Dear Seeker of Success,
Do you find yourself talking with a woman, and she’ll just look at you and not give any response?
Then suddenly, a few minutes or hours or days later, you get a BIG response?
Check out this report from a student of mine:
This happened in the grocery store. I got into a conversation with this girl. It’s the perfect time of year for it. It was about turkeys. I was just going through this whole process on how to prepare a turkey. I was throwing so much sexual innuendo in there. I just was not getting a response.
Finally it just got to that awkward silence moment where I ran out of different angles, so I ended and walked away. About five minutes went by, and she came down another aisle. She came back up then smiled at me. She said, “I don’t know if, being a chef, you know how to do this or not, but my microwave is broken. Do you know how to fix a microwave?”
I laughed and said, “The only ones I know how to fix are probably the kind you have in your apartment.” She laughed. I ended up getting her phone number. But it blew me away because I was getting nothing at first.
RJ here again. You probably weren’t getting “nothing”.
Early on in my career, in 1988 or 1989, I would go to what I call a “delayed reaction effect.”
I would do something. It would seem like nothing happened or worked, but an hour later she was bouncing on me.
Or, maybe 48 hours later, I’d get a call from Vacant-Stare Vannah, saying, “I’d really like to come over to see that painting.”
Some People Just Process More Slowly
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ou need to really fractionate them then walk away for a while.
In your case, you just went to another aisle. She needed to process it.
What you saw her doing was a trans-variational search. She was reaching deep down inside to find the meaning for her. It may well be that that’s how she processes her world.
She’s a fractionator. She needed to get away from it for a while before she could come back even more strongly. Her way of fractionating was physically moving a little bit away.
When people don’t touch her deeply, there’s no problem, but when they’re touching really deep, she needs to take a timeout and withdraw her senses inside to taste the experience.
I have the feeling that what you have in your hands is a profoundly good trance subject.
It’s just that…
She Needs A Different Kind Of Focus
To Get In There
Here’s my suggestion. When you’re f@@king her, call her attention to what you’re doing. “Doesn’t it feel good now that I’m taking off your panties and touching the tip of my thumb to your clit? Is the feeling spreading through you? Now, as I slide my cock in, feel the excitement.”
Do you understand? Narrate it. That’s what I think happened. I’ve seen it before.
Sometimes I will do that in a place like the supermarket where you have the opportunity to fractionate and not lose sight of her.
Do it anyway.
Make it a routine thing to do.
Peace,
RJ
P.S. You lay the groundwork by showing up attractive – in many cases before you even open your mouth. Demos, skills, and drills that get you this level of girl-getting mastery are right here.
Hey RJ,
This mirrors EXACTLY my own experience.
When I first became an SS’er back in ’99, I learned this from personal experience.
It was what I still call the 24-72 hour rule. At the time I just thought that was just how they internally process the “Process Language.” As I amassed more training and experience in hypnosis, and applying SS out in the REAL World, with REAL live women, THAT’s when I began to fully appreciate just how powerful fractionation truly is. The trick I learned from this was never try to “close” them.
When she’s sufficiently fractionated herself (after leaving your presence) she’ll call or just show up within the 24-72 hour time frame and “close” you. You guys who are new to SS will really be surprised at the intensity of her response to you. More so, when she jumps your bones. I mean literally jumps you and fucks you senseless. Yes, experience truly is the best teacher.
. . . Thomas.
Interesting, that’s a new perspective that I never considered, a delayed close. I always like it when rj brings up this these posts on delayed reactions to ss stuff. I have had similar experiences, when first starting out in ss, I remember using ss on real stunner at the gym. 3/4 of the way while I was using a pattern on this stunner, she got up and walked way, saying something like “I don’t want to hear this anymore” . She then walked away and started to talk with a gym friend orbiter. I figured screw it, she is not a trance candidate. Then like six weeks later, when I saw her at the gym , I noticed this girl kept looking over at me. I couldn’t figure it out. Then I came across a old newsletter from ’97 where rj talked about how he new of someone who reacted like 3 months later. Then of course I realized what happened. Another time I was walking past some bar and noticed in the corner of my eye a girl was waving at me, I didn’t recognize her, and wasn’t even realize she was waving at me until I had my own delayed reaction and realized it was bartender who used to work at another bar who I had used ss on over year ago! So never take her first response’s as true, that little mind bomb may go off later.
I suppose this is what I like about SS, it is light years away from the mainstream, and certainly the antitheses of the “brawn and booze” pick up that is rearing it’s head on utube and other forums. I think the whole pu thing is sort of coming full circle..many of the players who came in around 2001-2007 (and post “the Game”)
are withering away, and maybe it will be like it was in the mid to late 1990’s just little ole underground ss.
I wish rj good luck with the new women focused teachings. It again flies in the face of “conventional wisdom” and I hope he riles up and thoroughly pisses off the masses like in the early to mid 90’s. Or, at starts off as a stealthy behind the scenes movement the way SS did so many years ago.
ps. mr ross, don’t retire ever, keep think and producing and being a thorn in the side to the turd herd