Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

How do you move closer to your destination?  Take a step toward it. 

How do you eat the giant elephant?  One bite at a time.

Claiming your results with women you truly desire is not much different.

If you’re just starting out, a “newbie” who has had a bit of success using the techniques but feeling a little intimidated because you haven’t yet effortlessly landed the terrific threesome with Debbie and her succulent sorority sister Sarah, think about what HAS happened for you.

You’ve made the decision that today is the last day of the way you used to be.

Perhaps you personally haven’t changed all that much, but the way you see things and the world in general HAS changed – for the WAY better.

With increased confidence that comes from seeing SOME success, you feel like the world is your oyster and you will grab it by the balls and squeeze until they crunch.  (Ha ha ha. I don’t think oysters HAVE balls, but I dig the picturesque metaphor in any event.)

What comes up many times for “newbies” who have gotten better at approaching and conversing with women: challenges mastering the Close, sealing the deal with women.

Hint: stop thinking about the “Close” as a separate stage, but as something that starts before you even walk out the door and continues with each further step of comfort, openness, challenge, excitement and desire you create in and with her and with the first initial friendly/warm touches/physical contact, which should be happening early on.

HINT HINT: If she isn’t comfortable or is frozen with that initial, friendly, non-sexual touching, RUN.

HINT HINT HINT: learn to screen women. What personality traits must be there in her for you to want to move forward? Can you mentally rehearse getting up from the table, smiling, shaking your head and saying, “No way” and just walking out the door, feeling 10 feet tall and humming out loud, “ANCHORS AWAY, MY BOYS! ANCHORS AWAAAAAY!”

Newbies: this is important, that last hint. Do it.

Start acting like you have choice and standards even if you currently don’t and your dick for the past ten years has been dry as nun’s pussy in the Sahara desert! It’s the most paradoxical, counter-intuitive mindset, but it W-O-R-K-S! Start believing, feeling, act-as-if you ALREADY have a world of choice.

And most of all, remember my rule: When I don’t know what to do, I take a bold step forward.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Inside the Speed Seduction® Secret Training Collection you will find a series of laser-focused video modules on numerous topics related to getting women aroused and sealing the deal.  NOW is the time to crack open the Vault and claim your ultimate virtual Vaginal Victory in 2011.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of the most powerful tools in the world for personal change is simple RECURSIVE Focus; returning again and again to the object of your chosen awareness, after periods of being focused elsewhere.

Without focus there is NO devotion, without devotion, there is merely focus that goes nowhere to no end.

Now, what are the things that distract from focus?

1. Unrealistic expectations. You try something once, expect it to work perfectly well or to perfectly execute it and then when it doesn’t, you give up.

2. Great luck. Something works exactly right, the first time, so you give up practicing and stick with the first success!

3. Ultra-creativity. You’re so super-creative you can’t/won’t bring yourself to repeat the same thing over and over until you reach mastery. For years, this was MY greatest stumbling block.

Don’t get me wrong: you can and SHOULD adopt the material to the unique situations and unique women you are meeting, for sure!

I’m simply saying, once you create something that works, keep practicing it so you have it down before you move on to the next thing! TRUST ME ON THIS!

4. Failure to properly schedule/allot the time. Perhaps you have bad organzational skill. Learning to plan is important.

5. Lack of physical energy/fatigue. Ya can’t sarge if your clock is all run down from bad diet, no exercise, no sleep, etc. Be good to the biological robot that you operate!

6. Distractions from environmental demands - work, family issues, etc.

7. Fear of failure.

8. Fear of success.

9. Not knowing how many tests/repetitions constitute a fair try.

10. Lack of proper encouragement/guidance/feedback support/mechanisms (come to one of my seminars or join my Coaching Program and you’ll get lots of these)

Notice that nowhere here did I list “not understanding the material”.

For most guys, I would say 1-4 are the dominant interruptions. And number 9 is probably VERY, VERY common.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. When you come and learn, drill and experience your breakthroughs with me, you get just that: me. No flunkies, trainees, or churned out by the “franchise factory” clone instructors – you get the best. And I’m giving my best in Montreal.  Click here to get my best.

Dear Speed Seduction® Students,

This video speaks for itself.

Helping guys like this make their breakthroughs is the reason why I am still passionate about doing this work after 20 years of teaching.

Now, if I could do this for a guy like Sina-a 25 year old virgin who was desperately stuck-what could I do for you?

Watch…

Click here to view the embedded video.

Peace, piece and another student blasts through the friend zone!

