Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
How do you move closer to your destination? Take a step toward it.
How do you eat the giant elephant? One bite at a time.
Claiming your results with women you truly desire is not much different.
If you’re just starting out, a “newbie” who has had a bit of success using the techniques but feeling a little intimidated because you haven’t yet effortlessly landed the terrific threesome with Debbie and her succulent sorority sister Sarah, think about what HAS happened for you.
You’ve made the decision that today is the last day of the way you used to be.
Perhaps you personally haven’t changed all that much, but the way you see things and the world in general HAS changed – for the WAY better.
With increased confidence that comes from seeing SOME success, you feel like the world is your oyster and you will grab it by the balls and squeeze until they crunch. (Ha ha ha. I don’t think oysters HAVE balls, but I dig the picturesque metaphor in any event.)
What comes up many times for “newbies” who have gotten better at approaching and conversing with women: challenges mastering the Close, sealing the deal with women.
Hint: stop thinking about the “Close” as a separate stage, but as something that starts before you even walk out the door and continues with each further step of comfort, openness, challenge, excitement and desire you create in and with her and with the first initial friendly/warm touches/physical contact, which should be happening early on.
HINT HINT: If she isn’t comfortable or is frozen with that initial, friendly, non-sexual touching, RUN.
HINT HINT HINT: learn to screen women. What personality traits must be there in her for you to want to move forward? Can you mentally rehearse getting up from the table, smiling, shaking your head and saying, “No way” and just walking out the door, feeling 10 feet tall and humming out loud, “ANCHORS AWAY, MY BOYS! ANCHORS AWAAAAAY!”
Newbies: this is important, that last hint. Do it.
Start acting like you have choice and standards even if you currently don’t and your dick for the past ten years has been dry as nun’s pussy in the Sahara desert! It’s the most paradoxical, counter-intuitive mindset, but it W-O-R-K-S! Start believing, feeling, act-as-if you ALREADY have a world of choice.
And most of all, remember my rule: When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. On Friday, September 20 you will have the chance to claim, among many other courses-within-a-course of the Rapid and Total Success With Women system, my “Sexual Aggression Mastery” curriculum that covers this subject in far greater detail.
Thank You RJ
Thanks RJ, you have a way of providing the right words of inspiration at the right time.
Ross,
you gave a great peice of advice in your book “Dodging the F Bomb”. You said that learn to trust your instictual “go for it” voice and it works well for me. What I realize is “go for it” can mean many things in different situations with different women. You could go for it by just rubbing her neck, or you could go for it by holding her arm or kissing her. Also I find that rehearsing the close in your mind before going out sarging also helps bigtime!
@Rheo I said back in 1993 when I did my Unstoppable Confidence Course: if you want a new behavior, you have to REHEARSE IT!
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Last night I had a dream; after a seminar in a courtyard I was skeptical about how far SS can go with girls and also regarding your ability to close women. I swear it’s true. In the dream you asked me something like “the times you used the Skills and get positive results, did it work?” so I started thinking how to answer you in a way that could go toward what I aimed, but you went away.
@AM it’s $500 per dream fee for my appearances.
RJ
Only if you bring the girls with you!