Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I’ve been doing a great deal of contemplation and thinking since completing my 3 week European Tour.    As my own skills as a seducer and master teacher grow, I get deeper and deeper insights into what it really takes to bring guys to fantastic success and satisfaction with women.

As I see it, there are three big pieces to truly solving this puzzle.   I’ll introduce them briefly here and then, if you guys give me sufficient feedback, I’ll unpack each in detail in later blog posts.

Realize that what you are about to learn is a summary of my daily work and experimentation and play for the past 23 years, since I first started farting around with this stuff in 1987. I can see elements and answers now that I just couldn’t imagine seeing back then. And now I want to make it clear to you.

Element 1: A Powerful,  Effective Model For How Women Think, Feel And Act

This model has to explain and predict how will experience and create their own internal world in a way that gives us deep and broad understanding. It has to bring together a wide range of female actions in a broad variety of contexts and explain them in a way where we can understand, predict and shape the actions that we want.  It has to offer better explanations that more closely fit the observable facts than other possible explanations. It has to explain how women shift moods, make decisions, change and re-change their minds, seemingly contradict themselves from one moment to the next and offer incise and precise solutions and methods to handle all of this. It has to tell us what to ignore and what to pay attention to.

Element 2: Showing Up Attractive   This has to show us how to align our state, beliefs, filters and perceptions so that we are giving off an attractive vibe as soon as we enter the room, before we even open our mouths.  This involves resolving internal conflicts, aligning energy, rehearsing states, incorporating useful beliefs, regular practice to cultivate the proper aspects of consciousness.  It also involves getting out of our own way which in turn means:  stopping the process of dwelling on and re-programming in mistakes, creating a good working relationship to anxiety and uncertainty, aiming at the right kind of confidence(among the 4 different kinds).

Element 3: The tools and patterns.  These include using the right themes, formats, conversational structures, anchoring, voice mastery, touch, knowing how to notice and incorporate the woman’s useful responses, testing and screening, using and fractionating among the different vibes, creating/pre-seeding a woman to be responsive to patterning, frame setting, using ambiguity and vagueness, embedded commands, sexual metaphor, embedded suggestions.

In these three categories, Speed Seduction(R) is vastly more powerful than any other system; to the point where nothing else even comes close.

Which of these categories would you like me to “unpack” first?  I’m personally most interested in Element 2.   It involves what I call “A-social” skills.

Takers? Thoughts?

RJ