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		<title>Speed Seduction® Saves A Life!</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 29 Jul 2010 15:37:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training, One of the most powerful &#8220;side effects&#8221; of mastering your girl-getting game is also achieving a level of power and mastery in other walks of life that you never thought possible. Reminds me of a Sarge &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/speed-seduction-saves-a-life/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><strong>Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,</strong></p>
<p>One of the most powerful &#8220;side effects&#8221; of <strong>mastering your girl-getting game</strong> is also achieving a level of power and mastery in other walks of life that you never thought possible.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1800" title="ca_63291290_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/ca_63291290_180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="120" />Reminds me of a Sarge report I got from a student not too long ago about how my teachings not only <span style="text-decoration: underline;">got him the girl</span>, but also saved him from getting his head caved in!</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">You heard it here first:</span> Speed Seduction® is a life-saver &#8211; literally!</p>
<p>Join me for a moment as we explore&#8230;</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">How The &#8220;Boyfriend Destroyer&#8221; Pattern Got Him The Girl&#8230;<br />
Then Sargy Persuasion Kept Him From Getting Destroyed&#8230;<br />
By The Boyfriend!</h3>
<p>Here&#8217;s what happened.  A student of mine was on the phone with another student of mine, then next thing you know, he sees some guy come charging into his apartment (without knocking) DEMANDING to speak with his roommate. My student put the phone down and dealt with this confrontation with this intruder, who is <span style="text-decoration: underline;">screaming</span> and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">yelling</span> and about to start <span style="text-decoration: underline;">tearing the place up</span>&#8230; <span id="more-1799"></span></p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1802" title="ca_63819325_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/ca_63819325_180.jpg" alt="" width="180" height="270" />My student manages to persuade this guy to wait outside while he gets his roommate, then gets back to his phone call.  Things cooled off for a minute&#8230; then next thing you know, the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">intruder is back</span>&#8230; and angrier than ever.  Charges right past my student and goes to his roommate&#8217;s door and starts <span style="text-decoration: underline;">pounding</span> on the door, saying <em>&#8220;Get out here so I can kick your f@@king a@@ RIGHT NOW you lousy son of a&#8230;.&#8221;</em></p>
<p>So my student sets the phone down again, gets the intruder to slow down just a bit, and says to the intruder, <em><strong>&#8220;Stop and imagine how you would feel if someone were to force their way into your home. Wouldn&#8217;t you want them to be cool and go outside?&#8221;</strong></em></p>
<p>It was like magic.  The angry boyfriend instantly chilled out and was easily led outside.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Crisis diffused!</span></p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;">Why Was This Intruder So Flippin&#8217; Angry??</h3>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Here&#8217;s what happened:</span> my student&#8217;s roommate was <span style="text-decoration: underline;">banging this angry guy&#8217;s girlfriend</span> (she told him she was single&#8230; what my student&#8217;s roommate should do about this lying chick is another story)&#8230; and she was in his room AT THAT MOMENT. The boyfriend put two and two together and followed her there, then sat outside for awhile getting good and pissed off before bounding up to <span style="text-decoration: underline;">destroy</span> this <strong>&#8220;boyfriend destroyer&#8221;</strong> who was making his chick.</p>
<p>My student made strategic use of <span style="text-decoration: underline;">suggestions</span> and <span style="text-decoration: underline;">embedded commands</span> to diffuse the situation and lead the intruder&#8217;s imagination&#8230; outside.  Go back up and read what my student told this angry boyfriend and tell me how many commands and suggestions you find.  <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>See how this works?</strong></span></p>
<p>Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/mindframe/" target="_blank"><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1803" title="MindFramePersuasion100" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/MindFramePersuasion100.jpg" alt="" width="100" height="100" /></a>P.S. </strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Moral of the story:</span> see what happens when you have Sargy, persuasive power?  It becomes a <span style="text-decoration: underline;">reservoir of knowledge</span> you can draw upon <strong>at-will</strong>, <strong>whenever necessary or desired</strong>, <em>anytime</em>, <em>anyplace</em>, <em>anywhere</em>.</p>
<p><strong><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/mindframe/" target="_blank">Click here to learn how to get people eagerly doing your bidding in every walk of life&#8230;</a></strong></p>
