Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the biggest questions we get from students once they actually start going into the field and getting experienced using the tools and mastering the skills has to do with anchoring.

How do you capture her vibe, figuring out what moves her and motor-vates her, so that with just one gesture, word or suggestion you can bring it back at will?

One student of mine shared a story about a lunchtime meet he had with a woman who made a point of taking him to her favorite cafe and buying him a slice of their “famous” cheesecake.  She wanted him to experience the cheesecake and know how good it was.  (AHA!)

He asked her to tell him how she felt when she ate it. She got extremely excited, trying to get him to feel the feeling.

Challenge: he couldn’t quite figure out how to “anchor” that excitement so he could draw upon it at will.

Actually, it’s pretty simple:

Just tap something; tap your fork on the table or against your other hand.

But then LEAD the conversation: “I think you learn so much about people by learning where you FIND YOUR PLEASURES-me…it teaches you so much more when you learn how a person WANTS TO INDULGE…Debbie.

See how we put in suggestions and commands?

“Like, my friend likes to ask people; if you could go somewhere, where no one knew who you were…and nothing you did would get back to anyone who DID know…what kinds of things could you PICTURE YOURSELF DOING…me…I can’t help but THINK OF THAT QUESTION, from time to time.”

Etc etc etc.

See how easy this can be when you know where you want you and her to be going?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Within the walls of our 3-day seminar rooms, burned into the discs of our recorded teaching products, and locked snugly inside our instant-online-access Secret Training Collection…

… you’ll hear a lot about new directions, what happens below me, and how I close off the past so that today is the last day of the way I used to be.

Some skeptics say, “pretty much any intelligent woman is going to pick up on these double entendres and think you’re stupid.  Not for me, thanks.”

That’s a little misplaced, especially when many of my students get vaginally-victorious results just by asking women what they do for fun.

Exactly right. 

As I keep saying, there are certain questions and themes that are most likely to open up the trains of thought, waves of emotion, flows of feeling that lead a woman to feel strongly attracted, aroused, etc.

Knowing how to get these themes introduced into a “harmless” or “normal” conversation is a key skill.

Here are a few of my “tried and true” seduction questions:

• “When you really want to cut loose… escape… indulge yourself..what is it you love to do? And what’s something you’d like to do… but haven’t found a way to try (pointing to myself subtly).”
• “If you were to meet someone… when you just… feel… that… you know… and it’s not just that but also… you know… it’s ON… now… today(nodding my head)… what do you think is the one thing about you that would keep this person coming back for more….beyond just a one time thing”
• “Do you think men understand women? I don’t know if they do, but I think I can explain the psychology of men to women in just one joke…”  (I then tell them one or more suggestion laden filthy jokes!)

Finally, here’s how a student of mine explained, how HE made it work:

Personally I like to ask them about what they do for fun.  1 chick I was sargin went into a long drawn out description of how she loves to ride a motor bike. She was going thru all the motions as well, really describing it and acting like she was on a bike as she pretended to go around a corner making the noises.  You could actually see her reliving the scene out in realtime. It was even exciting for me to listen to her describe it so I was kinda getting her to relive what she likes to do most and she gets all those feelings of excitement back as she’s thinking about it and describing it.

I thought it was pretty damn cool it was like as if she was entertaining me

Keep learning.  Keep mastering.  Keep Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

Just how difficult is it to use sexual metaphor and suggestions with a woman? Is it actually, in reality, quite easy, and something you can playfully use to sexualize conversations quite rapidly?

Why, yes, my horny disciples.  Yes indeedy do!

Here is an example:

Last week, I visited a friend in San Diego who runs quite a thriving enterprise. To protect his identity, I won’t say more than that.

In any event, when I arrived, he was a bit busy, so he put me in the care of his assistant, who happened to be quite an attractive German woman.

Just to be friendly, I spoke a bit of German with her (I learned in high school).

She said, “Your pronunciation is very good. You speak like a native!”

