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    ZaraThud May 6, 2013, 5:29 pm

    Praise be to Sargie! I did a little more information gathering tonight.

    Stop one I was ready with a line, but by the time she came by I’d lost my enthusiasm. So I asked myself, “What changed,” and I answered myself, “Let’s find an opportunity to deliver right away and compare the difference.

    Stop two she was borderline hovering, but it gave me a chance to deliver my line with urgency. I don’t think that my voice sounded too urgent – her reply was whatever.

    The difference is that I wasn’t thinking about the outcome at all. Not a “good” outcome, not a “bad” outcome, just the urgency to do what I set out to.

    “The action is the outcome!”

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    Trever Allen April 26, 2015, 3:59 pm

    I full heartedly believe in the precepts and principles taught by Mr. Jefferies in using NLP to magnify your own qualities to the end of attraction. But I am married and find that I can elicit short acting feelings of arousal in my wife with no long term success. I morally don’t feel good about cheating but struggle with the strong need to have sex. I am lost, I don’t know if there is a pattern for long term relationships or if I should double think my marriage because patterns are needed to get the little occasional sex I get now. Any thoughts or direction?

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