Dear Seeker of Success,
I get a lot – and I mean a LOT of questions – from students asking one thing.
Specifically, how can the language patterns I teach translate into Spanish, Swedish, Samoan, Swahili, Scottish, Serbian, Slovenian, Sanskrit, Shan, Sedang, or other languages beginning with S or the other 25 letters of the English alphabet?
While the patterns work “as is” in English, something might get lost in the translation.
Sure, I get that. But hear this.
First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: think in terms of principles and concepts.
Some of these things are not going to directly translate, like the ambiguities, etc. I understand that.
The basic principles of capturing and leading a woman’s imagination and emotions through what you get her talking about and how she talks about them are still completely valid.
Sure, this might involve actual work – whereas the regular dating frame is somehow easy?
Let me just say this:
Concentrate On Just Doing A Few Simple Things
Rather than trying to translate the patterns, take the principles that the patterns are based on. It’s sensory-based descriptions, talking about the right topics, and opening that place in a woman’s mind.
It’s that orientation, and the idea that you don’t look at people as things. You look at ongoing flows of activity and the processes you want to ignite in people. Those can apply in any language and culture.
In many cultures, women aren’t especially difficult to get into bed.
Opening them up emotionally might be a totally different story, however.
Take Sweden, for instance, as one student asked me about it.
If you approach a Swedish woman on the street and ask her where to catch the train, she’ll be very polite and give directions. Getting her (or most anyone) into deep conversation, then and there: not so much.
However, at a party, at a private gathering, where it’s among friends: different story. The Swedish are very open. As far as sex, it’s a pretty sexually open culture, as far as I can see.
Mostly, you just have to outrun the passive Swedish men who wait for women to do everything. Not so much different from outrunning the AFC in any country or culture.
Be a little less passive and be savvier than they are.
Things will “translate” for you.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. We cover language patterns extensively – in fact, there’s an entire section devoted to it – inside Rapid and Total Success With Women.
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“to outrun the passive Swedish men”
what happened to that Viking warrior? Could it be when they went from paganism to christianity he done lost his sword?
What about denmark, norway germany..finland?
Must be way better than the sexually screwed up and repressed us of a
love this one Paul. I lived in Madrid for a year but had no clue about women and actually can recall at least three or four times the Spanish woman was being the aggressor and I simply got too scared/nervous to make it happen.
I am looking forward to another visit soon and will use pattern language and the principles of SS with them and see how it goes. My guess is most Spanish men are not even aware of NLP, Speed Seduction or any of that and thus it will be an exciting and new adventure for them and me… And yes I will get to Sweden soon and see if all this hype is really true! Mark
I’ve been wondering about this topic for a while, the part about doing a bit of work I’ve been aware of and because I’ve been a bit lazy I have procrastinated for long enough.
There’s a site with patterns in Hebrew that I can take as a reference.
For the Hebrew speaking readers here the site with the Hebrew patterns is:
http://www.alpha-il.com/
När kommer du till Sverige igen? 🙂
“Be a little less passive than they are and be savvier… things will translate for you”-PR
Pr/RJ-I love you man!
I tell my best friend that You have done more for me that a shrink ever did.
I have anxiety attacks and OCD and I think alot of it was about ruminating in frustration about how I could connect with the opposite sex looking at it now.
You have helped me so much.
A older cougar today told me,” YOu look so strong. DO you play football?” LOL-she wasn’t my type but, I had fun messing with her telling her how I like to go about things intensely.
I hugged and played with the neck of a 20 y/o brunette college hot body leaving a gym. She said she’d call me. She really liked the touch. She was smiling.
I had some skirt tell me “None of your business” when I asked her name, and I told her my, “Name is see ya later” as I walked off.
Some asinine event of a woman who has poor taste like that wouldv’e crushed me a while back Now I don’t care. 5 minutes later I had a brunette milf smiling as I complimented her glittery shoes and told she was really quite attractive. She was married. Whatever.
This learning technology really is fun.
I also heard the “I’m only 16”, and I say “Wouldn’t be great to experience new thing and do the fun things you want to” rather than acting all shy. LOL.
THE PURPLE GANG-
You know the more you think about it-it’s like every group out here with a bag of goods to sell you wants to control you in some way. All this programming is about controlling you in every way possible. They make us afraid to keep from igniting the raw force we have but have been culled into thinking we must conform to the man’s bull shit.
Sometimes the problem of translating patterns is that when it gets translated to other language, if the person who does the translation doesn’t know about speed seduction or hypnotic language, the person could make the mistake of ¨correcting¨the pattern to make it sound right. I do all my patterns in spanish and I took the time to translate them carefully so they sound natural and they work too so if anyone needs help translating some patterns to spanish just let me know I would love to help.
Believe it or not, amongst the most difficult women in the world to get into bed are Pakistani and Indian women. Honestly, give it a try – you will learn something.
As far as translations well, mention the ‘attraction theme’ – especially of rides and roller coasters and which her response.
I’m a hispanic man that has dated several Indian women, and they are wonderful in bed. My strategy has been to describe the wonderful freedom that this country offers women. I tell them that in America women are respected and cherished. I tell them that this is the place in which social stratification yields to happiness and dreams. I then proceed to telling the SS story of how an Indian friend reinvented her self in this great nation when in the company of fellow workers. I tell the story of how she no longer saw herself as property of men, but as a free being, capable feeling, expressing and loving and being loved. I describe how this one friend found the courage and STRENGTH WITHIN her to free herself of all pre-judgement and see people in a new light (point to self). No more enslavement in a hot kitchen! Join the feminist movement! Value yourself!
@Jaime sounds like you have found something that works for you. I like how you tell the story about a friend….nice use of the teachings.
Yes magus, I would love to do that as i will be visiting SPain next year and want to have some turn key patterns ready to go! Click on my name and it will take you to my blog where you can contact me – Thanks!!!
Mark
I think that there is a lot of cultural stuff affects this. With respect to Shan women, for instance, even if you can speak their language (I can’t) casual sex is not a part of their culture like it is in the west. Marriages are usually arranged about the end of the teens. ‘Dating’ seems not to be a big part of the culture. On the other hand when a small amount of money changes hands, the whole equation alters.
The biggest problem is always going to be that unless you can speak their language, language patterns are useless. On the other hand, it is usually a no brainer to work out that from the way a girl is smiling at you she is interested. Non verbals can get you a long way – all the way – even if you have only a dozen words of the language.
@Traveller you are nearing the Kingdom of Sarge. The way you thought this through shows a keen understanding of the underlying principles. Nicely done.