I said, “It’s funny, but I pronounce much better than I understand. I find languages have a certain feeling and a CERTAIN SHAPE IN YOUR MOUTH.  When it’s right you can FEEL IT IN YOUR MOUTH.”

She thought about it a moment and said. “That’s very true. I speak a little French and it feels much different in my mouth.”

I said, “That’s right.  French is very soft. But German is VERY HARD IN YOUR MOUTH”.  (This time I leaned on it a bit and put more of a sexual tone to it.”

Her pupils dilated for a moment, she took in a deep breath, and visibly reddened.  As she did I gently nodded my head “yes’ and she mirrored it back, nodding gently in return without being aware of it.

At that point, I started chatting about how close Germany was to Denmark, and how I loved Denmark because my amazing girlfriend is from there.

(Hey-I may play, but I don’t stray.  Once I hook ‘em, I gotta overlook ‘em, catch and release, cause at that point I cease!)

In any case, I invite you to explore how you can/could weave some of the following sexual metaphors into your conversations with women as early on in the conversation as you can:

“So hard…”

“Hard inside you”

“New direction/nude erection”

“Feel your opening/feel you’re opening”

“Suck seed/succeed”

“Go down”

“Put it in your mouth”

When you say these, slightly (slightly) shift your tone to something a bit quieter, and go into just a little bit of a sexual state yourself.  Don’t lean “too hard” (ah ah) on it!

Have fun and let me know how it goes…

Piece and peace,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

Watch this video (right out of my Coaching Program):

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Is it possible to talk about something that sounds completely innocent, while subtly steering the conversation toward your bed (and her in it?) How do you use a seemingly innocent conversation to embed commands (fascination, connection, attraction, list) that get her hot and bothered?

I may do a mini video on this topic soon, in fact.  In the meantime, be sure to leave a comment…

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

One of the most powerful “side effects” of mastering your girl-getting game is also achieving a level of power and mastery in other walks of life that you never thought possible.

Reminds me of a Sarge report I got from a student not too long ago about how my teachings not only got him the girl, but also saved him from getting his head caved in!

You heard it here first: Speed Seduction® is a life-saver – literally!

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How The “Boyfriend Destroyer” Pattern Got Him The Girl…
Then Sargy Persuasion Kept Him From Getting Destroyed…
By The Boyfriend!

Here’s what happened.  A student of mine was on the phone with another student of mine, then next thing you know, he sees some guy come charging into his apartment (without knocking) DEMANDING to speak with his roommate. My student put the phone down and dealt with this confrontation with this intruder, who is screaming and yelling and about to start tearing the place up…

My student manages to persuade this guy to wait outside while he gets his roommate, then gets back to his phone call.  Things cooled off for a minute… then next thing you know, the intruder is back… and angrier than ever.  Charges right past my student and goes to his roommate’s door and starts pounding on the door, saying “Get out here so I can kick your f@@king a@@ RIGHT NOW you lousy son of a….”

So my student sets the phone down again, gets the intruder to slow down just a bit, and says to the intruder, “Stop and imagine how you would feel if someone were to force their way into your home. Wouldn’t you want them to be cool and go outside?”

It was like magic.  The angry boyfriend instantly chilled out and was easily led outside.  Crisis diffused!

Why Was This Intruder So Flippin’ Angry??

Here’s what happened: my student’s roommate was banging this angry guy’s girlfriend (she told him she was single… what my student’s roommate should do about this lying chick is another story)… and she was in his room AT THAT MOMENT. The boyfriend put two and two together and followed her there, then sat outside for awhile getting good and pissed off before bounding up to destroy this “boyfriend destroyer” who was making his chick.

My student made strategic use of suggestions and embedded commands to diffuse the situation and lead the intruder’s imagination… outside.  Go back up and read what my student told this angry boyfriend and tell me how many commands and suggestions you find.  See how this works?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Moral of the story: see what happens when you have Sargy, persuasive power?  It becomes a reservoir of knowledge you can draw upon at-will, whenever necessary or desired, anytime, anyplace, anywhere.

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