Dear Seeker of Success,
A major challenge facing almost every smart man comes, at one point or another on his Seduction journey, when he is interested in a particular hottie who “runs hot and cold.”
One minute she’s all excited about getting together (giving you a chance to get her all hot and bothered and enjoy some crazy wild sex with her).
But in the blink of an eye, she cancels meetings, leaves messages at weird times when she knows you can’t answer, and then doesn’t answer or reply when you call back.
This student is currently getting his knob twisted in the wrong way by just such a woman:
Ross, I have a bit of a problem. I have met a woman who I made some plans with a week ago for this upcoming weekend. We were going to get together at my place on Friday afternoon and again on Sunday for the playoffs game – her treat. She said she would call to verify early in the week, and we’d go to a local club to watch the game.
Anyway, she called and left a message yesterday morning w/ no mention of our plans and said she’d call back. I called her back and left a message in the afternoon which she hasn’t returned.
When she was at my place once before, I was running all sorts of patterns with her and she was REALLY into it and then she got a call from someone and got cold feet. I tried relaxing her, and did so to some extent but didn’t push the issue. Since then, we have not gotten together (she then cancelled plans we made subsequently), but this weekend seemed right and it was her idea to get together.
I want to stay out of a mindset within her of “cancelled plans” so she doesn’t continue to support this notion of me. Any suggestions on how to handle or shift this frame would be appreciated.
Ev-ery time someone comes to me with a story like this, I start by asking one basic, important question:
“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing
woman on the whole freaking planet???”
Am I missing something here?
When you were together before, she wasn’t completely available to you, especially after she got that phone call.
She’s cancelled on you twice now.
And you’re thinking she may be in a mindset of cancelling on you whenever?!?!?!?!
So clue me in here:
Do you live in downtown Sausageville
where there are absolutely no available
and willing hot women?
Don’t let this woman twist your faucet knob by running hot and cold.
Drop her NOW.
Let some AFC, put up with her crap.
You have better things (and women) to do, pal.
I permit you one cold shower, IF she’s THAT hot that you need it.
But I assure you I’ve f@@ked women who put her to shame in looks, personality, and everything else.
So actually, forget the cold shower.
Take a normal shower and put on your best clothes and favourite cologne that drives the women crazy.
Get your Seduction a## back out in the field and find a new hottie who will twist your knob the RIGHT way and then share a HOT (in more ways than one) shower with you.
P.S. Would you like to finally get this area of your life handled, and reap the benefits of being a man who has choice and power with women?
Come to the March 11-12, 2017 Los Angeles Speed Seduction® Seminar and master the mindset that gets women dripping and the daygame blueprint to meet them like a champ: