“I Said Goodbye To The ‘Friend’ Who Held Me Back!”

Dear Seeker of Success,

Many times here on my blog, I’ve shared stories of how my students have applied my teachings to powerfully handle situations with women who flake, women who “run hot and cold,” women who say they have a “bore-friend”…

…and women who drop the “F-bomb” as in “Let’s be friends.”

Ugh.

Using Speed Seduction®, you can often turn that “friend” into your devoted lover, and many students have done so.

However, some women cannot make the transition from thinking of you as a “brother” to screaming “OH BROTHER!” as you take her for a spin on the carnal carousel.

Sometimes, you just gotta cut your losses, as this student learned:

Hey Ross! After listening to your girl-getting teachings in the Unstoppable Confidence course I finally decided to live up to Affirmation #5.

I called up a female friend of mine whom I had had a crush on for longer than I’d like to admit. I was her nice-guy, girl-friend, “brother I never had” and it was bringing me down. I told her that I believed that, in this point in time, being friends with her wasn’t good for me and I explained why in a polite a way as possible.

She said that she was my friend and understood that it was something I had to do, and we left it that once I feel I can be friends with her without it being a hindrance to my moral and self esteem that I’d get in contact with her again. She actually said that the idea that I’m going to eventually get back with her to resume our friendship is “The only thing keeping her sane right now” and cried a bit (she seemed to take it a lot harder than I did), but I knew this was something that I had to do because I couldn’t honestly look into the future and see things getting any better.

I don’t think it’s really set in yet, but I believe that not being friends at this point in my life will be far more beneficial to myself than continuing along the way things were. I hope this is inspirational to any other brothers out there who feel they need to do something similar.

First of all, congratulations on claiming your integrity and alignment with who you are and what you give to the world.

This is what it’s all about.

Good on you!

There’s another reason why you broke off your “friend-ship” with her. You don’t come out and say it, perhaps because you realize it on a subconscious but not “on the table” and “in your face” sort of way.

She told you that the POSSIBILITY that you MIGHT be friends again SOMEDAY is the only thing keeping her sane… and then she burst into tears.

Your gut was telling you that, aside from her having dropped the “F-Bomb” and consigned you to “Justfriendsville,” that there’s something dinged about this chick.

This is why you couldn’t look into the future and see things getting better with her.

Here’s what I see in your future:

You’ll move on to Seduction success with
the open, interested, willing steaming-hot
women you truly desire and DESERVE.

Meanwhile, in a separate storybook that you won’t read, she will find some Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to be her “brother from another mother” and serve as her ironing-board for her emotional angst while she avoids taking necessary steps to claim what SHE deserves.

Look: the women who won’t lob “F-bombs” at you are waiting.

Now that you’ve stopped being the target, what are you waiting FOR?

Peace,

RJ

P.S. No matter what your situation, stuck point, barrier or circumstances, I guarantee you I’ve seen it before.

Which means, I can easily take you from where you are with women and get you to where you want to go, quickly, powerfully, and with a set of skills that will make you the envy of every guy you see.

Doesn’t that make sense to you?

The only difference between now and tomorrow is 1,440 minutes that you’ll never get back if you don’t take action for yourself today!