Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Yesterday we revealed two ways “attitude determines altitude” when it comes to your ultimate success with women you truly desire.
We showed two power attitudes that center on confidence – knowing you’re the best man for any woman, and knowing you can walk away at any time.
Now, let’s dive back in with more power attitudes that keep you going strong at bat when playing the field:
3) I give a woman a little bit of what she wants, and then pull back and make her work for more.
As sad as it seems, if you are too giving to a woman, too soon, you come off as hungry and needy and she just winds up dumping you. You see, guys who are successful with women give a free sample, but nice guy losers give away the store.
You must, no MUST learn to say “no”, make yourself a little scarce and unavailable, and keep her a little bit in doubt.
4) I always come from the place of being determined to do what works.
So many times I’ve had people whine to me, “Why can’t I just be myself?” What that really means is, “I want to be lazy and do what I’ve always done all along, even though it doesn’t work!”
Look: to really win big in life, you have to be consistent. And that means applying these principles, all the time, even when you don’t particularly feel like it, and especially if you are in a slump.
5) I never attach excess meaning to winning or losing with women.
Realize that if a woman accepts you, it doesn’t mean that the next one will, so stay on your toes, and don’t get lazy or sloppy. (See item #4 directly above)
And if she rejects you, it just means that the approach you tried, at this particular time, with this particular woman, hasn’t worked… yet.
It might work at another time with her, or you may just need another approach. Even if it doesn’t, as I once told a friend of mine who only thought he saw me get rejected… Dan, I never get rejected. I only discover if a woman has good taste!!
6) I don’t need to win all the time; I size up a woman’s potential and either go for it or move on and cut my losses FAST.
Sometimes the best choice is just to say, “Exit, Stage Left!” and move on. When you realize that you don’t have to win all the time, it takes the pressure off and you become much more relaxed.
Ironically, and paradoxically, this almost always leads to your winning far more often than you ever imagined possible!!!!
7) I never know what physical type a woman will go for so I always for it congruently and powerfully.
Listen: women are much more individualistic in what they like, physically speaking. I once had a gorgeous young thing tell me that if Mel Gibson or Tom Cruise asked her out, she’d say, “no” because she only liked tall, thin black men!! You just don’t know, so go for it anyway.
Aren’t these power attitudes with women just great?
Can you imagine how great you’ll do with women when you have these attitudes down and are manifesting them in your life?
Peace and piece,
PR (aka RJ)
P.S. Women are universally attracted to confident men. Women want men to approach them and talk to them. Women want to be seduced. Women want to have sex just as much as men do.
Numerous scientific studies show it. Speed Seduction® 3.0 provides what you need to make it happen for you.