Dear Seeker of Success,
So, you are in the course of Sarging and seducing a woman. Everything seems to be going great – as far as you can tell, you’ve captured and led her interest, now you’re getting ready to buckle up for a rip-roarin, snatch-soarin’ ride on the baloney pony.
Then, like out of nowhere, she starts flaking, going cold, losing interest.
“What happened?!?!?!” you ask yourself as you vision the cold winter sea water of a seduction-sliding-south engulfing you as things sink faster than the Titanic.
It’s Time To Take Stock, Not Slip Into Shock
Here is a “quicksand-stopping checklist” you can work through when, despite your best efforts, the seduction sizzle starts dissipating into soon-to-be-masturbatory fizzle.
Learn it, and you’ll find a “jumping back in point” when you need one.
First, you can diagnose according to certain categories…
Add, Increase, Eliminate, Subtract
- What needs to be added? Is there something you are missing entirely that needs to be put in?
- What needs to be increased-maybe there is something you need to do more of-more repetitions, more intensity, more volume, etc.?
- What needs to be eliminated-something needs to be removed entirely?
- What needs to be diminished (subtracted)-ok to keep doing it, but less of it-less intense, less volume, less frequent?
Next, we need to look at levels.
- Improve conceptual understanding. Is there a key concept or concepts you are not using or understanding?
- Energy/vibe-do you need to correct something on the vibe/energy level?
- Beliefs-is there something needing correction/improvement in your beliefs? Your cognitions about what moves women and what is required to bed them?
- Tools/behavior-do you need to polish some individual tool or tools? Actions you ought to be taking but aren’t?
- Analogs-do you need to correct body language, tonaity, volume, tempo?
Look: every girl-getting situation is different, but once you master the skills, you’ll be doing a lot more of it (girl-getting, that is).
The above is by no means an exhaustive list, but it gives some good “quick start” places to look when you’re trying to save a Sarge on the fly.
Peace,
RJ
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G’day Ross,
Your stuff really works. Over the last 4 weeks I have knock back 2 women (funny how you change when you know that you have a choice) and went for a ride with a third a couple of days ago.
The point is the more I read your material the more I can come up with responses to overcome any resistances.
For instance, after I had taken the woman cloths off and heading for blast off she stopped and said: ” I don’t know why I am doing this with you.”
My response was: “Because when two people connect on such a deep deep level that comes from deep inside of you, as you and I do, then it’s obviously natural.”
When she got all hot and bothered again I said:” Let’s not do this today” and I started looking for my cloths.
I will not go into any further details as you already know the result.
See Ya
Grey
@Grey Nice reframe on the LMR!
The problem with me Ross is not that I can’t get the tools to work,
I can’t stop them from working! I sometimes find myself just talking
in patterns and doing good NLP without really wanting to and I start
seeing EXTREME responses from women (heavy breathing, I can even hear
their hearts beating really fast from FEET away, blushing, DDBL etc).
This is so powerful…I can easily have sex now or even anything else.
Truly the gold coin of the realm. Used properly LMR is not an issue ever for me.
Not complaining, just saying lol. I can’t believe that other people even exist that teach “social” game. It’s funny, because to get SS to work you actually need to be socially competent at a basic level at least. You have other people teaching “social” game…My guess is that the market for these guys is just good looking fellas who just don’t know how to be normal and they teach them that, and then boom they’re all set.
The other fools say “be alpha”, “be unreactive, manipulation is wrong and not authentic” etc etc…FUCK THAT! Alpha? LOL. I don’t know about a lot of you guys but I don’t want to have to fight every time I talk to a girl. AMOGGING? LMAO HA! I never get AMOGGED because I CONTROL WHERE MY ENERGY GOES.
Anyway, people stole Ross’s work and made it suck. I stick with the original.
@Larry
Thanks. How about writing me personally with a testimonial? rj@seduction.com
Larry I have the same “problem” you have. It works a little too good and unfortunately you will start attracting stalkers. Just stay away from the organic “health food and juice bar”, believe me, I just got rid of a stalker cling on chick who thought I was going to be her “PSYCHO-therapist”. Forget that!
After you learn the system you don’t have to think about “trying” anything it just flows and girls become like socks you can wear them if you feel like it or you can go barefoot if you don’t.
Fortunately for me I live by the “Woodbury Commons” one of the largest outdoor shopping malls in the country. What better place is on earth is there then that??? I love my life 🙂 Unfortunately here in NY it is COLD so I am stuck working most of the time. But come springtime…bowchickawowow! Anyone near my turf let me know and we can go “sarging” at the Commons this spring.
@Chet @Larry
Sue me! Ha ha ha
Ross you are a fucking GENIUS for starting this shit!
Hey, Ross –
I’m afraid I really don’t get what you’re saying above, and I didn’t get it while studying your home course. How do you know *what* to add or to subtract, increase or decrease? Same thing for the actions: if I knew what actions I wasn’t taking, I’d already be taking them. Maybe that’s the key concept that I don’t understand. If you have a suggestion, I’d sure appreciate the help!
Phil- Maybe you just need some more time and practice. Think about what has taken place and analyze a little. Remember this is not magic and no one is going to win every time.