Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here is a screen shot of a testimonial I just got:

Just in case it isn’t clear enough I am also copying the text for you right here…

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Hey, the name’s Melvin Cedeno. And I’ve been studying seduction for a few years, and I’ve read practically every other book in the community and all that. I can honestly say your Unstoppable Confidence course did more for me than everything else combined. I’m from Manchester, New Hampshire in the united states, and it’s a tiny city. I wasn’t 21 so going to bars to meet women didn’t work but we did have some of the top party colleges in the country so we went to those instead.

You helped get my mentality to the practical place it needed to be every night I went out. You became a part of my rituals, my Anthony Robbins for the ladies, and just helped me feel ok with being the best possible choice any woman could make.

I’m currently with my dream girl and before her I slept with 9 woman thanks to your advice. And you haven’t just helped me, I pass on your wisdom to my close friends and I can tell you if you combine all our scores it would tally up to well over 40. I hope this wasn’t too long, I could go on forever.

Thanks again Ross, you truly changed a life here for the better.

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Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you want to enjoy the same results as Melvin, I suggest you jump over here right now and check out the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection because the Unstoppable Confidence Course he mentions is included as a free bonus with it!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A huge part of mastering your girl-getting game is not only understanding and recognizing the “AFC” behaviors that, up until now, have slowed your surge to success; but also having in place a set of tools and practices to quickly set yourself back on track if one of these behaviors ever tries to rear its ugly head.

Let’s hear from a student who attended our most recent 3-day seminar, who shares a major breakthrough he experienced…in his own words:

Hey Ross,

I have had some of the Speed seduction material ever since some of the early work, and been learning the SRT concepts, and had some success; but I have not been implementing it as I should, CONSISTENTLY…but I have found how great the vague language is….that sort of shit really works guys!

For now, I want to say a personal thank you to Ross for the transformation work he did with me up front on the Saturday morning at the London seminar. I had been stuck approaching those 10+ girls, because my legs simply wouldn’t take me over to them, even though, I am quite able to do it if an opportunity arises and they are standing next to me!

This ‘cold approach’ was defeating my ability to walk…Ross did his magic on me, and trust me, I was not faking it!!!! I struggled to get the feelings exactly to begin with, because I was out in front of the group, and I’d told myself, no way am I humiliating myself out there in front of anyone, before I came to the seminar.

But then, here I was at the seminar, sharing those deepest darkest thoughts in front of the whole room…yet as I managed to overcome that, and concentrate on what I was being told, suddenly something started to change and without much warning, the sensation changed, and as I said out loud, ‘I Claim MY success, with MY smoking hot women, who please, satisfy and delight me NOW’ my fear flushed out of me and I was left with incredible confidence!

Guys, believe me, I’ve thought some of this stuff may be the guys performing for the camera…I will say it again, this actually happened and it was REAL!!! And here’s the best part!  It lasts!!!!

I was walking along the road yesterday and an HB10+ walked out of an office, right in front of me, normal reaction, I would have averted my face and wished I had the balls to at least say ‘Hi’.  But as I felt the tiniest hint of the old self, I simply repeated my phrase to myself, smiled broadly and say ‘Hi’, she gave me a terrific smile back and I watched her head get thrown back and you could see her pleasure at just being acknowledged…now yes, I could have followed this up, and I will…but I just wanted you to get that I could do this in a heartbeat when the tiniest hint of the old behaviour started and it changed me in an instant…if that isn’t magic I don’t know what is!

Trust in this stuff, but as Ross says, you have to do the work, practice, practice, practice, out there in the real world, not in your head all the time! Even just getting to the first stage of talking to them is a step forward and then you can add in steps, but just do it!

And, remember the lesson I learnt, get to a seminar, put your hand up, tell your story and if you are lucky, Ross could help you to get over any stuck points you have…in the meantime, do the practice, get out there and have fun, you won’t believe how many times I hear girls say, it’s so refreshing to meet a guy who is this open and can talk about this stuff, and this is usually just after we’ve done the deed!

So go on, get out there today, your life and those girls are waiting!  For you to take hold of them and lead them off into the land of adventure!

James Hill
London, United Kingdom

See what life can look like for you when you take a bold step forward?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Our Fall 2011 Speed Seduction® seminar tour takes us to Montreal, Sydney, and Melbourne.  If you haven’t yet attended a seminar in 2011, you still have options, but as they say, he who hesitates, mastur-waits.  Will YOU take a bold step forward and join me this fall?

