Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
I’m not about endless gabbing on the phone with women. I’m for getting her in person, in front of me.
That said, many of my students find it helpful, when building their skills with language and patterns, practicing on the phone so they can refer to the script until it feels more natural.
Again, not really my recommendation, but it works for some. How can I argue?
Recently, a student shared with me the work he was doing to practice tonality in the way he used Speed Seduction® language patterns with women. So he pulled out his Black Book Of Babeliciousness and called up a woman he used to speak to.
It was just an ordinary, regular, casual conversation.
But he did some of the patterns, and her reaction was amazing. He reports he could almost feel a different part of her opening up during the conversation. She said there was something different about him – she couldn’t quite put her finger on it, but it made her feel different.
So far so good?
Now he wanted to know how to take things to the next level – memorizing the patterns and internalizing them.
As I’ve said many times:
Patterns Are More Than Just Memorized Speeches
Patterns take many forms.
I define a pattern as “any communication that opens up the part of a woman’s mind that’s more suggestible and more right-brained, anything that directs a flow of energy through her body that’s teasing or pleasurable to her, and anything that evokes her own imagery for being sexual or connected to people. “
A pattern is also also anything that opens up her curiosity about you. It’s anything you do with your energy or your hands that accelerates the interaction.
As far as the longer memorized patterns like Discovery Channel, Blow Job or Incredible Connection, the first thing to do is get in the right state, being grounded in your feet and breathing from a soft belly. Much of what I teach lately is about grounding into your male energy and breathing from the belly.
Next, understand what the essential theme of the pattern is. What’s the pattern really about?
Then go through the pattern and underline the suggestions and commands.
For example, if you were going to do Incredible Connection, you would underline, “Feel that amazing connection.” Underline the suggestions and commands and repeat those out loud several times. Those are the parts that matter. Understand what the theme of the pattern is and at what point the pattern involves body sensations and feelings.
See how this starts to come together?
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
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