RJ

P.S.  The “beta” test Sina talks about was a one day “in-field” event I did with 3 students. Don’t know if I will do it again, but you can find out about my personal consulting, monthly coaching and live 3-day seminars on my Speed Seduction® Website.

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

On Friday I posted the first of two e-mails from actual students who have successfully applied my teachings to succeed with women.  If you missed it, you can check it out here.  (This will open in a separate browser so you can come right back here afterward).

I promised the second e-mail today.  Without further ado, here it is:

Hi Ross, Could use a bit of assistance here… I’ll try to be brief but that’s not my strong-suit – LOL!

Background – I seem to be having a lot of success with neighbors. 1st night closes with both the woman who lives on top of me and the one in front (my complex is a target rich environment!). (Oh, and Ross – the second one happened days after I got back from LA. Thanks again for your time while I was there, and yes, I know she’s also “geographically undesirable”, but oh so desirable in every other way!)

The fling with the girl on top lasted a few weeks; we’re still friends. She was fun and I enjoyed her, but not what I’m looking for long term. The one in front is another matter. She’d be an HB11 on my uncle’s scale (a 9 with money!). She’s the topic of this post.

I’ve known her casually for some time. She’s very reclusive and hard to get to know; she’s lived in front of me for over a year and a half… Does travel a lot with work, but most of the time you’d never know ‘cuz when she is home she’s rarely seen. Over the past few months I’d seen a bit more of her. She came out with her niece and nephew to play with my dog one day and we had a good conversation.

A couple of weeks later, I was out detailing my car and she again came down to chat (very unusual for her!). The following weekend, she was out cleaning HER car and we started chatting, among other things she said that I’d inspired her (one good sign!). She also asked if I knew who lives above her, because they were up all night partying and having sex she couldn’t get any sleep. I blushed, smiled sheepishly and said “That was probably actually us” (the other neighbor had been over the night before, and my bedroom is directly behind this one’s…).

She replied that if was me she wouldn’t complain to the complex, but to get on the floor next time ‘cuz my bed squeaks. I ended up trading a wax job (on the car, not her – LOL!) in exchange for her taking me to happy hour. A few days after that I left town for a while so didn’t get a chance to take her up on the happy hour for a while.

Two days after I got back from my trip (I did some one-on-one counseling in LA with Marilyn Sargent and spent an afternoon with Ross) I ran into her out front. She invited me to come by later to watch a movie, and I countered with her coming to my place since I’ve got a nice home theater. She agreed and showed up a bit later. We decided just to talk & get to know each other
a bit instead of the movie, which culminated in a late night visit to the Jacuzzi and spending the night at her place (hot sex, pussy breath and all!!!). Only two moments of last minute resistance; on the way to the pool I started holding her hand and she said “Wait a minute. We’re holding hands! What about Jeannie (other neighbor)?”  I replied, “Jeannie said she wants to see other people.” which is true, by the way. That settled that.

Then, just as we were getting into bed, she goes, “Hold on, we’re neighbors! Doesn’t that pose a problem for … wait, I guess not. Nevermind…”

~ Brother BB

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

Every time a smart guy like you steps up to the plate and claims his results with the women he truly desires, without resorting to the 5 Bs (bullying, begging, buying, BS, and booze … and the 6th B, biceps), the first thing I ask is: who will be next?

Right now, I’m asking YOU… will YOU be next?

I was rummaging through some of my “greatest hits” and ran across two of my all-time favorite e-mails, Sarge reports from students who were reporting their incredible results with women, using my system.  It’s possible some of you may have seen these at one point, but I know a lot of you haven’t.  So I am going to share them with you (again).

As you read them, and imagine enjoying these results for yourself, you will notice that these guys give SPECIFIC descriptions of the techniques they used from my courses (and also give some juicy details about what the women did to and WITH them as a result!)

I want you to get excited as you read these two emails and wonder, WHEN WILL I STEP UP AND CLAIM MY GIRL-GETTING GAME SO I CAN ENJOY THESE RESULTS AS WELL?

Here’s the first of the two e-mails.  I’ll share the second one on Sunday, so stay tuned.  (Call me a tease if you want!  Ha Ha Ha)

Hi Ross and Everyone,

An amazing story for me. I met this girl who I went to elementary and middle school with through the Internet. We both used to live in Monterey and grew up around each other, but then I moved to another town and 8 years later we meet in another town.

