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    Dan H. May 3, 2018, 12:38 am

    I was just about to go out In the field using the twin brothers pattern. Now you tell me patterns are bad. What am I supposed to do to move forward scoring with women?

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      Ross Jeffries May 3, 2018, 4:57 am

      No, no, no.

      I did not say “patterns are bad”.

      Actually, the Twin Brothers, which requires a significant amount of participation from the female, is a perfect example of what I AM saying in the video.

      Also, Speed Seduction is not about scripts. It’s about, as pertains to language patterns, the power of the words and how they’re used, more than the words themselves.

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        Dan H. May 8, 2018, 3:35 pm

        so you want me to go out and “share” patterns with women?

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    Paul May 3, 2018, 7:03 am

    That ‘sharing’ is a huge shift in my thinking. It really takes the pressure off, especially in sales.

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      Ross Jeffries May 3, 2018, 2:42 pm

      It’s a step in the process of having your prospect (whether a sales prospect or a Sargy prospect) feel it’s their own idea, which is one of the most powerful feelings that leads them to take YOUR preferred actions!

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    Ike May 3, 2018, 11:15 am

    Awesome and as I told you in Atlanta several years ago I actually did run a pattern and got cussed out but after she processed it a couple days later she called me back and gave me the well you know. I did learn that sharing playfully and confidently works 90% of the time for me.

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      Ross Jeffries May 3, 2018, 2:41 pm

      I remember Ike, now that you remind me!

      Again, check your language – “run” a pattern? As I said in the video…. follow that and you may not be waiting for a couple days!

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    Table June 10, 2018, 5:05 am

    I get what you mean. It just sounds really gay, compared to “running a pattern”. Today I had the opportunity to “share” this pattern with a woman whom I found physically attractive… Running a pattern is much more comfortable to say. But, yes, once again I see what you mean.

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      Ross Jeffries July 25, 2018, 2:06 pm

      Just avoid saying “running a pattern” and focus on “sharing a pattern”. The more you practice, the more comfortable it will likely become for you. I gather you appreciate the benefits that come with this change.

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    Benjamin July 3, 2018, 2:57 am

    Hi Ross

    Any idea when I think of my now ex girlfriend my aspergers mind goes into confusion and and my jaw goes numb and head goes tight. It was like one day consciously I loved her, but the subconscious saw her as a threat? NO THERAPIST has known the answer. Own your book btw

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      Ross Jeffries July 25, 2018, 2:04 pm

      That is a bit outside my scope. The first thing I would ask is, what prompts you to look backward toward your ex, rather than forward toward your future women? There’s no “right” or “wrong” answer – but whatever answer is there may help you.

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