Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

Please enter comment.
Please enter your name.
Please enter a valid web Url.

  • […] more from the original source: Power Attitudes To Skyrocket Your Success With Women (Part 1) No […]

  • nick October 17, 2012, 11:56 am

    ok so how do you show in your attitude that being with me is the best possible choice a woman can make. Please do tell ????

  • Vitold October 22, 2012, 10:10 am

    It all sounds great in theory, but I struggle in practice. I tried streets, cafes, shopping centres, evenings (quiet pubs where women sit), random approaches in all sorts of situations. Either woman shows indicators of disinterest quite quickly, or has a borefriend/partner (your technique to say that i don’t want a date but just to meetup for an interesting conversation and a laugh didn’t work for me so far). And even if I manage to follow it up to a date (i never use this word to a woman), they all, ALL turned to be flakes.

    My friend gets laid a lot, and he often even says in first few mins things like “you’d match my bedding quite well”. When I do small talk, I got a feeling that I’m not making my intentions clear (“intentions” means I don’t want to “just be friends”). When I try seduction questions, women quite often comment that I ask very deep/personal/strange questions.

    Women want to be seduced, want to be fucked, want to have a strong attractive man next to them, but when one (me) approaches them, they don’t respond as I’d expect them to respond. I don’t consider “fail” if I don’t get laid and I enjoy all types of interactions. Even an approach and small talk is a success for me, but SS was supposed to be about getting laid.

    I realise that when in rapport, things are possible. But how do I get that initial spark? I asked this several times and you accused me of asking for an algorithm/schematic. I do know there’s no magical pill, and I’m not asking for one.

    I must admit, I haven’t done much of the meditation excercises, but through approaches I’ve eliminated approach anxiety and although I’m quite confident and relaxed. I also touch them (kino) – it already becomes a second nature. But still nothing. I am willing to walk away if they show no interest. I even said to few women, having seen no interest, “you’re not worth my attention” and walked off with no “goodbye”. It’s not that I’m rude or desperate, and that’s not my point.

    Sorry for a bit long post, I just don’t know where to go now. There must be something that I can improve. Honestly, I’m sick and tired with being stuck in limbo. What am I doing wrong? How can I create this initial spark that would let me create rapport? Shall I let her talk about whatever for hours about any random shit to show that I understand their world? I tried few things to capture their imagination and it just didn’t work so far. When I ask questions and seduction questions, they feel interrogated. When I try to warm up their imagination by describing how it FEELS to fly paraglider (I do, so I can describe it quite well), it doesn’t work either.

    So, anyway, what can I do to move forward?

    • Ross Jeffries November 5, 2012, 11:18 am


      I don’t know how you are coming across to these women.

      Here is an idea: assuming it is legal where you live to do so, just record the audio portions of your sarges and then send me some mp3 files so I can give it a listen.

      I suspect your attitude and vibe is just off. You don’t get that you have to be playful and know how to smile and create a fun vibe.


  • Dibz October 22, 2012, 10:41 am

    these attitudes are so important and have helped me great throughout the last two and half years of speed seduction. Those who know me, i often hear “well your a great looking guy, what was the problem.” ive even heard from women. “your super sexy, but your like my best friend.” MY ATTITUDE at the time, was sooo poor, i just didnt believe them, and i just felt like a pussy..yea a fucking pussy…however, once adopting the attitudes and affirmations like this. im at the point where whenever i go out, at least one woman will make eye contact with me, or even wink or smile….my looks havent changed, im still the same five foot italian two years ago, with the same haircut and same build, but after adopting these attitudes…it is as if i walk the world in a different way…so different that i am still mesmorized by the benefits of these attitudes alone….LET ALONE ALL THE OTHER TOOLS I USE!!!

    love always

    your loyal SS brother


    • Ross Jeffries November 5, 2012, 11:15 am


      You’re only 5 feet? Really? No way….

Specify a Disqus shortname in Bignews menu > Theme options > Post Setting section in admin panel