Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
You’re THIS close to getting her mounted on your baloney poney, or initiating the Tongue-Joust Of The Year, or what have you, and she drops it on you:
“Uh, I want to take things slow. Can you understand?”
Before I begin: part of discovering her truth behind this statement depends on her facial expressions, voice tone, and other things unique to THAT woman in THAT scenario at THAT moment.
Speed Seduction® is powerful because rather than just a set of verbatim pick-up lines, it gives you the tools and thought process to figure out what to do in each individual girl-getting situation, ’cause they’re all different.
So let’s look at the question…
Why Did She Shift The Seduction Express
Into Granny Gear On You?
There are a few possibilities that I can see:
1) She means what she says. Either because it’s always been this way for her or she’s had some really bad experiences getting sexual quickly and they have made her “gun” shy. But she does mean it.
That doesn’t mean that “love” to her means a guy who is totally agreeable and follows her time table either. “Love” could mean a connection to a guy who doesn’t take her first or second or third answer as being HIS answer.
2) She means it on one level and on another she doesn’t. Remember my maxim: I seldom take a woman’s first response as written in stone.
In this event, she DOES want to fuck you, but she’s afraid of being hurt or being pressured.
3) She gets turned on by guys who don’t take her protestations seriously and she needs to get rammed, hard, and to see some serious aggression from you.
4) She’s actually already fucking someone else who happens to be away for a while or who is ignoring her. So she wants some nice male attention and some closeness to keep her feeling good about herself while the guy who is fucking her senseless isn’t around.
Bottom line: “Who Knows?”
The Real Answer Is…
How do YOU want to handle it? How do YOU want to respond?
What is the vision of yourself that you can bring forward with your responses, even if you don’t “get” this particular girl?
Peace and piece,
P.S. If you knew how to turn 20 minutes over coffee into hours of hot sex, by the numbers alone would you be spending less time in the slow lane?
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