Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Why in the world would any guy in his right mind want to take a step backward down the intimacy ladder with women?

Yet that is exactly what many men are doing by following stupid-ass advice from “PUA GURUS” to use text messaging with women they’ve just met.

Listen: using your voice is far more powerful, conveys far more emotional meaning, and enables you to evoke far more powerful states of emotion than even the most cleverly worded text.

Hey: if it is true that 70% of communication is not the actual words we use, but facial expressions and the tone of our voice, then what in the world do you think is the result of just typing words?

Is it just me, or does that seem like screwing when your dick is soft?

The only time you should ever use text messages with women is after you have already “hooked up”. Once you’ve done that, then texting can be a way to easily arrange meetings or stay in touch, but even then it has to be used judiciously and sparingly.

A few other things to bear in mind:

• My students often tell me about women who at the end of a phone call will say “text me” or who will want to hang up, yet immediately continue the conversation via txt msg-ng.  Is she serious? Don’t you want her to take a step forward, TOWARD you?  Will texting “hey wassup?” pull her closer?
• So she’s into “sexting.”  Like cybering, you have to wonder, is she visioning you when she types all that naughty stuff, or is she thinking about a guy she’s actually fckng who isn’t there rite now 2 srvce hr 2day?

Remember: txt mssgs sck dck and only asshls use them on chicks they hvnt fckd.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. When you can use your language to capture and lead a woman’s imagination and emotions within minutes of meeting her, she’ll probably text you something like, “Cn I cme ovr and sck yr dck?” So guys, clck here 2 get the cmplte systm dat gets u wmn U desire 2day wo hving 2 txt.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

There’s nothing I love more than a successful and wildly happy student relating his horny-tale of seduction suck-cess!

Today, I want to share one of my favorite student e-mails of all time. Here is his email, word for word. Yes, it is a long one, but I wanted to give it to you unedited.

Here it is:

Dear Almighty Guru Ross,

Thanks dude!

I still consider myself a very beginner student of yours… I wanted to study your 3.0 course before we chat because I know it works but I need to get better… I need SS to flow like a river… like a smooth seductive sauve rapper! I know I need to MAKE IT MY OWN. Keep it true and honest and really truly care about the woman and the states she floats between…. I may be a beginner, but I have studied mystery and others for years… yet this makes sense… common sense… it is more natural to my poetic style as a person… and damn it Ross-it works like a charm…

Every day I game…. It’s the only way to test this shit out on REAL women in REAL time. I go out. That’s what I do….. I get better… But I have a long WAYYYYY I know….

BUT I USED YOUR STUFF ON THIS SEXY 9HB INTERNATIONAL RUNWAY MODEL and had her so horny I could read it in her eyes like a neon sign, so I just leaned in for the kiss. Security is getting to know me a little too well in that parking structure. There was a camera RIGHT above the car but WE DIDN’T CARE it was tooooo smoking hot! Her nipples were cute, lil’ pink erect nipples gone wild…..  I guess thanks to you it’s time to put aside the girl’s gone nuts porn… time for these experiences to happen in realtime! Fuck yeah! I paid my dues to total unappreciative bitches that cleaned me out… NOW I have all the control back in the driver’s seat and I deserve to live life to the fullest. Look out rock stars…. I can speak in verse just as well….

So the next day after that 20 year old hot model I was really feeling like I wanted MORE of this same hot model….  SHIT! I’m JUST A BEGINNER OF YOURS! I didn’t know exactly about DAY 2 game! I remember you say to live the life-don’t let the woman down by slipping back into chump-keep running patterns-make up my own…. I began freaking out like what to do next. This is where I could have slipped into AFC mode but I got out my reading stuff of DAY 2 Game…..

Understand-this is my life now. I must improve myself at this point in my life. I game every day and have cut my work back to freelance so I could work on myself fulltime to be the best I can be. I had terrible one-itis for 2 years with a bitch who ran me ragged… I feel ashamed at the wanton nice guy supplication! I know this is the best revenge! 3.0 landed me a life-changing delicious spicy muffin, a gorgeous sexy and fun woman. AND what fucking guy doesn’t want to open his eyes and see a HOT model writhing in passion and craving, begging another passionate kiss right before his eyes? I THOUGHT I WAS DREAMING… and then I thought with a big smile… FUCK YOU ROSS YOU SON-OF-A-BITCH-YOU WERE FUCKING DEAD-ON RIGHT ABOUT SS and now 3.0!!!!!!!!!! I smiled… then I went back to smoochin’! I ain’t a fool…….!!! hahaha

I re-read your seminar transcripts and then I called her back… In my head I’m trying to overcome the altered state of being enamored with her… I repeated some words back…. waffle and hickey’s (don’t ask…haha) to try to bring her back to that state….. but she sounds a little down-key… Where is that energy she had at? Did I blow it?

