Comments on: If You’re A Nice Guy, Are You Finished?

By: hearts

hearts — Mon, 16 Jan 2012 13:07:11 +0000

I really like martins comment, thanks bud. I will definately try and work in some fractionation *** into my sarges,

i think you nailed it!

My opinion of a bad boy is someone who goes against the normal flow of generic answers, because he acts differently to the system around girls he challenges there programmed beliefs and appeals to them on a natural instinct level,
A nice AFC adheres to all the rules of the game, thus falling right into place with a girls programmed beliefs ofthe dating the game.
In my opinion (and what i hope to become) a MIT easily switches between both worlds by using techniques like fractionation, powers of persuasion, implied compliments, everything really! we’re so different to what she is expecting we become the bad boy! cause we’re not doing what we’re ment to according to her social programming! !

thats just me though,

love to know what everyone thinks

thanks ross, thanks pua community.
regards,
hearts.

By: Cole

Cole — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 19:32:27 +0000

I need somewhere to start. I keep getting the shit end of the stick with women and what would a good way to start off well?

By: Martin

Martin — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 21:53:37 +0000

… and that also includes turning sexuality on and off, be sexual, then stop, then repeat… mixed in with the other states… if you can be labelled… even if its a good label…. its BAD!!! haha

By: Martin

Martin — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 21:49:15 +0000

leo durocher,

similar to what i was about to say. women are attracted to MYSTERIOUSNESS, that is all theyre attracted to in jerks, that they dont know whats coming next. however, you dont have to be a ‘bad-boy’ all you need to do is stop her from being able to label you as anything, eg ‘n-guy’ ‘funny guy’ ‘smart guy’ etc etc, yeah, theres more than two! haha. how? lets say youre making her laugh, shell start to think of you as the funny guy… so IMMEDIATELY switch to a deeper conversation (relationships work well), then when she thinks youre really deep, move to something else. by the end, she should have no idea which category she could put you in = MYSTERY!!! she wants more… and this is so easy!!! and honestly WORKS!! the natural connection made between you when you do this is really incredible!! trust me. i believe this is what the man himself Ross Jeffries calls FRACTIONATING!… its very powerful, shell do anything you want to find out more… so intrigued and therefore attracted (and aroused )

By: Leo Durocher

Leo Durocher — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 14:32:20 +0000

Why not postion yourself ambigously ? Flash different sides of you as a slot machine ‘s wheels turns? I had a girl say she wasn’t sure if I was bad or good…builds intrigue and mystery which creates more attraction. reminds me of the DC 2000 seminar where mark cunnigham talks about being “complex” Be like Mad Max or Clint Eastwood characters..outside kinda bad but inside basically good

By: K.K.

K.K. — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 13:49:22 +0000

Here’s the thing: In what way can guys like this BECOME ‘bad boys’ without being truly/dangerously ‘bad’? Train for the WWE? Mug people? Deal drugs?

My idea is, you’re either “bad”, or you’re just posing. Neither is all that great. But if it works for you, go for it.

By: Bethl

Bethl — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 13:14:14 +0000

Just tell the women up front that you’re only interested in a fling. Then make it clear that you mean it. Have a fling with another hottie and tell her about it. Make it a funny, “nice guy” story with lots of humor and nothing too negative about the real fling. If women are looking at you as “boyfriend” material and you don’t like that view of yourself, then continually do little things you know each particular woman wouldn’t approve of in a boyfriend. Whatever that may be.

Good luck.

I guess.