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  • Justin Quaid March 26, 2013, 9:33 pm

    To me it is more important to get the concept of Speed Seduction and to be able to apply it many different avenues beyond any set pattern. Just like martial arts where in the beginning a person might be focus on learning the techniques, but as time moves on the martial artist soon takes on the form of a conceptual technician, or in other words finally the art becomes a part of the practitioner.

  • Zarathud March 29, 2013, 3:17 am

    Fortunately I’ve never been able to memorize a full pattern, so I’ve never had a problem with this!

  • Socialkenny March 29, 2013, 2:48 pm

    Nice breakdown Ross. Still somewhat vague but I can sift through the article and put it together myself. Like that you said it isn’t something you do to the girl but share with her. Cool perspective.

  • Stephen November 24, 2017, 12:11 am

    Hello Mr Jeffries, I hope all is well.

    “if you simply recite pick-up lines word-for-word, there IS a chance she’ll laugh in your face or say something mean.”

    I have patterns that I’ve made up that follow specific questions to the woman. These require her to give me feedback before I start the patterns…

    1st question: “are you from around here, do you live nearby?” – I then do a pattern I have created and memorized.

    2nd question: “are you like most girls, and probably shopping’s enough to fill you up with excitement?” I then go on to the subject of self discipline. Or I may ask what she does for fun/what her guilty pleasure is – then go into the theme of self discipline.

    3rd question: “Do you like meeting new people? One thing I find interesting about people is:” – have you ever noticed, a person can completely close off their logical mind, when they really want to feel indulgence, pleasure, satisfaction and desire? It’s like you feel the need to immediately act upon it right now, when it’s right in front of you. If you don’t, it can just keep growing harder and harder to resist. (said this one today – went completely over her head)

    Making a pattern up on the spot, is sprinting to my current crawling…

    In regards to the Dave Riker course, I have Rapid and Total, doesn’t that cover all I need to know about patterns?

    This article is making me apprehensive about doing patterns, as I feel I could be falling into the category you described. I could also be misinterpreting what you have been talking about.

    If you could please let me know if I’m on the right track – or give a really clear example about just “doing a pattern”?

    I have the curse of being a perfectionist when it comes to approaching.

    • Stephen November 24, 2017, 2:22 pm

      Re-reading the article. I think you mean – don’t say them robotically. Feel the words I am using when expressing states of emotion. Slow it down so she can join in.

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