I was tossing and turning all night trying not to think of her which made my CONFIDENCE go down and think I wouldn’t hear from her again… I got really depressed about it! I guess I’m used to women flaking….

I did the patterns…. I did the anchor to HER fucking words and repeated back… I gave her a .49 cent crystal to hold to remember me…. (I buy them in bulk haha! I have secret techniques too!) AND we had a sexual and emotional connection THE FIRST 3 HOURS OF MEETING HER and running patterns….. at least the ones I could remember under pressure…. and an erection the size of Florida.

I was thinking: what was Mystery talking about this taking 7 hours and hopping clubs…

WELL ROSS! GUESS WHAT BOSS THE ROSS!!!!!! She texted me today and we are going to spend THANKSGIVING together…. THE WHOLE DAY…. Let’s do the math: She’s 20, horny and wetter than a warm summer rain from the patterns I constantly make up and run 24/7…. I got us a THANKSGIVING hotel room…. you said young girls are all about the sex….hehe Ross…. Go ahead boss… Do The FUCKING Math… SS Student+Patterns+Hotel room+Young Hot Model==Equals: ….. Er… Um… I won’t be checking email until I check out….hahahahahah!!!!

Like you say, it’s not an hour a day. It’s 24 hours a day. THIS IS A LIFESTYLE CHANGE that once you get in you’ll never go back to “chump” again. You can’t! It’s like learning to ride a bike-you will never forget this. You can use it with women or work or like I did on a suicidal friend of mine. Got him to break bad trrance and go into good. It’s THAT simple. Thanks for being my teacher. (By the way-You are right-Tony Robbins is a tad too gung-ho!)

THANKS ROSS! I am moved to tears that somebody finally showed me the right fucking way…… This is my whole life… fighting back after a lifetime of boring dull marriage and NO women experience… to become the man every woman wants to get to know….. and they can’t figure out why they have so much fun with me…! (it’s running patterns to keep their mind open to the possibilities…

THANKS FOR MY THANKSGIVING PRESENT! (gobble gobble…!)

I’ll be sure to stuff the bird real good for ya……….

Ok, RJ back again. Pretty good stuff, huh?

So what is your story and why aren’t you enjoying this Thanksgiving with some moist, pink relief?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. My Speed Seduction® 3.0 Course is just what you need to stuff some pink stocking for the Holidays.  Get your copy now and get cracking with puss-packing.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the major differences between Speed Seduction® and the other so-called “systems” out there is how much time I spend teaching you guys about how society’s programming keeps you away from the success with women that you truly want.

Listen: the other day, I was doing my monthly office hours for my Speed Seduction® Coaching program.

The guy who had called in to my cell phone to talk to me was telling me that he had met a girl at a wedding with whom he seemed to “hit it off”.    He told me that he had been texting with her back and forth for “the past week” and then she suddenly stopped returning his texts and he could not get a hold of her.

He wanted to know how to get her to respond to him and text him back, at which point I said, “has it ever occurred to you that your entire model of success with women sucks donkey dick?”

(BTW, “suck donkey dick” is a scientific and clinical term in the self-help industry that means, “stupid, self-defeating, and incorrect”).

Here’s what I mean: his model of success with women was:

1.    You meet her and chat her up.

2.    You get some kind of contact number.

3.    You attempt to make contact with her again.

4.    You get her on the phone, make plans

5.    You hang out with her another time.

6.    You lunge at her and try to get her to make out with you and fuck you.

Now listen: that whole model sucks. It just doesn’t work. Yet that is what presented to us guys by popular media-movies, tv, etc-as what we should be doing.

Here is what I find really interesting: it never even occurred to this guy that he could have used Speed Seduction(R) to so capture and lead this woman’s imagination and emotions that…..

…She Would Have Banged Him At That Wedding In Some Closet Or Back Room, Or Gone Home With Him That Very Same Day, Right Away!!

Look: my larger point beyond this guy and his situation is how our thinking as men  when it comes to attracting women is so programmed, we usually don’t even see it.  We just assume that is the way things work.

The aspect of Speed Seduction® that teaches you to wake up to your useless programming and to choose something better is not a footnote to the Speed Seduction® technology. It’s a major, core part of it.  It’s a major part of my job as a teacher to show you how your own habitual ways of thinking have been getting in your way and to point out a better(and pinker and wetter) way to do things with the ladies.

Peace, piece and remember:

Free Your Mind And Her Ass Will Follow!

RJ

P.S. Seriously guys, the “dating game” is the high fructose corn-syrup of getting laid. It’s in everything in our popular culture and it causes great hidden damage.   If you want the real goods that deliver the pink without bullying, begging, buying or booze, go here.

