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  • Domenick December 24, 2012, 10:31 am

    i have been in this situation multiple times this past year. 1 of 2 things have happened.

    1. ill say to her “i dont want to feel pressured, i dont want you to feel pressured lets just do whats comfortable for us.” and then well make out, finger..then sex..

    1.b ill make her laugh and changed the subject put the lights back on and go watch TV and once she is laughing again and comfortable…go for it and it usually works.

    2. she starts crying, acts really wierd and never see her again no matter what i say….

    i dont know why number 2 happens..its only the girls that appeart to be looking at me for a sense of “im the answer to their problems” or “the ones that are completely sexually inseccure and lost” the adventourous and wise girls usually lead to answer 1.

    this is my experience

    • roma December 25, 2012, 5:48 pm

      blinkin’ top class – to summarise – play with finger and then move “Up” the scale or – she’s got some deep issues that need a shrink – gottit – great one there

  • Zarathud December 26, 2012, 2:24 am

    #3 intrigues me. I’ve met women who seem to be like that as a defense, basically so the guy is totally responsible for whatever drama it is they believe they need to reenact, and yet I can imagine a very desirable woman being the same way simply due to total self-confidence and boredom with guys who are looking for reassurance or validation or anything other than really getting with her.

  • Rio January 12, 2013, 3:52 am

    In this situation, it’s typically because the girl in question is juggling dudes (which is typical), but where one of the men she is seeing is most likely the “committed” boyfriend/husband who she doesn’t want to cheat on because she needs whatever financial support he is giving out. Likely, it’s the so-called “ex” who is clearly still in her life otherwise she wouldn’t have mentioned him in passing usually.

    … but she’s there, in your bed, playing dead!

    The woman is looking to “cheat”, but in order for it to not count in her mind, she needs responsibility for the act to be abdicated away by you. That way she didn’t “cheat”, and it’s all YOUR fault (no, it isn’t really)

    The reason why the woman is crazy is that she’s trying to juggle all this commitment nonsense double-standard in her head while her body is telling her to sleep around. Pretty hard for most women to stay sane doing that.

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