Story- I instant message girl online, talked for a little while and met the following night. (QUICK NOTE FROM RJ: Notice that he didn’t spend endless time on instant messenger typing into her naughty box.  He moved her quickly to the in-person meet.  That’s how you get in her box FOR REAL, guys.  I don’t recommend meeting women online, but if you do, remember this.  Anyway, back to the story…)

She came over here, I introduced cube game to her, then I talked about how I was learning to be a “blissnotist,” but I didn’t go into detail about it until she came over. I think that made her really curious to meet me. Then I read some poetry and used the loop technique from a newsletter that was sent out before. The we started having wild passionate sex.

Well after we had sex she had mentioned Monterey and how she used to live there and I told her I used to live there, then I asked her what school she went to and the school she named was the same school I went to, then I asked her what her name was again and she said it and I told her I knew someone by that name that went to the same school I went to and that the girl I knew by that name had invited me to go to a special birthday celebration she had for her 15th birthday, where she had to dance at the thing.

Well, I told her I remember telling the girl I knew that I wouldn’t go to her birthday celebration cause I was supposed to dance with her but that I didn’t know how to dance Spanish music. So I never went.

She then paused and looked shock and then she asked me what was the girls last name that I knew and I told her. She suddenly looked even more shocked and then I was kinda shocked by her shockness. She asked me what my name was and well I use a different name when I meet woman from the Internet, but then I told her my first name and last name and she repeated it and said slowly, with a still shocked look on her face “Oh My God, you’re so and so”

Then I pulled out pictures and yearbooks and there we were as youngsters in the yearbooks, me looking like a dork, I always thought she was hot being a cheerleader all throughout the whole time we went to school together. So the mood changed from passionate to being really aware.

We both lived on the same street in Monterey too. She lived just a few houses down from mine. I even described her house to her I, what her yard looked like. I went so far back that I took her to a time when I rode by on my bicycle stopped in front of her house as she was walking towards her front door and smiled at her as she stopped for a second and smiled back. I remembered and described what she was wearing that day. Now we’re seeing each other. I’ve elicited her most important values and they just so happen to match mine which is really good.

Thanks, Ross!

There you have it guys: this is how it’s done.  Check back on Sunday as I’ll have the second e-mail posted then.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Reading this e-mail, you saw how this student naturally applied Speed Seduction® to his ACTUAL girl-getting situation.  It’s so much more than a set of patterns – it’s the mindset, skillset, toolset, and every-other-set you need to master your girl-getting game on EVERY playing field.

Click here to learn how you can get this for yourself, starting now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

A question I get asked frequently is, what to do when you have the hots for a woman who already has a bore-friend, BUT she seems to be into you too, and she says she’s “this close” to having a fling with you or even dumping him for you?

Just yesterday, one of my students told me he wants to reignite the spark with a “taken” chick he had flirted with before, get the Sarging energy back on full blast, and get her in his bed, even though she (says she’s) gone back full-time to that bore-friend of hers.

OK… those of you who have heard of, or used, my “Boyfriend Destroyer” pattern know that oftentimes, the chick will throw out the old “….but I have a boyfriend” line even when she doesn’t, and it’s your mission as a Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training to channel her vibe and move her past this objection, and into your love-lair.

That still leaves the question….

What To Do When She’s Really Taken, But You’re Still “Taken” With Her?

First, foremost, uppermost, important-most, let me ask the Captain Obvious question:

“Is she the ONLY succulent, amazing woman on the whole freaking planet???”

A while ago, I shared the story about a guy who was Sarging on this chick, only to find out she was his neighbor’s girlfriend, but he wanted her anyway. The guidance I gave to that student applies here too.

Furthermore, what is it about her that makes her so special? Could it be that she’s actually NOT so Goddamn perfect in every way, shape, or form, but because there’s no other hot items in your “little black book”, you THINK she is?

Next, take stock of what YOU want. Are you playing the field, looking to bang everything with a pulse that looks good in a miniskirt and get laid left and right?

Or, is your goal to find that one special, beautiful, enjoyable, compatible hottie and make a lifetime (or at least a long time) of shared enjoyment and passion with her?

If the latter, this “taken” chick who (claims she) almost cheated on and/or left her “borefriend” for you….what’s to say, if she becomes your “g/f,” that someone else (most likely another of my students!) won’t be hearing the same song-and-dance about YOU?

Think carefully about what you’re doing here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Understanding the real psychology of what gets women hot and bothered and ready to go will give you an advantage over almost every other guy out there…

… even guys who are supposedly better looking or make more money.

All of this (and much more) is covered in Speed Seduction® 3.0.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

This Sunday, March 28, 2010 – for 4 hours starting at 12:00 Noon Pacific – you will have the chance to call me live on my cell phone and ask any two questions about getting girls in your bed.

To learn how to get the secret cell phone number (and also claim another special offer), watch this video:

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Peace and piece,
RJ

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