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		<title>When You&#8217;re &#8220;Taken&#8221; With The Taken Chick Who Takes It Away</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 03 Jun 2010 18:47:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Ross Jeffries</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans, A question I get asked frequently is, what to do when you have the hots for a woman who already has a bore-friend, BUT she seems to be into you too, and she says &#8230; <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/taken-with-taken-chick/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a>]]></description>
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<p><strong>Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,</strong></p>
<p>A question I get asked frequently is, what to do when you have the <strong>hots for a woman</strong> who <strong>already has a bore-friend</strong>, BUT she seems to be <strong>into you too</strong>, and she says she&#8217;s &#8220;this close&#8221; to having a fling with you or even dumping him for you?</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-1628" title="ca_63289078_180" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/ca_63289078_180.jpg" alt="ca_63289078_180" width="180" height="270" />Just yesterday, one of my students told me he wants to <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>reignite the spark</strong></span> with a &#8220;taken&#8221; chick he had flirted with before, get the Sarging energy back on full blast, and <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>get her in his bed</strong></span>, even though she (says she&#8217;s) gone back full-time to that bore-friend of hers.</p>
<p>OK&#8230; those of you who have heard of, or used, my &#8220;Boyfriend Destroyer&#8221; pattern know that oftentimes, the chick will throw out the old <em>&#8220;&#8230;.but I have a boyfriend&#8221;</em> line even when she doesn&#8217;t, and it&#8217;s your mission as a Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training to <strong>channel her vibe</strong> and move her past this objection, and <strong>into your love-lair</strong>.</p>
<p>That still leaves the question&#8230;.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>What To Do When She&#8217;s <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Really</span> Taken, But You&#8217;re <span style="text-decoration: underline;">Still</span> &#8220;Taken&#8221; With Her?</strong></p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">First, foremost, uppermost, important-most</span>, let me ask the Captain Obvious question:</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><strong>&#8220;Is she the ONLY <span style="text-decoration: underline;">succulent, amazing woman</span> on the <span style="text-decoration: underline;">whole freaking planet</span>???&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>A while ago, I shared the story about a guy who was Sarging on this chick, only to find out she was his neighbor&#8217;s girlfriend, but he wanted her anyway. The <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/her-boyfriend-is-my-neighbor/" target="_blank">guidance I gave to that student</a> applies here too.</p>
<p><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Furthermore</span>, what is it about her that makes her <span style="text-decoration: underline;">so</span> special? Could it be that she&#8217;s actually <span style="text-decoration: underline;">NOT</span> so Goddamn <strong>perfect in every way, shape, or form</strong>, but because there&#8217;s no other hot items in your &#8220;little black book&#8221;, you THINK she is?</p>
<p>Next, <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>take stock of what YOU want</strong></span>. Are you playing the field, looking to bang everything with a pulse that looks good in a miniskirt and <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>get laid left and right</strong></span>?</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-1629" title="ca_32338742_325" src="http://www.seduction.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/ca_32338742_325.jpg" alt="ca_32338742_325" width="325" height="217" /></p>
<p><em>Or</em>, is your goal to find that one special, beautiful, enjoyable, compatible hottie and make a lifetime (or at least a long time) of <strong>shared enjoyment and passion</strong> with her?</p>
<p>If the latter, this &#8220;taken&#8221; chick who (claims she) almost cheated on and/or left her &#8220;borefriend&#8221; for you&#8230;.<span style="text-decoration: underline;">what&#8217;s to say</span>, if she becomes your &#8220;g/f,&#8221; that someone else (most likely another of my students!) won&#8217;t be hearing the same song-and-dance <span style="text-decoration: underline;">about</span> YOU?</p>
<p>Think carefully about what you&#8217;re doing here.<br />
<strong><br />
Peace and piece,<br />
RJ</strong><br />
<strong><br />
P.S. </strong>Understanding the real psychology of what <strong>gets women hot and bothered</strong> and ready to go will give you an <span style="text-decoration: underline;">advantage over</span> almost every other guy out there&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8230; even guys who are supposedly better looking or make more money.</p>
<p>All of this (and much more) is covered in <a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/" target="_blank">Speed Seduction® 3.0</a>.</p>
<h3 style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://www.seduction.com/blog/30/" target="_blank">&gt;&gt; CLICK HERE TO LEARN MORE &lt;&lt;</a></h3>
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