Dear Seeker of Success,
On the subject of coming across naturally when Sarging, a student of mine asked a great question that brings together many of the practical concepts we teach through Speed Seduction®.
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Many students love Sarging in grocery stores, so this is especially pertinent:
> Anyhow I have a quick question; can you talk about something completely innocent like going to the grocery store and embed lots of commands (in the right sequence of course!; fascination; connection; attraction; lust); is that enough to get the girl(s) going.
RJ here: Of course you can. Just don’t be making any phonetic jokes when you see her feeling and gently squeezing that big, firm pepper 🙂
‘Cause then you’ll blow it.
See, there I go again. All the more reason you must take heed of the following.
I would use vague suggestions and I/You shifts to create an overall state of responsiveness and to test for her level of response.
As in,
“You know, when I go to the store, and YOU’RE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING that’s on the list, sometimes I find THERE’S SOMETHING ELSE YOU WANT but you didn’t put it on. So you JUST REACH FOR IT when you SEE IT. Like an IMPULSE buy. That’s why they have the candy and gum and stuff right when YOU ARE CHECKING OUT, instead of IN-BEDDED DEEP INSIDE the store, like ON A BACK shelf.”
Then change the subject and say something funny…
I just gave you gold. Can you understand why it is gold?
You can see that nowhere did I give any commands to feel fascinated or describe any kind of connection. I just gave suggestions, some of which are about trance and one that has a sexual connotation. “IN-BEDDED”. “ON A BACK”.
This will work even in a meat market – well, the meat section of Whole Foods or Ralphs Fresh Fare, perhaps. Context is key.
Do this with only the most subtle and tiny hypnotic tonality. DO NOT LEAN ON IT OR IT WILL COME ACROSS CREEPY!
Are you starting to get this?
Peace,
RJ
P.S. You will learn much, much, much more about embedded commands and the use of suggestive language – and how to make it appear like a normal everyday conversation that does NOT cause her to put her guard up – in Rapid and Total Success With Women.
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I ran this pattern past a woman that I had been sarging at my gym over a few days. Before the pattern, we’d more or less agreed to be come FBs. When I ran the supermarket pattern, she gave me that doggy bowl look and told me that she now “wanted something more” than just FB’s. I scared myself out of the sarge. Told her I had to go. And avoided her ever since. LOL! So I know that it does work.
Yes, I’m starting to get it and I’m starting to get that most women are pretty hip to embedded commands and metaphors and “dreaded hypno voice” is not something for everyday conversation unless you’re just a prick.
I’m finding that softening, softening, softening is far more powerful when the words right true and the emotion is matter-of-fact.
Granted I’ve got word salad tendencies to begin with, so a woman who is interested in me tends to be leaning in just make sense of my “normal” everyday conversation. YMMV.
Is it true that responsiveness can be generated and heightened with wordless inductions (conflicting childish gestures, sounds and/or kino) and even with a limited acquaintance under proper conditions it can cause emotional tension to raise and amygdala to freeze?
I did this pattern once about 2 years ago, IT ABSOLUTELY WORKS!!!! The cashier was a done deal. I was in a relationship and I was practice sarging, but it works none the less. The cashier got it instantly. She new instinctivly and got excited. Kinda like when I first practiced the Discovery Channel Pattern. It was not until the next day that I figured why the girl wanted me to tell all her friends about the rollercoaster program. Duh.. Anyway, Discovery Channel is also brilliant.