Dear Speed Seduction® Student,
Making the change from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Speed Seduction® Master and claiming the most enticing, most enjoyable hot women out there is a life-changing move. You change from a guy who has to resort to bullying, begging, and other “B” behaviors…to one who effortlessly and confidently approaches and seduces women.
So let’s say, back in your AFC days, there was a woman you were into, but because you were an AFC back then, you ended up being with Rosie and her sisters instead. But now, this hottie-from-before is back on your radar. You want to show her the “new man” you are now, seduce her and f@@k her brains out, but she is trying to put you back in the “therapist” role.
Here’s an “SOS” I got from a student in the same boat:
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Ross, I got a call today from a hottie who several years ago I totally dropped the ball on. I had a good start back then, but then I got too lusty and too supplicating and lost her to some other guy. Well, guess what? He dumped her 2 weeks ago and guess who she’s calling. ME!
When she called, she started crying about him, trying to (again) make me the veritable emotional tampon/AFC-friend. I totally refused, and said if we get together it has to be in a quiet place where we could have a few laughs.
I kept the call brief to avoid the AFC frame, especially after she instead asked me to come over tomorrow because she’s with her kids (in other words, so she could be near her safety net). I said I’d get back to her this week.
How can I move from “potential AFC supplicant borefriend emotional tampon” to “tasty-fuck-treat?” This is hard to do once you are in the “friend” category.
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Being “stuck” in the friend category – or stuck ANYWHERE for that matter – is a choice that YOU consciously make.
When she dumped this guy, who did she call? YOU. So use that fact for what it’s worth.
You can get her aroused and hot and bothered, but it has to be done in a certain sequence and a certain location. You need to get her away from her “safety net” and into a place where she will be open to exploring new things … and the possibility of exploring with you … in bed.
The key is to use the information she gives you to your advantage. Before you know it, you’ll be enjoying mind-blowing sex with her – and pretty much any other woman of your choosing that you might have “missed out on” in the past as a result of the “way you used to be.”
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. A Speed Seduction® master will remain calmly in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation. It doesn’t matter what went down (or who didn’t go down) two years ago, or even two weeks ago.
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I don't think being in the friend category is a nail in the coffin.