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Watch this short video, taken from one of our recent 3-day seminars, where I explain what inspired me to dedicate my life to helping smart guys like you achieve success with the women you truly desire:

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. I look forward to teaching YOU at my next seminar.  Click here to see the dates and cities and reserve your spot now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

You are embarking on a journey that will change your life forever.

Fear, doubt, uncertainty, and involuntary celibacy are about to replaced by success with the women you truly desire.

You’ll wonder why you went so long buying into the programming of the “romance industry” that brainwashes otherwise smart men into Average Frustrated Chumps.

This time next year, once you immerse yourself in my teachings, master the skills, and apply them to your life situation and your experience with women, you’ll look back with triumph, having just savored the “best fucking year ever” of your entire life.

You’ll wonder just how you managed to LIVE with

“real-hate-shun-ships by default”

and

“getting lucky.”

Now, you’ll have the power of choice, mastery of your girl-getting game, and a life of tight trim triumph where meeting and seducing women anytime and anywhere will be effortless and FUN.

Here’s What It Will Look Like…

Your buddies – and people in general – will wonder “how does he DO it?”

People in general, most of whom won’t understand HOW you do it (and in many cases wouldn’t believe it if you told them), will describe you as a “ladies’ man,” “Casanova,” “smooth operator,” “pick-up artist,” “stud,” “kissing bandit,” and more.

Your very arrival on the scene will cause women’s heads to turn, with admiring glances and inviting expressions.

You’ll find that when you master the skills for getting women, the same confidence, power, and ability to persuade-to-get-laid will spill over into other areas of your life as well.  Things that used to throw you for a loop will now be just “things” that you powerfully handle and master to your own advantage.

You’ll have become the man you always wanted to be.

Over 20+ years and 5,000 hours of teaching Speed Seduction®, I’ve been honored to help thousands of students, smart guys just like you – move from depression and darkness into amazing success with women.

It is my deep honor to be teacher, coach and guide to all of these students, and to you as well.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Ready to get the women you truly desire in 2011, on YOUR terms, without guess work or games?  Crack open the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection and make 2011 your “Vaginal Victory Year” – click here to get instant access now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Sometimes what gets ignored in our search for success with women is who we are and what we are bringing into the interaction.

Someone once said, “A monkey in a silk suit is still a monkey”.

This understanding is why Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the language tools with women, but how we can clean up our own pain and confusion so what we bring into the interactions as men is already a lot more attractive and fun before we even say a word.

Here is an interaction I just had, by email, with a student who was missing that point.

> Hi Ross,
>
> I first read the game in December of 2009. Up until that point, I had only had one girlfriend and had only slept with one woman (The same person… By the way, I didn’t even particularly like her!).
>
> Having come from a massively dysfunctional family, I had hugely overwhelming issues with social situations, especially involving women. I had desperately  wanted to find a girlfriend from a very early age, but just couldn’t do anything right. I always came across as needy, desperate and too keen.
>
> This year, I have been getting steadily better, but have still suffered some pretty devastating situations. Despite all the things I grew up with, I have  managed to make a fair go in certain areas of my life. I have become a very accomplished musician, I have a decent job, I drive a nice car etc, but all this stuff seems worthless without someone to share it with. Even though I have made some good advances with myself, I am still suffering massively in the area of women. I have certainly improved with them, but my abilities to communicate still simply suck!
>
> To cut a long story short, I bought your home study course. I went over it with a fine tooth comb, but I just can’t seem to make it work. I see other guys using it brilliantly, I see you blazing a trail with it, yet I just can’t seem to make it work! I’ve even got some of the other DVDs, such as Gold Walkups and a couple of other that were included as part of a package deal at the time. I’m not a bad looking guy and without sounding big headed, I’m pretty intelligent with it. I just don’t know where I’m going wrong and I am totally at my wits end! It’s even reached the point where I have considered flying out to the US to come and have a one on one with you, but I know I need to use my money to buy some property next year.
>
> I’m desperate, Ross and I know you’re a man with answers. I know your stuff works, otherwise I wouldn”t have paid for it.
>
> What can I do?
>
> B
>

B,

I think your question contains its own answer.

What we bring into even the very best technology for dealing with others, will effect how we apply that technology and the results we get.

Some people just come into this “game” with more pain, more unconscious patterns that get in the way, more confusion etc than others. All humans have some pain and confusion-that is the human condition. But some of us (as I did too) come with more pain from dysfunctional families and even a genetic load that  predisposes us to be more anxious than others.

The good news:

Remember Speed Seduction® isn’t just about the technology for dealing with women successfully. It’s also about technology for cleaning up who WE are and  what we bring forward into our interactions with women AS we use the language patterns, etc.

