Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Have you seen a TV show called “King Of The Hill?”

I don’t watch the show too often, but the episode I happened to catch recently was a PERFECT example that relates to what I teach.

One of the main characters is a guy named Boomhauer, who doesn’t talk much and comes off as a sort of spaced-out airhead if you don’t know him well. When he does speak, you can barely make out what he’s saying.

BUT, for some reason he’s never short of succulent, hot babes to go out with. He’s viewed as a “ladies’ man” by his buddies, most of whom (from what I could tell) either haven’t mastered a girl-getting game or are stuck in “real-hate-shun-ships by default.”

Anyway, one day Boomhauer offers to teach Hank Hill’s son Bobby, who is just starting to like girls and want to learn how to pick up chicks, how to approach and impress women. Boomhauer and Bobby go to a ladies’ shoe store, and, like my best students, Boomhauer gets to work and starts Sarging …

… well, sort of.

Boomhauer’s approach is that he simply walks right up to every woman in the store – and I mean EVERY woman – and asks for her phone number. As I said, he speaks unintelligibly so it comes out like “Something something dang ol’ something something you know give me your number and something something call you up sometime or something.” You see him get repeatedly yelled at and slapped. This happens, I think, about 20 times.

But then a woman writes her number on a card and hands it to him. Boomhauer walks up to Bobby, shows him the card, and says something like, “See, look at that, man. Dang ol’ piece of cake.”

Bobby wonders what he’s talking about, since he just witnessed Boomhauer getting shot down over and over. Boomhauer replies that it doesn’t matter, because he got the digits from a hottie. Then he walks off with all the confidence and serenity of a man who owns his game, who KNOWS he’s going to get laid.

So … What Can We Learn From Boomhauer?

Yes, his approach is rough and primitive, and if he was my student, in no time flat he wouldn’t need to approach 20 women to get results, or ask for numbers anymore. But there are some general principles Boomhauer teaches us.

• When you Sarge on a woman, it’s not just about succeeding with THAT ONE woman. It’s about honing and mastering your skills to succeed with that woman AND the next ten women you approach (one of whom might be her even hotter roommate or neighbor).
• Even the most experienced expert girl-getters don’t succeed with every woman. The real goal is to approach and Sarge on as many women as possible to find the creme de la creme of sizzling hotties. With Speed Seduction®, you gain the skill set that gets you the results you want – that you deserve – a far higher percentage of the time.
• Persistence is the name of the game. Not every woman will respond to who you are and the vibe you broadcast in the world. You got shot down 10 times tonight already? So? Is there an eleventh woman? Could SHE be the one who gets dripping wet as soon as you approach and takes you on the ride of your life tonight?

Just keep Sarging, and you’ll be having more and more dang ol’ good times with the women you REALLY desire.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

When you make the transition from Average Frustrated Chump (AFC) to Amazing Fascinating Champ who approaches, attracts and succeeds with the hottest, most desirable women, you become a powerful seduction master who refuses to resort to what I call the “5 Bs” – bullying, begging, buying, bs or booze – in your pursuit of happiness.

This doesn’t mean that the women you used to settle for – the ones you “accidentally” attracted – won’t still “slip under radar.” A student of mine thought he was picking up a hottie for a fun adventure, and instead found himself seated before the Grand Inquisition. In the spirit of Halloween, check out this “horror story”:

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Saturday night I went to meet a woman I picked up at a local club a few nights earlier. I was going to meet her at her friend’s house, and me and her were going off for a “night on the town.” It was going to be a night she would remember for the rest of her life. I was in my “zone,” ready to claim what was mine.

So I get to her friend’s house. I’m ready to get going but my date wants me to meet “the family” first. I figured I’d spend a minute doing “nice to meet you” and then me and my date would be on our way. Next thing I know, I’m sitting on their porch. My date, her friend, her friend’s niece, and their neighbor are sitting on the porch swing, with me seated on a chair opposite. The friend, niece, and neighbor are giving me the third degree trying to find out if I am psycho or something. This was NOT the “hard time” I expected tonight.

