Posts Tagged ‘approach anxiety’

RE: “My Friends Aren’t Around, So I Can’t Meet Women”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on February 20th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

OK, so it’s time to hit the town… but you’re sitting home alone.

Maybe all your pals are married or in committed relationships (or perhaps “real-hate-shun-ships by default”) so you don’t have a wingman to help you approach the “b#%ch-packs.”

Could be you have no one to go out with (did you actually try asking people, or are you ASSUMING everyone’s busy or not interested?) and you feel awkward going out alone. Maybe you’re out of town and it feels weird going out alone.

Any way you look at it, you’re not out there meeting women. Instead you’re doing something else, involving a word that sounds like “meet.”

The (Likely) Real Reason You’re With Rosie And Her Sisters Tonight
Instead Of Making Out With Dazzling, Delicious Debbie

Perhaps you’re tried Sarging on some hotties, but having gotten the brush-off more often than you expected, you’re coming up with any dang ol’ excuse to stay planted on your Seduction a$% instead of taking to the field.

The easiest one is “I hate going out alone.” Well, join me as I show you …

… Three Surefire Places To Find And Flirt With Fine Women,
Without A Wingman Or A Pu#$y-Pulling Posse

Here are three places you can start looking, right now:\

  • Street / store sarging. The best places to meet women are not “meat markets.” Get into the Sarging zone by talking to everybody. Before you know it, approaching a hot woman, anytime, anywhere, will be just a day in your life, not an “event” that you prepare for.
  • Organized Social Events. What do wine tastings, dance classes, cocktail parties, party cruises, and networking events all have in common? Lots of hot, exciting women. You already have an “if all else fails” ice-breaker because you know you have at least ONE thing in common.
  • Plan Your Flight, Hotel… And Sarging Zone. If you’re going to be out of town, do some advance research before you travel so you know the hot spots to hit while you’re in a new town. Are there organized social events in that town that strike your fancy? Get on Google and let your fingers do the walking. You’ll find something.

    Let me do the math for you… New City + New Women = New Adventures.

Get good at mixing it up and talking to everybody when your friends aren’t around. Then, when you meet cute, available women, your social wheels will already be turning and you’ll be the master of your girl-getting game.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Ready to make life work for you and attract and score with women, anywhere, anytime, with no need for a wingman or social safety net? Everything you need is in my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course. Click here to get yours today!

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Meet 10 Women In 48 Hrs, Guaranteed, With The $500 To A Shit Bum Method!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 18th, 2009

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I am absolutely fed up with students who are whining that they still can’t get themselves talking to women.

So I’ve come up with a method guaranteed(and I mean on my life, GUARAN-FUCKING-TEED) to get you up off your wussy ass and meeting women.

The method cannot fail. You will talk to hot women. You might even get laid with a hot woman.

This video explains it all.

Click Here To Find Out Even Better Ways To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere

Peace and piece,

RJ

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“But That Sales Clerk Keeps Getting In The Way”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 13th, 2009

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I absolutely love teaching smart guys like you how to get the steaming hot women you really want without having to resort to what I call the “5 B’s” – bullying, begging, buying, B.S. or booze.

fotolia 2470937 small But That Sales Clerk Keeps Getting In The WayThe other day on one of my twice monthly “Ask Me Anything” calls, a member of my coaching program brought up this situation and I asked him to follow it up by posting on the community forum Here is what he posted:

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Ross,

I had an interesting situation come up when I was shopping for furniture. I saw a woman who had such a major league hot body, she could have easily been a stripper or a bikini model.

I went back to the home study courses you’ve talked about before and used the strategies, such as trying to get a sense of her energy.

But there was a sales clerk attached to her. She just kept pummeling him with questions. He’d flit away for five seconds and come right back.

They had an interaction that went on for so long that I felt like I was stalking her. I was wandering from aisle to aisle and killing what time I could, but eventually I felt like I was going to get busted or give her the creeps or something so I backed off.

What do you do? Is it ever doable to interrupt an interaction with an ongoing sales purchase? How can you break into that?

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This is a situation that most guys find themselves in. They want to approach a hottie in her daily life but there’s some co-worker, sales clerk, or other business acquaintance who won’t get out of the way long enough.

Here’s something to think about. Although this chick is smokin’ hot, maybe you’re just not going to meet her today. You can hang around, and maybe the clerk will go away. Chances are, that sales clerk will be there until the time she pays for her furniture – then she’s out of there.

Meanwhile, look around you. Right now. Are there any other beautiful women in the store who are more approachable – who you could approach instead? Is there somewhere nearby (a lounge, a coffee shop) you could look? In my Gold Walk-Up DVD. I cover many types of approaches that you can use in many different situations.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

P.S. There are many ways to get her attention at work in a way that isn’t “weird” or “stalkerish” while she’s at work. You just have to think “outside the box” (pun intended) in order to get inside her box.

In my Speed Seduction® Home Study Course, you will learn and use patterns that cover every possible problem and contingency you might encounter when you see a steaming hot woman you just have to meet, so you’ll be able to smoothly exert total power and control from start to finish in virtually any situation – wherever and however you meet her.

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How To Destroy Approach Anxiety And Approach Women With Ease

Posted by Ross Jeffries on June 21st, 2009
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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video(which is #3 of 10 in my Youtube  Beyond Dating Tips Playlist) I discuss the nature of approach anxiety-what it really is-and how to destroy it so you can enjoy the ability to approach and pick-up(and seduce) hot women with ease.

I have a radically and fundamentally different view of approach anxiety; I don’t view it as being about fear of rejection or even fear of the approach

Rather I view it as neurological friction; the result of two equally powerful and conflicting desires arising in your neurology at the same time.

What are these?

The desire to move forward and talk to the woman(or women) and the equal and opposite desire to stay right where you are and not say a word until you are certain that what you are going to say and do will work.

Let me give you a metaphor to understand.

Suppose I gave you a radio-controlled toy car.  And you gave it the command to turn left and turn right at the exact same moment.

What would the car do?

I think you know the answer.

It would freeze up and spin its motor until it burned out or the battery ran out.

Is this beginning to make sense?

A huge breakthrough will occur when you now realize that approach anxiety isn’t really that at all. It’s internal conflict manifesting as neurological friction and cognitive confusion.

Now there is one more complicating factor and that is the meaning you give to the feelings of neurological upset.

If you conclude that the anxious, or rather FRICTION feelings means that you face some external threat-that you are about to be rejected, defeated or humiliated in the external world, then you are going to create secondary anxiety about that.

Now, in addition to the internal conflict, you get to add in a nice dose of fight or flight syndrome.

So what is the solution to all of this?

Watch the damned video. And if you’ d like to go directly to Youtube to watch, and so you can help me spread the word by rating and commenting on it, then it’s How To Destroy Approach Anxiety And Approach Women With Ease.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Hey, could you please do me a favor and help me out? If you’ve found value from this article, and/or the video, could you please help me spread the word by Twittering the video’s Youtube URL: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8R4tJjXqJ7k.

P.P.S. Did you know when you follow me on Twitter you can ask me anything and usually get a reply within just a few hours?

http://www.twitter.com/rossjeffries

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