Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As you know, National Desperate Supplicating Masturbator’s Day (Valentine’s Day) is coming up next week.

I have no problem with you choosing, of your free will, to spend a few bucks on a woman who is already in your life and who is already treating you the way you want and expect to be treated. Just don’t depend on money to be the way you go about capturing and leading her imagination and emotions.

However: I hope you don’t spend as much as one dime on the woman or women in your life that you are not currently sleeping with.

As I keep telling you guys over and over again, we as men are bombarded and brainwashed by our popular culture from the time we are children to believe all sorts of myths about what works with women.

Among these lies:

*Just be yourself. (Do I need to say anything further about this steaming pile of bullshit?)

*Be a beggar. Plead and please her.

*Pay up. Buy women’s favor. Cards, presents, fancy dinners, diamonds. Show you value that poonani of hers by what you are willing to pay for it.

*Bully your way into a woman’s pants: in other words, be a jerk

*Lie: bullshit your way in. Tell her what she wants to hear.

Now, Valentine’s Day is a prime example of begging and buying. And if you think about it more clearly, it’s also an example of BS’ing.

Does anyone seriously expect anyone to believe the BS sentiment expressed in those idiotic cards?

I say, screw it. I have no problem with stimulating women. In fact, I love doing it. But I do it without spending one penny-until AFTER they are sleeping with me. And I do it by using my language and my vibe to capture and lead her imagination and emotions.

You can do it too.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. On February 14, join me on a LIVE video broadcast where we will cover this, and other topics as we “Give V-Day The Finger“

You don’t want to miss this as a special opportunity will be available for those who attend (it will be announced soon). 

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Why in the world would any guy in his right mind want to take a step backward down the intimacy ladder with women?

Yet that is exactly what many men are doing by following stupid-ass advice from “PUA GURUS” to use text messaging with women they’ve just met.

Listen: using your voice is far more powerful, conveys far more emotional meaning, and enables you to evoke far more powerful states of emotion than even the most cleverly worded text.

Hey: if it is true that 70% of communication is not the actual words we use, but facial expressions and the tone of our voice, then what in the world do you think is the result of just typing words?

Is it just me, or does that seem like screwing when your dick is soft?

The only time you should ever use text messages with women is after you have already “hooked up”. Once you’ve done that, then texting can be a way to easily arrange meetings or stay in touch, but even then it has to be used judiciously and sparingly.

A few other things to bear in mind:

• My students often tell me about women who at the end of a phone call will say “text me” or who will want to hang up, yet immediately continue the conversation via txt msg-ng.  Is she serious? Don’t you want her to take a step forward, TOWARD you?  Will texting “hey wassup?” pull her closer?
• So she’s into “sexting.”  Like cybering, you have to wonder, is she visioning you when she types all that naughty stuff, or is she thinking about a guy she’s actually fckng who isn’t there rite now 2 srvce hr 2day?

Remember: txt mssgs sck dck and only asshls use them on chicks they hvnt fckd.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. When you can use your language to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions within minutes of meeting her, she’ll probably text you something like, “Cn I cme ovr and sck yr dck?” So guys, clck here 2 get the cmplte systm dat gets u wmn U desire 2day wo hving 2 txt.

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

This video is a clip from one of my live “Afternoon With RJ” seminars.

Click here to view the embedded video.

As you watch it, you’ll probably easily recognize that I love teaching life changing information that touches minds in a whole new way.

This clip is about getting the right frame of mind for success with women.

This will be part of a series that explores frame of mind, meaning and vibe.

Enjoy and the more you comment below, the more I’ll continue to share.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. I’ll be posting more clips from my 3 day Speed Seduction(R) Seminars too. I want to show you guys what an amazing teacher I am so you can discover for your own reasons why you MUST come learn from me.

P.P.S. My LA January 2010 seminar is open for registration now, and if you get in within the next 30 days there is a HUGE discount, plus you bring a friend for free!  Look here

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the major differences between Speed Seduction® and the other so-called “systems” out there is how much time I spend teaching you guys about how society’s programming keeps you away from the success with women that you truly want.

Listen: the other day, I was doing my monthly office hours for my Speed Seduction® Coaching program.

The guy who had called in to my cell phone to talk to me was telling me that he had met a girl at a wedding with whom he seemed to “hit it off”.    He told me that he had been texting with her back and forth for “the past week” and then she suddenly stopped returning his texts and he could not get a hold of her.

He wanted to know how to get her to respond to him and text him back, at which point I said, “has it ever occurred to you that your entire model of success with women sucks donkey dick?”

(BTW, “suck donkey dick” is a scientific and clinical term in the self-help industry that means, “stupid, self-defeating, and incorrect”).

