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“Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on January 16th, 2010

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Hitting a “grand slam” requires skill, strength, and focus. Create the vision that your bat will connect to the ball with powerful force and send it flying right out of the park, and channel your skills to get your results and claim your future. Sounds simple enough?

ca 67935924 180 Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?Well, sometimes smart guys like you step up to bat, but then can’t seem to harness the positive energy to make the approach and close the deal. When this happens, you strike out. But are you striking YOURSELF out?

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Hey Ross, I purchased my first Speed Seduction® product a while ago but I’ve just starting applying it within the past few weeks. A group of us get together at a local shopping center to go Sarging. I have made about 25 approaches – small fry approaches really like commenting on the environment, asking the time, or asking for directions.

For the last week though, it seems as though the quantity and quality of my approaches has dropped. For example the first two weeks I could at least manage to have a pleasant, if short, conversation with a hot babe, but now all I can work myself up to do is the most unambitious and dull approaches (such as asking the time.) My quantity of approaches has also dropped from 5 or 6 in the first few weeks to just 2 last week.

It feels as if I’m regressing. I regularly practice breathing meditation. The only thing that I can think of is that I have fallen into the trap of comfort with my fellow wingmen. Because I am comfortable and at ease with them I no longer feel the same pressure to prove to them that I am putting in the effort. Consequently I seem to be feeling and acting like I did when I tried to Sarge alone (and failed). What can I do?

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First of all, why did you wait so long to get started? As I’ve said before, every day that goes by is 1,440 lost minutes that you will never get back. There are no “do-overs” pal – but there is the chance to “do NOW.” What’s stopped you until now?

ca 41841277 325 Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?In Speed Seduction®, I teach students the techniques for using the information, feedback, and “vibe” that women put out as a means of reaching them on their level and opening them up and blazing the path toward Seduction success.

Just like men react to the vibe women give off – if she’s warm and open we’re likely to proceed, if she’s cold and closed we’re more likely to “Exit, Stage Left” – women react to men in the same way.

So I ask you, what “vibe” are you putting out there? What does it say about who you are and what you give to the world?

Is it the kind of vibe that shows a woman that you are open, attractive, appealing, and open to new explorations? Or does it say “I’m not really sure I should be talking to you, and besides, I don’t know what to say?”

If you ask me, there’s something inside that’s holding you back. In order to explore the virgin (or not-so-virgin) territory of those stunning sexy women at the shopping centre, find out what’s stopping you from launching the expedition.

Peace and piece,

RJ

NailYourInnerGame200 Am I Striking MYSELF Out With The Women?P.S. What results could you claim with no need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, as you walked like a giant where other people fear to step? And what if you could get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” a@%, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted?

My Nail Your Inner Game System is the best, most systematic, fool proof, breakthrough system for untangling the confusion and “re-infection” that keeps guys stuck entirely, or stuck at a very underachieving level, and I’ve created a way where anyone can use it.

Claim yours now, and blast through the barriers that have held you back… until now!

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Meet 10 Women In 48 Hrs, Guaranteed, With The $500 To A Shit Bum Method!

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 18th, 2009

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I am absolutely fed up with students who are whining that they still can’t get themselves talking to women.

So I’ve come up with a method guaranteed(and I mean on my life, GUARAN-FUCKING-TEED) to get you up off your wussy ass and meeting women.

The method cannot fail. You will talk to hot women. You might even get laid with a hot woman.

This video explains it all.

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Peace and piece,

RJ

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“She Turned Those Other Guys Down … And Turned On To ME!”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on October 11th, 2009

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Becoming a Speed Seduction® Master takes practice, and sometimes even trial and error, as confidently and powerfully approaching women and creating states of wet, irresistible arousal becomes part of who you are and how you go about life.

fotolia 1978189 small She Turned Those Other Guys Down ... And Turned On To ME!When everything “clicks” and you make that shift from “Average Frustrated Chump” to Amazing Fascinating Champ and the ladies are passing over the competition for YOU … that’s when it all comes together.

Experience the results this student shared with me yesterday:

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Ross, I had a wonderful time last night. But the night did not start that way. The club was full of babes, but I was in a terrible state. I was busy with self-sabotage telling myself all kinds of negative things.

