- I built in a time-limit/take-away in the introduction. I think this is both unexpected AND comforting as in “hey… wait a minute… usually guys won’t buzz off if I start talking to them when I’m in this micro, dental-floss thong… he’s ALREADY saying he only has 5 minutes?”
- Meditation seems to get a positive response. “Hmmm… the guy meditates? He can’t be a total goof.”
- It’s a totally non-threatening approach; I’m leaving in 5 minutes anyway, so what have they got to lose?
Oh… just to make it look good, I kept checking my watch. At one point I said, “you know what… I really have to go in just 2 more minutes” but kept talking for about 15.
BTW, I did an improvised palm-reading on the hottie in the black bikini (She’s half-Dutch and half-Spanish..OUCH!)… number closed her.
I think this has an application for women who are busy studying at coffee houses, restaurants, cafes, etc.
There it is. Simple, easy, builds in the take-away.
Peace and piece,
RJ
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yeah, if you can’t walk up, everything else is off the table.
palm reading, noticing they are visual (girls love “insight” into themselves) and then playing with what they see and how they react to it (how does THAT make you feel?), the colour of your bikini reminds me of…..
The possibilities are endless once you walk up.
great post ross.
“think this has an application for women who are busy studying at coffee houses, restaurants, cafes, etc.”
At a coffe shop, library etc. you probaby substitute something other than meditation, ..a guy meditating at a restaurant might look kind creepy
“Meditation seems to get a positive response. “Hmmm… the guy meditates? He can’t be a total goof.”
or a Ted Bundy-in-training.
“Sorry to startle you. I’ve got 5 minutes before I have to go back to masturbating and you looked like you might be fun to talk to. I’m”
MUUUWHWHAAHAA!!!
Nicely done, o Great One. (etc!) Not at all what I expected, either.
I was expecting an example of ‘affect at a distance’ and got instead…a great switch-up, to…manifesting a phone number! Yeah, going for the real…that’s YOU.
And yes, that’s the BEST ‘I do magic’ story I’ve ever read. I’ll build in the time limit myself more often, I bet it’ll have warm and friendly results…
all the best, Leslie
PR,
I lap swim at an outdoor pool, and will work on enhancing my state as I do a back stroke, and I think of all these naughty thoughts and just enjoy them without doubt, worry, or hesitation (I was having a hot fantasy about this Dutch waitress I met up in Santa Barbara and a black leather couch with a black dog collar for her, I like it, and don’t apopologize for desires when I think them out in public), and I will casually glance around and I can see women squirming in their seats. It’s like they pick up on my sexual vibe. This one hot little jenna haze sized blonde was literally squirming in her chair and looking intently at me but, she looked about 15 or 16 and was with an older couple and a little boy (most likely her parents and brother).
RJ, man I was on a plane out to LA and this little starlet to be who was 16 was with her sister and mom, and I started talking to her about music in a pattern way, emphasized the bands name, and she came up to me alone in the terminal as we were walking out to baggage claim asking me the same question/looking back she knew the ansewr and was most likely thinking I want this big, aggressive (I’m both) dudes wang in my yang. Damn man, what a dick move on my part to not close her.
Mutha Funking Queston-
PR-how should I deal with barely legal girls in the future who might be with parents or siblings when I want to number close?
Some of the girls iv’e talked to are real young looking but are still legal age. I had one squirming the other day when I looked in the eye intetly and said “You know a girl who looks as good as you needs some fun in her life”. SHe was barely 18.
I freaking happy sizzling up girls 10 years younger than me. It’s fun.
That’s smart Paul! 😉
Do you think that meditating on the sense of self and liberate from it makes “you” more charismatic?
I like it. It’s something that I might try when the situation arises, although, then I’d have to have something to say after that to keep the conversation going.
Yeah!! I think that’s a rather cool. way of approaching girls
Meditation And Women… I think for women who are more Meditational are women who are More open when I speak with more women and meditate more I more can Be Open and more Authoritative The more I meditate and the more time I can be Natural and attractive more with the women I more attract more.
I find it hard to pick up girls at the beach if i come across sexual in anyway, esp when there in bikini or naked for that matter. I wrote an article about this recently on my blog. http://bit.ly/11kqiye
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