Should You? (Psst…Watch Your Language!)

Posted on April 24, 2012 by Ross Jeffries

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A student of mine who has bought a few courses reported back to me on his progress learning and mastering the skills.

Part of his self-assessment featured the “chewing vs. doing” penumbra:

“I’m realizing what I’ve been doing throughout this whole time of trying to learn Speed Seduction®. I was trying to go over it so much and asking, ‘Am I getting it? Am I not?’ I wasn’t going out there and taking the risks I should be.”

And that last part, is a big part of the problem, right there.  He needs to watch his language.

It’s not “as I should be.”

“Should” is a tricky thing. “Should” sounds like you’re making a commitment. “Should” sounds like you’re stepping into action. In reality, “should” makes no commitment to action at all. CLICK HERE TO READ MORE >>> →

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Rejection: Does It Get Women Who Play Games Into Your Bed?

Posted on April 20, 2012 by Ross Jeffries

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Think about this for a minute: why do some women play games?

A woman’s motivation for playing games (or for acting like a drama queen) is often that she wants to lose the game. The way she loses the game is you reject her a little. That will show her that you can create the drama she needs to feel attracted to you.

I hate to say it, but that’s what’s going on. You have to be willing to reject her.

What she really wants to see is if you are willing to walk away from her. That’s when it appeals to her. She needs a little bit of drama and someone who’s willing to show that he’ll reject her, because guys have rejected her in the past.

A woman who play games, generally speaking, is afraid of intimacy. She needs to pick guys who are going to reject her
sooner or later. This happens unconsciously. She doesn’t put it together verbally.

In her mind, it goes like this. She thinks, “Whenever I get close to guys, they reject me. That’s good because I’m miserable and afraid of really opening to a guy. I’m only going to pick guys who will show me that they’ll reject me and make me feel hurt.”

In this case, she’s doing it because she wants to feel rejected. Once she feels rejected, then she’ll feel safe to have sex with you because she knows that you’re not going to let her really get close and she doesn’t have to really open up.

That’s what’s going on.

Chew on that for a bit, and share your thoughts below.

Peace and peace,

RJ

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“I Couldn’t Look In The Mirror”

Posted on April 18, 2012 by Ross Jeffries

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

No matter where you are in the success-with-women continuum, I’ve been there too.  Earlier in life, I had it worse than most guys.

The experiences inspired me to dedicate my life to helping smart guys like you:

If you have not yet achieved mastery of your girl-getting game, don’t stop now.  Just by being here now, you’re claiming your choice to do better.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I look forward to teaching YOU at my next seminar.  Click here to sign up – Atlanta in 8 days!

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When She Calls Back, But Doesn’t Say Yes

Posted on April 16, 2012 by Ross Jeffries

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

We already know that the moment a woman gives you a phone number instead of a commitment to a specific action, your chances of getting laid take a huge hit.

This happened to a student of mine.  He met her at an event… they did some slow-dancing but he couldn’t get her beyond the phone number, try as he might.

So, he followed a sequence of leaving messages that did not get returned, leading up to the Answering Machine Intruder, which did get a response as follows:

“Let me start off with apologizing on how rude I’ve been by not returning any of your calls or text. It was lovely meeting you but I’ll be honest I was in the wrong for giving you my number.  I had a little too much to drink and at the time actually had a boyfriend. Him and I recently have gone our separate ways and it sucks…I’m in a very emotional part of my life right now so I just feel that I need to respond out of respect for your feelings because your human and deserve an explanation so thanks for trying to pursue me but think its best if it comes to a stop. Take care.”

How can he respond to this? CLICK HERE TO READ MORE >>> →

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