There is plenty in SS to deal with this.  I suggest the Nail Your Inner Game program, or even more precisely, my Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection.  This  is the past 2 years recorded content from my coaching program and contains modules for dealing with the emotional and other issues that you are bringing  forward into what you do.

You deserve a shot at having a clean slate.  NYIG and the Training collection will do that for you.

If you feel you want to work with me personally, try the Coaching Program. You get immediate access to all the vault content (but not organized by subject, as the Vault is – in the Coaching Program you have it organized by each month I create it), plus you get to talk with me live 4 times a month. Twice on a group phone bridge, once on my personal cell phone, and once by live group video conferencing.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. One more thought – if you’d like to experience 3 full days of immersion training with me, consider attending one of our live seminars – we have numerous dates throughout the year and numerous locations throughout the world.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

We are standing on the edge of a new year, once again.

Today, Dec 28, I received the following testimonial, a very moving story of how a student moved from the deepest depression and darkness into amazing success with women.

I offer it as my gift to you and my hope it will inspire you to claim the success with women that can be yours.

It is my deep honor to be teacher, coach and guide to guys like this one, and hopefully as well to you.

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Speed Seduction® Changed My Life

Hi RJ,

Many thanks for the phone conversation earlier during the office hours regarding walk up’s and approaching, I found your points very useful and insightful as always!

I also wanted to say thank you so much for all your efforts in this field, your work has literally changed my life!

Before I found SS I was pretty much a lost soul, I didn’t fit in in most places through out my life before now. I suffered from anxiety and paranoia and later depression brought on by an extremely bad and painful break-up with an ex-girlfriend back in 2001.

This was a four and half year relationship that was a living hell for the last six months. After the break up I had lost all my self-confidence, I didn’t want to speak or socialise with anyone (something I already found difficult at the time anyway), became introverted, angry and depressed. This was for several reasons, not just the break-up but also events surrounding the break-up and a tremendous amount of verbal and psychological abuse from her, and all the time she was doing this I was believing what she was saying!!!

Anyway, I drifted deeper into a darker state of depression and confusion over the months that followed the break-up that then turned into years. During which time, every six months or so she would crawl back into my life, start to ‘patch things up’ again and then do the same thing all over…

I made the decision that something had to change and it was going to be me and I wanted drastic, permanent change! After reading several books on nlp and trying countless nlp and hypnosis products, nothing was really bringing the kind of change I needed. Then I finally came to your material by the graces of good fortune (and that is no exaggeration).

I came across your e-book, “How to get women into bed without trying”. The title amused me so I decided to give it a read. I applied the affirmations and after a while found they were making me feel quite a lot better so I visited your website and bought the BHSC, the old one from 2000 as this was the latest one at the time.

I got the BHSC and listened to it over and over. I started to do the unstoppable confidence exercises and quickly started to feel better each day. I thought the stuff in the BHSC was so f*$&%!g cool I became addicted to listening and practicing the material. This was during the time of my university studies.

People started to notice a difference in me. I was feeling better, carrying myself with more confidence and I was starting to become more popular, being invited to parties. One of the most notable differences to me at the time was people actually started to stop to listen whenever I started to speak, I mean it was quite a difference, they would more or less stop what they were doing to listen to me!

In my class at uni there was a very hot HB 9 who I had a huge crush on throughout my uni years (as did almost every other guy at that uni). We would occasionally chat and it was obvious to her that I liked her, though I tried to hide it. She was the kind of girl that liked the attention from guys and wouldn’t hesitate to exploit it when she got the chance.

On the evening of our graduation party I ran a few short patterns on her which started to get me a lot of attention from her. Then a few hours later we were talking again and I decided to run RJ’s friends into lover’s pattern. Within 10 mins or running that pattern she started making excuses that she needed to lie down and that I needed to come with her (hmm what does she mean..!) After a few minutes she was banging me senseless under a tree on the college campus, an event that took place a second time that night and then a third time the next morning, I couldn’t fucking believe it!!!

Anyway, this unexpected turn of events really convinced me that your stuff is real! I mean, I was very aware of a difference in how I felt and knew the affirmations and visualisations were working but this event convinced me that your language patterns are also real too! Well actually I didn’t doubt that completely but rather if I could also do this too.

To cut a long story short, I have since had several successes using SS but still have some challenges hence our conversation earlier tonight.