At some point I noticed that two girls were dancing and showing some interest. While dancing with friends I tried to approach them. It started with eye contacts, closer dancing to them and then conversation. The conversation did not have a flow. It would be a couple of sentences.

Even when the one I wanted most was alone, I couldn’t dance completely close to her. She rejected at least 5 other guys who approached her, but at least she didn’t reject me when talking to her.

All of a sudden it happened. I don’t know what happened but my usual distructing self-talk and disempowering self-image was not there anymore. I could think clear. I just went to her, touched her waist and started to
bump-and-grind against me. She loved it and she said that she liked it. She started to dance with me with a lot of joy and a big smile.

When I think about it. I ask myself, “what the hell happened?” I was on auto-pilot. The inner audio and video were shut down. That is why I was not uncertain and not hesitating. How can I hold on to this state and recall it at will?

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Notice something
about your reaction to the negative thoughts you were having. Instead of giving into them, you just noticed them, without judgment or getting upset.

What happened here wasn’t a super-glowing, super-power state (which can be useful, don’t get me wrong), but rather the ABSENCE or the turning down of what USED to get in the way, so your natural abilities could flow through.

Without the obstacles of self-doubt and self-sabotage in the way, you went from grinding your teeth in angst, to doing the bump-and-grind with that hottie who turned down five other guys for you. Tell me, doesn’t that beat a poke in the eye?

Peace and piece,

- RJ

SpeedSeductionDeluxe200 She Turned Those Other Guys Down ... And Turned On To ME!P.S. Isn’t it awesome, to be able to create irresistible POSITIVE challenge, that draws women forward and massively magnifies her attraction to you, from the first word spoken to her last gasp of pleasure?

With what I teach you throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS in my Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course, you’ll remain calmly in control as the effortless seduction architect of every interaction and situation – regardless of what happened before!

The women (on the dance floor, and everywhere else) are waiting – so what are you waiting FOR? Get yours now!

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“But That Sales Clerk Keeps Getting In The Way”

Posted by Ross Jeffries on August 13th, 2009

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I absolutely love teaching smart guys like you how to get the steaming hot women you really want without having to resort to what I call the “5 B’s” – bullying, begging, buying, B.S. or booze.

fotolia 2470937 small But That Sales Clerk Keeps Getting In The WayThe other day on one of my twice monthly “Ask Me Anything” calls, a member of my coaching program brought up this situation and I asked him to follow it up by posting on the community forum Here is what he posted:

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Ross,

I had an interesting situation come up when I was shopping for furniture. I saw a woman who had such a major league hot body, she could have easily been a stripper or a bikini model.

I went back to the home study courses you’ve talked about before and used the strategies, such as trying to get a sense of her energy.

But there was a sales clerk attached to her. She just kept pummeling him with questions. He’d flit away for five seconds and come right back.

They had an interaction that went on for so long that I felt like I was stalking her. I was wandering from aisle to aisle and killing what time I could, but eventually I felt like I was going to get busted or give her the creeps or something so I backed off.

What do you do? Is it ever doable to interrupt an interaction with an ongoing sales purchase? How can you break into that?

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This is a situation that most guys find themselves in. They want to approach a hottie in her daily life but there’s some co-worker, sales clerk, or other business acquaintance who won’t get out of the way long enough.

Here’s something to think about. Although this chick is smokin’ hot, maybe you’re just not going to meet her today. You can hang around, and maybe the clerk will go away. Chances are, that sales clerk will be there until the time she pays for her furniture – then she’s out of there.

Meanwhile, look around you. Right now. Are there any other beautiful women in the store who are more approachable – who you could approach instead? Is there somewhere nearby (a lounge, a coffee shop) you could look? In my Gold Walk-Up DVD. I cover many types of approaches that you can use in many different situations.

Peace and piece,

Ross Jeffries
Founder, Speed Seduction®

P.S. There are many ways to get her attention at work in a way that isn’t “weird” or “stalkerish” while she’s at work. You just have to think “outside the box” (pun intended) in order to get inside her box.

In my Speed Seduction® Home Study Course, you will learn and use patterns that cover every possible problem and contingency you might encounter when you see a steaming hot woman you just have to meet, so you’ll be able to smoothly exert total power and control from start to finish in virtually any situation – wherever and however you meet her.

Get yours today:

http://www.seduction.com/blog/homestudy/

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