Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,
It’s an oft-told story…
Boy meets Girl in an “everyday” setting.
Girl smiles and giggles oh-so-cute and Boy sees the door open and beckoning.
Boy strikes up a little convo. Girl’s answer to his innocent-yet-obviously-leading question (the one where he asks her out without actually f@@king ASKING) leaves him stumped even though it’s plain-as-daylight stuff.
Let’s hear from a student who felt like he just got “traded down to the minors” off such a seemingly innocent response:
The other day, I went to a local clothing store because I needed to pick up a couple things. I was greeted by a cute, bubbly sales associate. I said hi and bought a belt and a few other things (I was there for that in the first place). I commented on her style, then I left. But – as if opportunity was raining down from heaven, I had forgotten my cell phone, so I went back and said I lost it!
She asked for my number so we could call it and hear it ring. Lo and behold, it fell off while I was trying on the belt and landed under a rack with fall jackets on it. Heard it ring and picked it up. Then I asked where she lived, and her name, and if she had plans for the evening. She said she was going to relax at her place.
I didn’t know what to say, so I left (with her phone number, and her name). She seemed interested in me, and I was wondering what I could do to get in contact with her, and get her to meet me. Can you help me?
Let me start with the Captain Obvious answer: call her and and f@@king ask her out.
Don’t try to figure out if she really seemed interested… or just being all cute and flirty to loosen up your wallet by tightening up your Johnson (something that, uh, RARELY happens in the real world and is, uh, NEVER done on purpose). Besides, your memory of actual events is probably distorted by now over hot you think she is… and how hot you wish, hope, and pray she was FOR YOU.
But think about what you’re asking her (or the next woman, when you go back for cuff links):
You asked where she lived (which DOESN’T MATTER until you go back to her place for some EEE-RRR-EEE-RRR), her name (was she wearing a nametag, as a sales associate in a retail store?), and what she was doing tonight (other than breathing and eventually sleeping?)
Were THESE the questions she was being called upon to answer while sidelined from making money so she can pay her rent? What did her responses tell you about her “vibe” and what inspires her, so you could use it to anchor her emotions and get her excited and irresistibly aroused at-will?
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Sick and tired of letting opportunities with sexy, beautiful women pass right by while you sit there virtually paralyzed not knowing exactly what to do or say to close the deal with them? The solutions to such quandries can be found right here.
But Ross, if I actually ask her out, I will actually be spending the evening in her bed. And since she has no TV I will be missing Two-and-a-Half-Men. It’s not fair. The decisions us guys are forced to make.
I asked a friend out recently by saying “So would you like to go out with me?” She said yes, but we kept our plans vague. Later that week when I tried to get an actual time to meet she totally froze me out, and when I finally said “Uh, yeah. So when are we going out?” she pretended to have been confused about what I meant the first time. (She wasn’t.) Now she’s ignoring me, boohoohoo. Life goes on there will be others.
what if she does have a TV …
I was just done with about everything that i could possibly listen or wantch about speed seduction, took me 4 weeks of listening, taking notes and testing out, my friend used the technology to get his wife back (SHB). I posted before about my project (HB7+AFC as a BF project of hers that walked in on us durring heavy kino:) that just went to shambles once i called her on her shit about not hanging out with me. But she really did not trust me, oh well, not every woman has a good taste. and now i am finally ready to go for it, out into the field for the first time and really advance this stuff far beyond and become MPUA or at least PUA. But i am still just a student and i need a master or another student that would help me out in the field. And the weekend is coming so i don’t want to miss out. I leave near chicago Illinois (wheeling, IL) And if not 4 my friend who is not a speed seducer he just wanted his wife back then i would propably stay an AFC for the rest of my life, and i don’t want that to happen. Ok to make sad story short I am reading my copy of the game and I want to become a MPUA or speed seducer long way to go but just a prodigy of making woman fall in love with anything i touch =). The stuff ross talked about in the end of one of his lectures about how we are all brothers and our fathers never teached us how to seduce women, and i don’t want to be another exaple of it, my father is just like ross’s works long hours just to put food on the table, and he obviously will never teach me half of the stuff i learned from tapes i got my hands on so i really want to meet some of the brohters from chicago and go sarging in the field for HBs.
Anyway my email is mikhail.92@mail.ru and i check it often so if someone is from around chicago going to come across it please email me and i will send you my phone # or you send me yours. And we will have great time sharing technology and sarging HBs in the field. And shooting beyond the space and time of what’s possible. I never take patterns as written in stone, they are just structures for me to mess around with and learn what gets HBs hotter.
I know it is going to happen and i belive there is no limit to technology and skill that i am going to develop.
Or if anyone just reads this not from chicago send me an email about what sites are out there where i can find more patterns and sequences to learn and expand my horizons.
Thank you ross, really helpful, staying on the light side of the force.
“Hi Debbie this is xxx from the other day – you helped me find my phone under the rack. I just had to tell you (pause) and give you a big compliment (pause) because it is rare that I meet someone with such (pause) great energy. You seem like the type of person that believes that if you help others the universe will naturally take care of you. Since you saved me from spending $xxx on another phone it is only fair that I at least buy you a cup of coffee to thank you – wouldn’t you agree?” “Yes yes you are right I don’t HAVE to buy you a cup of coffee and because you did it out of the kindess of your heart I want explore why you have such a great energy – I think that these qualities in a person that you find intriguing are worth a good cup of coffee aren’t they? So when is a good time for you?”
The nice thing about this approach is that if she flakes you can always deny any romantic intent and ask her why she is jumping to conclusions.
oops. forgot to mention, I’ve been laid twice since I got rejected. It was luck, but I’ll take it.
i think you have to press to move out with you by using the push and pull method to eat her up.Greetings by the way.
I KNOW