I wanted to let you know of the changes to my life your influence and your material has made. Since that fortunate moment of buying your BHSC and following and applying the material I have never been the same. From consistent practice of the meditations, visualisations and magik rituals that you teach I am now a very confident and popular person and in some circumstances I can even come across as somewhat charismatic.

I also wanted to point out that I feel it was the affirmations and visualisation exercises that brought me out of the depression. Later when I learnt your transmuter exercise, I feel that is responsible for solving the paranoia, something I though would plague me for the rest of my life, since I had suffered from it since a child.

Since using your material I have also had several healthy and rewarding relationships with some great women. Although my time in these relationships did slow my SS progress as I chose to remain monogamous at these times, I continued to practice the exercises and study the material which, I practiced on my partner at the time making the relationship much more enjoyable and rewarding for both of us. Every woman I have used SS with definitely enjoy the experience and I truly believe it is something that is benefiting them too.

Through studying the material I have also been able to see what I was doing wrong in the past (I actually can’t believe it now how I use to be), have gained deeper insight into the differences between men and women and I have also become aware of the elements and the structure of attraction.

Thank you once again Ross, you have had such a positive impact on my life and I am truly a better person for it.

Kind Regards

Steve Simms
London, England

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Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. The best way to experience this changework is to immerse yourself in a 3-Day Live Seminar.  Click here for the 2011 schedule and to register today.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

When things don’t quite go your way…when you strike out with every woman you meet today (or all week long), when you feel hurt, it is natural to want to protect yourself.

It triggers off a “one-two-three-four” thought process…

• Why did this happen to me?
• This is ALWAYS going to happen to me.
• This ONLY happens to me.
• This happened because of something I did wrong.

The easiest way to protect yourself : don’t put yourself out there. Don’t approach any more women, ever.  Never Sarge.  When a woman throws herself at you, rather than run the risk she might not be THE ONE, just forget the possibility that it might be the best fucking lay you’ve ever had.  Rosie and her sisters are always there, anyway.  Right?

Wrong Song, Mr. Strong…

Newsflash: every person experiences fear, sorrow and hesitation and backsliding, suffering and restriction.

No need to feel bad about it, as the song says “Everybody hurts, sometime.”

Let’s see if we can oppose these lies with more neutral ideas. Let’s return you to neutrality before we aim to return you to other aspects of power.

Somewhere, somehow, you have some very vague representation of handling this better and want to find a better model for handling this.

All of the above are TRUE statements, no drama, no extra weight in that baggage.

Now, let’s tackle the lies and other less than useful things:

1. Why did this happen to me? Wrong question. Focuses your mind on what went wrong and your “failures”. Better question: what can I do to prevent this kind of thing from happening again without zapping my zest for life and openness to new adventures? If not, how can I now best view this as the worthwhile price to pay for having an open mind and life?
2. This is ALWAYS going to happen to me. Unlikely, if you learn what you need to. People can always change their feelings, that is true, but so can you. If someone can change their loving feelings for you because of your behavior then why can’t you change your negative feelings about yourself because of NEW behavior? Hmmmm… Change does and will happen. It’s how you choose to handle it. No guarantees on this rotating mudball other than naked baby in, stop breathing to leave.
3. This ONLY happens to me. Horseshit. Read “Dear Abby”. Watch Oprah. She had this guy on whose fiance called off the wedding 5 hours before it was supposed to go on. He wound up writing a book called Honeymoon with My Brother. Best thing that ever happened to him.
4. This happened because of something I did wrong. Here is a tricky one as it IS possible that some old patterns of emotional response or old patterns of behavior reared up and kept you from having the kinds of responses that would have kept you more in the drivers seat.

In which case, THIS GIRL WHO JUST DISSED YOU IS A GREAT SPIRITUAL GURU AND TEACHER HERE TO SLAP YOU AWAKE WITH THE PAIN SO YOU CAN SEE THESE PATTERNS AND RESOLVE THEM.

Look, what you did “wrong” isn’t the entire contents in the book of your life. They are just “markers” to show you what needs to be read and re-written.

ANYTHING THAT COMES UP COMES UP TO BE LEARNED FROM, HANDLED, PURIFIED, REFINED, RECYCLED, TRANSMUTED, RELEASED towards the vision of whom you everyday are more and more becoming.

So…find a place of objective, clear, grounded clarity to view what happened and find the patterns where you would like more power and choice.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Actually, I have two suggestions to help you with this, depending where you are.  One is my Nail Your Inner Game system.  The other is my classic course, Beyond Confidence.   Check them out.

Oh, and if you want to beat the one-two-three-four get them both and save 15% on today’s investment, just click here for a special discount link.