Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

In yesterday’s blog post about the dominant vibe, I explained how in over-reaching in trying to be commanding, many otherwise smart guys come across as desperate supplicators in denial and ironically reveal themselves to be Average Frustrated Chumps (AFC).

Today, I want to delve into a very common scenario that makes many guys feel the need to put on “dominant” airs.

Let’s say you’re at a regular hangout, and there’s a chick you see and you want like nothing else to Sarge on her.  Then this other guy (who you often see there) comes along, usually just as you’re preparing to approach her.  He’s always very aggressive with women.  He completely lacks any real methodical girl-getting game; all he brings to the game is just a lot of touching and bodily contact.

But there’s one catch,  Many chicks think he’s “better looking” than you, so he gets lots of ass on his looks alone.  It’s happened more than once that you were actually Sarging on a woman when he comes over, pats you on the shoulder in mock-friendship that makes YOU look like the jerk if you get pissy, and then steals the show.  And the girl.

It’s gotten to the point where if he shows up, your girl-getting game goes gummy (as in the bears).  Your confidence sags.  You’re defeated before the first shot is fired since you stand no chance vs. his “superior” looks.  That, and because he’s so aggressive and Johnny on the spot, you can’t even find the opening to approach her and get the ball rolling, much less keep him away.

But all is not lost.

Here’s How To Beat This Jerk At His Own Game
And Have Him Wishing He Was You

There’s really only one way to master this situation, and that’s to do it vibrationally and enegertically FIRST, and THEN through language.

By this, I mean that this clotheshorse clearly understands the use of the “dominant” vibe. But he’s not using the other three:

• Showing understanding of her world
• Being vulnerable
• Being funny and fun

More importantly, he doesn’t understand that by randomly fractionating back and forth between these vibes, the power of them multiplies rather than adds.

When you’re exponentially expanding your vibes and erotically executing your master plan, soon the ladies will be wondering who that pushy, obnoxious, needy, pathetic jerk is who keeps following you around trying in vain to cock-block you.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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