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

This is the final video of the 10 part video series: How To Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere.

This one goes over one of my favorite methods to meet women and make any pick up line work 10 times better: the implied compliment.

Implication works because it by-passes conscious resistance.  When you imply the compliment, rather than directly stating it, the woman has to use her imagination to find the meaning of what you said. And that process feels exactly like it is her own thought, and therefore what you say is NOT resisted.

This is really a powerful, yet simple method, and I urge you to check it out.

Once again, it’s titled How To Pick Up Women Anywhere Using The Indirect Compliment.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Remember, there is an entire 5 part Speed Seduction(R) Sexual Language course waiting for you here

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

In this video, which is 9 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery series, I reveal one of my favorite methods for meeting women: the Blurt Out.

The Blurt Out works great when you are in a situation that involves the woman walking past you while you are either stationary or walking in the other direct.

The other advantage of the Blurt Out is that it involves very little investment in your part. If she doesn’t turn around or come back to talk to you, you’ve lost zero.

Once again, the title is Forget Pick Up Lines: Use The Blurt Out To Meet Women!

Peace, piece and comment below me.

RJ

P.S. Did you know enrollment is now open for my London Speed Seduction 3.0 seminar? We’re filling up fast, so go here to check out what I’ll be teaching and while attending will be the best decision you’ll ever had made.

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

In this video(which is #5 of 10 in my Beyond Dating Tips/Advice For Men Mastery Series), I do an overview of the 4 basic and powerful approaches to meet women, anytime, anywhere.

You’ll note that I prefer “The Put-On”. Why?

Because it allows me to:

1. Immediately screen out the women who are easily jarred, rigid, and closed-minded.

2. Find the women who are fun, playful, and who react well to something just a bit out of the ordinary.

3. Enjoy the process

This concept of screening, selectivity, and standards is a major piece of the Speed Seduction methodology.

Enjoy this video and please comment on the blog in the space below. Or, if you prefer, you can pop right overwatch it on Youtube and comment and rate the video there.  The title is How to Meet Women, Anytime, Anywhere-4 Easy Ways To Meet Women.

Your participation helps me to spread the word to guys who are searching, so “play it forward” and help out me and your fellow brothers in the fight for the pink.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. You can find my complete and most up-to-date, cutting edge seduction course right here.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’m more convinced than ever that 90% of the success and satisfaction you can enjoy with women is influenced far more by what is between your ears than what is between her legs.

Now, don’t get me wrong here.

As you are about to learn here, I do NOT believe in “positive” thinking when it comes to women, money, or anything else.  In fact I think “positive thinking” is one of the most destructive illusions that has ever been peddled.

Here’s why.

Positive thinking usually just amounts to “shut your eyes, ignore that fact that you are failing or are miserable, and pretend things are going the way you want them to go”.   Just “believe” and you will achieve.

How “Positive” Advice Multiplied My Personal Suffering With Women

I can’t tell you how frustrated I used to get at all the “positive” advice I got from friends and relatives back when I was a 20 year old virgin, desperately trying to end my loneliness and get my freak on.

What kind of crap did I here?

“Just love yourself and then women will love you”.  Yeah, right.

“You’ll find someone”.  Well, eventually, maybe.  But who wants to wait? And who wants “someone”?

“Just be nice. Women love nice guys”. Don’t get me started.

The Real Problem With “Positive” Thinking

The problem with “positive” thinking is that it is oftentimes an invitation to ignore the reality of your situation, to turn a blind eye to what you need to learn, and to keep on repeating mistakes.  It’s tied together with another destructive “mind virus” that is part of our culture: “if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.”

How About A Dose Of Informed Enthusiasm Instead?

What I would actually like you to do is junk positive thinking entirely and instead work on developing what I call informed enthusiasm and intelligent motivation.

Informed enthusiasm simply means that you’ve trained yourself to spot where you are doing well, across many different levels; some obvious and some not so obvious.  And, additionally, you’ve developed an incredibly effective way to remove confusion from situations that don’t’quite go your way and to see exactly what you need to do differently the next time.

Intelligent motivation comes from knowing that, while you may not get what you want right away, you certainly will learn what you need to get what you want, or better.    It’s a totally reality-based confidence in your ability to learn from each and every encounter and situation with women.

If you’d really like to learn how to totally reform your thinking, beliefs, attitudes and perceptions about women, and develop a lighting-fast, super-efficient learning system check out my Nail Your Inner Game Program.  This is my best breakthroughs from 20 years of research from helping guys from all around the globe go from stuck to stardom in bed with women.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  If you are feeling you’d like to have me as your personal seduction teacher, coach and mentor-have me there personally to hold your hand and walk you through, you can watch some free samples of my Coaching Program videos here,