Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Should you ever accept a woman’s “excuses” for cancelling a date or meeting? Do you know how to successfully handle those cases where you really should give a woman another chance? Or do you keep getting sucked into another round of time and attention wasting female flim-flammery?

Bask In My Wisdom, Seduction-Master-In Training!

My rules for this are very simple:

1. No matter how good an “excuse” may sound to you, remember most women are excellent liars, and text makes it exceedingly easy for even a poor liar to do it quite well. After all, you can’t hear voice tone or inflection, which are two big keys to when a chick is fibbing.(Hint: another key is, she is moving her lips!)
2. The bottom line is that a woman who is truly interested in spending time with you but for some legitimate reason just can’t do so, will make her interest very clear, almost certainly by asking if she can see you another time and day.
3. What women do is far more important than what they say. What they say can easily play into your neediness, horniness, need for validation, etc. etc. What they do is clear and easy to see.

There’s No Excuse, For Date-Break Abuse!

So under what circumstances should you give a date-breakin’ chick another shot at the honor of riding your pink steel? And when should you shine her on as a waste of the space she’s squatting in?

Well, from what I’ve written above, it ought to be pretty clear, Buckwheat. The only scenario where I would even consider her as a prospect is if she makes it very clear in the text that cancels, that she really does want to spend time with you.

Anything else you need to either:

A) Forget it and move on

B) Put her in your mental “refrigerator” for 30 days. After 30 days goes by, text her and say, “Hey…if you see that cool fun girl I thought I met, have her text me. She was kinda interesting”.

Here’s the deeper truth: when you know how to easily meet women, anytime, anywhere, and quickly capture and lead their imagination and emotions, you won’t give two toots in hell if an occasional bimbo doesn’t get the value of having you bend her over your sofa and giving her the old “Sargy One Two Three”.

And that sure beats a poke in the eye, don’t it?

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A major challenge facing almost every smart man comes, at one point or another on his Seduction journey, when he is interested in a particular hottie who “runs hot and cold.”

One minute she’s all excited about getting together (giving you a chance to get her all hot and bothered and enjoy some crazy wild sex with her)… but in the blink of an eye, she cancels meetings, leaves messages at weird times when she knows you can’t answer, and then doesn’t answer or reply when you call back.

This student is currently getting his knob twisted in the wrong way by just such a woman:

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Ross, I have a bit of a problem. I have met a married woman who I made some plans with a week ago for this upcoming weekend. We were going to get together at my place on Friday afternoon and again on Sunday for the playoffs game – her treat. She said she would call to verify early in the week, and we’d go to a local club to watch the game. She said “hopefully I won’t get too nervous that someone will see me (at the game).”

Anyway, she called and left a message yesterday morning w/ no mention of our plans and said she’d call back. I called her back and left a message in the afternoon which she hasn’t returned. Obviously, we never got together.

When she was at my place once before, I was running all sorts of patterns with her and she was REALLY into it and then she got a call from her husband and got cold feet. I tried relaxing her, and did so to some extent but didn’t push the issue. Since then, we have not gotten together (she then cancelled plans we made subsequently), but this weekend seemed right b/c he was out of town and it was her idea to get together.

I want to stay out of a mindset within her of “cancelled plans” so she doesn’t continue to support this notion of me. Any suggestions on how to handle or shift this frame would be appreciated.

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Ev-ery time someone comes to me with a story like this, I start by asking one basic, important question:

“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

Am I missing something here? When you were together before, she wasn’t completely available to you, especially after she got that phone call. She’s cancelled on you twice now. And you’re thinking she may be in a mindset of cancelling on you whenever?!?!?!?!

So clue me in here. Why, on earth, would you want to continue this? Do you live in downtown Sausageville where there are absolutely no available and willing hot women?

Don’t let this cheating married woman twist your faucet knob by running hot and cold. Drop her NOW. Let her husband, or some AFC, put up with her crap. You have better things (and women) to do, pal.

I permit you one cold shower, IF she’s THAT hot that you need it. But I assure you I’ve f@@ked women who put her to shame in looks, personality, and everything else.

So actually, forget the cold shower. Take a normal shower and put on your best clothes and favourite cologne that drives the women crazy. Get your Seduction a## back out in the field and find a new hottie who will twist your knob the RIGHT way and then share a HOT (in more ways than one) shower with you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Yesterday on my blog, I told you about my student who had sex with the super-squirting babe who dried up and flaked on a planned meeting.

24 hours before their next scheduled meeting, she texted him with this: “I have to cancel our plans for tomorrow. I totally forgot about a previous engagement.”

He knew immediately (as did I when he told me) that it was a flake, a line of total malarkey, because she didn’t say she was sorry, didn’t immediately offer to reschedule, and tried to hide behind texting rather than calling him.

A few minutes after I wrote yesterday’s Steaming Hot Seduction Secret, I found myself AGAIN in teacher/mentor mode (the place where I thrive). I wrote out a brand-new Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern and e-mailed it to him. As you know, I do my best work when I am hands-on with my students, helping them succeed in their specific situations with women.

[For those who are joining me this Sunday (October 25) for our "Afternoon With Ross Jeffries," I will share this message pattern with you, word for word. And if you can't make it, click here anyway and pre-order the DVD recording of the event, and you'll receive the message pattern too.]

