Dear Seeker of Success,
Not too long ago, I was a guest speaker at an event hosted by a fellow seduction guru (something I rarely do, but this guy is cool).
I started my talk by asking a question, which was this:
“By a show hands, how many here find themselves dwelling over and over again on mistakes they make with women? Situations that just haven’t or don’t work out?”
Would you believe it?
Every Single Person In The Room –
There Were Over 150 Smart Guys There –
Raised Their Hand. Every. Single. One.
So I picked a guy out of the audience.
“Let me ask you this,” I said. “How many times would you guess you’ve run these failures in your head over the past 6 months? Just a rough guess.”
Now, do you think it was less than 100? You would be wrong.
Do you think it was less than 1,000? Guess again.
No, this otherwise seemingly together guy, who looked on the surface like he’d be a master of this stuff, had run these failure scenarios in his mind over 5,000 times!
Now, here we have this guy who really wants to change with women.
He really wants success and satisfaction.
But this same guy is repeating in his mind, over and over, what he did wrong, feeling all the bad feelings he felt at the time, seeing himself doing and responding the same useless things in the same way.
So given that he is doing all this, (and doing it mostly outside of his conscious awareness) is it any friggin’ wonder that his brain, given such repeated instructions…
…Keeps Him Repeating His Same Mistakes
Over And Over And Over Again?
Is any of this sounding familiar to you?
I bet it is.
I bet it is.
I bet it is.
Now, was this guy some sort of self-hating, self-sabotager who is “afraid of success” or suffers from “low self-esteem”?
After teaching thousands of guys to succeed with women over 20 years, I’m convinced guys want to succeed, big time, when it comes to desirable women.
What’s actually going on is that he’d been dwelling on his mistakes in an effort to learn from them and correct them.
But the way he in which he was trying to learn from his mistakes it-and likely the way you are too-was just reprogramming the mistakes back in.
That is why it is not enough to positively program yourself for success.
You must also come up with an efficient way to notice what you are doing incorrectly, without re-programming your errors back in.
The key to this is to create what I call a “self-review/optimum learning state”.
In this state, you are looking at what you did from a relaxed, calm, alert state.
And most importantly, you are looking at your mistakes through a set of positive beliefs and filters, so you can extract maximum information, learn what you need to, then move on.
That is what this guy needed.
Likely it is what you need.
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