After about an hour of this nonsense “the family” left, and it was finally me and my date alone. She invited me to join “us” at a local bar. I know the place – it’s a dump where I wouldn’t be caught dead. I said “raincheck” and she said, “I’m sorry they put you through this, they just look out for me. Next time, we’ll go out and it will be just me and you.” So we set the next date and time and I was on my way.

You know, one of the standards I have for women is that she be assertive, strong, and not make life decisions based on what others tell her to do. I thought this was her, but I’m not so sure now. She’s really hot and I enjoyed the first night I met her and our phone conversations. I do want to see her again, but how do I make sure I don’t have to sit through another torture session to be with her?

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She’s sorry about what “they” put you through? First of all, it wasn’t THEY. It was SHE who put you through it. I don’t have to point this out but I will anyway.

And if you would have gone to that s&$%hole with “them” you would have gotten more of the same from more “friends” of hers who “happened” to be there. You would have gotten in a fistfight – her way of finding out if you could “protect” her if you were her boyfriend. You saw this coming, that’s why you called “raincheck” - good on you, for that!

If she was capable of thinking and acting independently, she wouldn’t have brought you to her friend’s house. On the outside, she’s a juicy, delicious goddess-woman who knows how to make you laugh. But her behaviour showed a high-school girl trying to decide if her “popularity level” would go up or down if she was seen talking to you in the hall, much less making out with you at the pep rally.

Next time you are brought before the Grand Inquisition, fake an urgent call on your cell phone, plead “emergency” and get out of there. Or better yet, don’t. Stand up, say you need to go, don’t explain why, and walk out.

Let “them” know that you ain’t playing THEIR games. And since the night’s still young, find yourself another hottie and hit a grand slam.

Peace, piece, and not pieces,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Ever heard the saying “Nice guys finish last?”

Many smart guys, in their quest to succeed with more women, have been frustrated to wits end by the number of times they have made their move on that hottie, only to end up going home alone … while she goes home with some jerk.

Some guys end up buying into the idea that women like jerks, and confuse the idea of being confident around women, with acting like a jerk to get her hot and bothered.

More often than not, what ends up happening is … you just look like a jerk. Case in point: this student’s dilemma…

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I need some help to get over this. I seem to have a deeply embedded reflex of being a total jerk to almost every woman I meet. I get so caught up in challenging her that I come across as a complete jerk. This is not on purpose, however. This is a natural reaction that has formed over the years, and it’s not helping me at all. I’ve been told it’s because I’m angry or it’s something from my past. Anybody know of a way to rid myself of all this hostility and aggresivity?

I had dinner with a girl named Amanda. It was a great dinner, then we went back to her place. The night ended rather well, although no physical contact. But then, I met her roommate a couple of days later. In an attempt at being playful and messing with her head, as I like to do with women, I hinted that Amanda had a threesome with two of my buddies. Well, Amanda got wind of this and got really POed at me, saying I called her a whore.

This exchange happened through email, since Amanda won’t meet me in person. Now I’m lucky if she’ll say “hi” to me if she sees me around. Is there any way to fix this? I’ve heard that making her feel such a powerful emotion of hating me is actually very good if I could get her to convert her hate into love or the like. Is this anywhere near plausible?

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You said that you think you might be angry (at women) because of something from your past. The past explains how you got to where you are today. It’s not to be denied. The past represented the BEST you could do, up till now. Now, THANK the part of you that was acting like a total jerk.

Acknowledge the past, do whatever you need to do to clean up the mess, AND then focus on how you want to be from this moment on. And: ask the part of you that has been making you a jerk if it would be responsible to generate some NEW choices in your thinking and behavior that could serve its ORIGINAL intent, but do it in new and exciting ways.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. No matter what you’ve been through, experienced or encountered, that has made you angry and frustrated or made you need (or want) to act like a jerk, you can turn it around now, turn confusion to clarity and losing to learning!

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P.P.S. Another great way to overcome past frustrations is through interactive exercises, in real-time. On October 16-18, in New York City, spend two days with me LIVE in my next Speed Seduction® seminar and we’ll walk through some exercises together:

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