Here’s what I mean: his model of success with women was:

1.    You meet her and chat her up.

2.    You get some kind of contact number.

3.    You attempt to make contact with her again.

4.    You get her on the phone, make plans

5.    You hang out with her another time.

6.    You lunge at her and try to get her to make out with you and fuck you.

Now listen: that whole model sucks. It just doesn’t work. Yet that is what presented to us guys by popular media-movies, tv, etc-as what we should be doing.

Here is what I find really interesting: it never even occurred to this guy that he could have used Speed Seduction(R) to so capture and lead this woman’s imagination and emotions that…..

…She Would Have Banged Him At That Wedding In Some Closet Or Back Room, Or Gone Home With Him That Very Same Day, Right Away!!

Look: my larger point beyond this guy and his situation is how our thinking as men  when it comes to attracting women is so programmed, we usually don’t even see it.  We just assume that is the way things work.

The aspect of Speed Seduction® that teaches you to wake up to your useless programming and to choose something better is not a footnote to the Speed Seduction® technology. It’s a major, core part of it.  It’s a major part of my job as a teacher to show you how your own habitual ways of thinking have been getting in your way and to point out a better(and pinker and wetter) way to do things with the ladies.

Peace, piece and remember:

Free Your Mind And Her Ass Will Follow!

RJ

P.S. Seriously guys, the “dating game” is the high fructose corn-syrup of getting laid. It’s in everything in our popular culture and it causes great hidden damage.   If you want the real goods that deliver the pink without bullying, begging, buying or booze, go here.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

As part of my ongoing Pick Up Tips/How To Meet Women Mastery series of articles, I just had to share this.

Today, as I was walking back from the beach, I spotted a hot girl walking toward me from the opposite direction.  Noticing that she was wearing a big floppy hat, I said, “Nice headgear”.

Now, this is an example of one of the 4 methods I teach to meet women, anytime, anywhere, in my Gold Walk Up DVD: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out is especially designed for those situations when you are in motion one way, and the woman you are wanting to meet is going in the opposite direction.  It’s designed to stop women in their tracks.

In this case, it stopped her because it was an unusual way to phrase an otherwise worn out compliment: “nice hat”.  How boring that would have been

And that’s what happened. She stopped.  Then she laughed and said, “Are you making fun of me?”

“No, “ I said.  “It was an honest compliment. Do you always get so insecure around hot looking guys?”

(Notice what I am doing in a playful way: I’m implying that she has the hots for me. I didn’t say it, mind you. But that is the implication. Chicks love implication, think and speak with implication, and gobble it up like honey.)

She laughed again and said, “I have a boyfriend.”

Now, one of the things I teach in my Speed Seduction 3.0 course is this: I seldom take a woman’s first response as written in stone. It’s almost always just a reflection of what she is thinking, feeling or believing in that moment, and it’s almost always subject to change.

So immediately I responded with, “I didn’t say I want to date you. But I’m flattered. Thanks.  Besides, boyfriends are like colds.  You can catch one at anytime, but you can always shake him off if you want too. “

She laughed again, this time harder.  “No, I really dig this guy. But thanks anyway”.

Now bear something in mind: about half the time, when women say, “I have a boyfriend”, they are just talking out of their pretty little ass. So when you respond with something different and funny instead of giving up or arguing, it really gets attention in a positive way.

And that’s one of my main principles: get attention in a positive way with an unexpected response that gets her laughing, or thinking, or both.

You can make meeting women just this easy by getting my Gold Walk Up DVD.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. If you are already good at meeting women and want to start getting them into your bed, without guess work, games or spending lots of  cash on them, check out my latest and most complete program: Speed Seduction 3.0.

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video(which is #5 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery Series), I do an overview of the 4 basic and powerful approaches to meet women, anytime, anywhere.

You’ll note that I prefer “The Put-On”. Why?

Because it allows me to:

1. Immediately screen out the women who are easily jarred, rigid, and closed-minded.

2. Find the women who are fun, playful, and who react well to something just a bit out of the ordinary.

3. Enjoy the process

This concept of screening, selectivity, and standards is a major piece of the Speed Seduction methodology.

Enjoy this video and please comment on the blog in the space below. Or, if you prefer, you can pop right overwatch it on Youtube and comment and rate the video there.  The title is How to Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere-4 Easy Ways To Meet Women.

Your participation helps me to spread the word to guys who are searching, so “play it forward” and help out me and your fellow brothers in the fight for the pink.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

I’ve just created a new Youtube playlist with 10 brand new videos teaching you How To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere.

Would you jump over here and watch these videos? Comment and rate them too,and pass the links around!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Thanks again for your support.  I’ll be posting each of these videos individually on the blog as well.  Who wants to see PDF transcripts for each one?