Some of the key points of the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern (spoken in my student’s voice) are:

• I’m trying to figure out what’s going on and want to open the opportunity for you to tell me
• I’d rather have it on the table or in my face, then behind my back (I use this in one of the screening patterns I use when I Sarge)
• I’ve enjoyed being with you and want to hear what’s going on

As a smart guy who is serious about success with the hottest of super-hot, wet women, he called her that evening and she answered the phone. After she tried to play him off and tell him she wasn’t “in the mood to talk” he had her pause and focus on listening, and then he spoke the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern to her, word-for-word.

For a “use a knife to cut the tension in the air” 20 seconds, she was silent. I would venture her previous men have been Average Frustrated Chumps (AFCs) and she’s never been in the presence of a real Speed Seduction® Master who powerfully claims his desire, his skills, his success, and his future. Now she was confronted by a man who doesn’t mess around when it comes to getting what he wants, and realized the “game” she is used to playing with men wasn’t going to work on him.

Then she said, slowly, “I’ve given this a lot of thought and I just don’t think we have much in common. You’ll make a woman happy very soon, but I’m just not feeling this. I’m sorry, I’m really bad at this.”

Whether or not this was THE truth, it was, as far as he’s concerned, “her truth” at the moment. And it wasn’t his job to “figure her out.” In fact, in my debriefing with him he said the only part he really heard was when she said “You’ll make a woman happy very soon.”

Like this pattern? Pretty cool eh? It clears things up so you can focus your energy and efforts on women who will be worth your time. That sure beats a poke in the eye!

And again, if you spend this Sunday afternoon with me (or pre-order the DVD if you can’t make it), I will share these, and others of my brand-new, best-of-the-best Seduction/Pick-up/Personal Change Breakthroughs with you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. The goal of the Anti-Flake Phone Message Pattern is to get her to step out from behind her game and claim her truth (if she can). In this case, she couldn’t. This is an indicator of how she would behave toward him if their interactions progressed to “seeing each other” and then “boyfriend/girlfriend.” By using the Anti-Flake this early in the interactions with her – the VERY FIRST TIME she flaked on him, he sidestepped a landmine so he can refocus his Sarging efforts toward finding the RIGHT women for him.

P.P.S. Would you like to get your greedy little hands on word for word seduction patterns, INCLUDING the “forbidden” Gemini and Dark Sun patterns that induce permanent behavioral change in the women you desire, allowing you to mold them to the exact erotic specifications you require, demand and dream of?

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Time and again, something that starts out so hot, can turn cold fast in an instant, and for no logical reason.

Many students of mine report that their initial meeting with incredibly hot, horny, WET women goes extremely well – but then, too soon, she dries up, flakes out, and leaves the guy “high and dry.”

I recently worked with a smart guy like you who follows my teachings, who had just such a thing happen.

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Man, has the past week been a whirlwind for me! About ten days ago, I met this stunning hottie while I was out running errands. I ran a 5-minute pickup pattern on her and closed her on the next meeting so fast that even I wondered what the hell just happened.

So, a few days later, we meet, we go to dinner, and we go back to my place. Dinner at the restaurant was good, but dessert – served in bed – was hot and JUICY! This chick came 13 times in 20 minutes. And she SQUIRTS! She came so hard and so often that she couldn’t move her legs for a half hour afterward.

I saw her again a few days later and we went on a more traditional date (that I planned to lead up to another night of passion) but she seemed cold and distant from the moment I picked her up. Knowing I couldn’t open her up that night, I took her home early. I closed her on the next meet and left. That was scheduled for tomorrow. Today, I got a text message from her that says “I have to cancel our plans for tomorrow. I totally forgot about a previous engagement.”

Oh no….the wet squirter chick has dried up! Can I pour some water on this to get it going again?

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Everyone, pay attention to this, this is very important;

When you skipped the “dating rituals” and instead used Speed Seduction® to succeed with this woman you wanted, you experienced what was probably some of the hottest, WETTEST sex of your life. The problem is, this chick is playing a game she doesn’t know how to handle.

She could be shocked that she went to bed with you so quick, and unsure how to approach you. Maybe the sex with you was so intense that it created feelings she can’t handle. Could be she was cheating on her boyfriend with you. Perhaps she was looking for a one-night stand to “ride her hard and put her away wet” and was kidding herself when she took a chance on there being “more.” The “date” you had with her a few days later probably clarified this for her.

This is life in the fast lane, fellas. With Speed Seduction®, however, you can bypass all the dating b.s. and find the “gusher” who will be your “Old Faithful” and spray again and again.

Get off your Seduction a@@ and back on your Sarging horse – she’s out there waiting and wet for you.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. One more point. You will never really know what “changed” for her. It’s not your job to figure it out.

YOUR job is to take the girl-getting skills that worked (the 5-minute pickup, the first meeting that led to her soaking your bed with her girl juice), and apply them to the next 10 women you meet who are even hotter than this one particular squirter chick.

P.P.S. With what I teach you about this principle throughout the 7 DVDs and 11 CDS in Speed Seduction® 3.0, you’ll have everything you need to handle matters when the squirting chick “dries up” on you.

These power teachings will ensure many “eruptions” to come!

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