Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

F@@k it to hell and back again, once more.

So many of you have been demanding more specific teaching on the concept of pick-up as an act of profound personal rebellion, I am scheduling a live video event on New Years Day (Sunday, January 1) at 12:00 Noon Pacific.

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To cut to the chase and sign up now, click here:
http://www.rjspecial.com/

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Here is the scoop…

To “sweeten the pot” I am throwing in another opportunity that will be available ONLY to those who register for this live broadcast – and no one else.

Everyone who registers for this live video broadcast receives it – you’ll find it explained in an e-mail you get once you sign up.

Get ready. Because it all goes down on… Sunday, January 1 at 12:00 Noon Pacific.

Just click here and then enter your name and e-mail in the form on the right hand side to lock in your spot on the live broadcast:

http://www.rjspecial.com/

Peace, piece, and see you there,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A key ingredient of achieving greater success with the women you truly desire is something I call the ABS Principle.

It doesn’t mean Anti-Lock Braking System, though once you apply it you’ll find a much smoother path, with less sudden, hard stops, to getting more women.

It also doesn’t means “abs”.  No bullying, buying, begging, BS, booze, or biceps here.

Abs-olutely not.  No desperate supplication or AFC-ery here.

You might call it the Anti-Masturbation Breakthrough System.  Actually, I might call it that.

Whatever you call it, the ABS Principle boils down to this: 

Always Be Sarging

First, foremost, uppermost, and important-most: I don’t go somewhere to Sarge, I Sarge when I go places.

Being a man who claims his choice to meet, seduce, and enjoy rides on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle must be part of who you are and what you do.  Not an “event” as in “Hey dude, wanna go out and scout some babes tonight?”

Effective goal-setting is also an important part of the ABS Principle.  Forget “impressing that chick” or “scoring with that babe.”  No.  A Speed Seducer® focuses on continually improving and mastering his skills that get him success not only with the woman in front of him now, but also the next ten HB10s he meets.

Why is this so important? When you put alot of energy, enthusiasm and focus into any ONE woman, and things don’t open up for you as you wish, then all of that energy (better used for Sarging in this case) has nowhere to go.

Think of it this way: when the girl you play with becomes the girl you want to stay with, you will have more assurance that you are stepping into the life you truly deserve, not settling on a real-hate-shun-ship by default.

How will you find that fine femme if you’re limiting yourself by making Sarging an “event?”

Again: Always Be Sarging.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Today is the day you will claim control of your life and start meeting, flirting, dating, seducing, and sleeping with sexy, beautiful women, fast and easy, immersing yourself in and mastering the lessons and teachings inside Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Has anyone ever offered to “hook you up” with a friend of theirs? Have you ever asked someone to do this for you?

A student of mine’s cousin (let’s call her Bianca) wanted to “hook him up” with a “cute” co-worker of hers (we’ll call her… you guessed it… Debbie).  Bianca’s idea was this: “You and a couple of your friends come out and hang out with us one night, and you and Debbie can meet.”

Internally he knew that whole scene would zap his Sargy energy.  He’d be in a situational disadvantage with Debbie, since she’d feel under the microscope and would be putting up extra resistance.  In declining the offer, he told his cousin Bianca “I would not be comfortable in this scenario and this is just not how I meet women.  I won’t put Debbie in this situation either.”

Bianca snorted and said, “Gee, too bad, how the hell do you expect to find a girlfriend?  Your loss.” But the way Bianca wanted to “hook him up” with Debbie was uncomfortable for him.

So if my student knew who Debbie was and thought she was hot and might be worth a shot, what would be a better way than having Bianca explicitly “hook him up” with her?  What could YOU do?

I would actually say that you have to add some value to their lives if you expect them to add value to yours (eg, intro you to chicks).

For example, let’s say you are friendly with the woman who sits next to you at work, and she is pretty damn hot.

Treat her like a friend, because you like her as a person, genuinely. She’s a good person and you are friendly and are cool with and to each other.

You likely won’t move it past that if you “don’t shit where you eat.”  Yet you know she has cool, HOT female friends (you’ve seen her Facebook page) and sooner or later she might introduce you around to her social circle as a genuinely cool guy, if you know her well enough to pal around at the Friday after-work happy hour.

So, what value are YOU providing to this female friend?

Don’t expect her to “hook you up” but rather aim at having her introduce you/include you in her social circle.

And treat their social circle like a National Park. You don’t go into Yellowstone and shoot the deer, dump beer cans in the river, piss on the trees, etc. etc.

Treat her friends well, don’t piss in the pool or you won’t be invited back.

Do it right, and her friends will talk about how great you are in bed and you’ll be in hot demand. Rather than be greedy when that happens, actually REFRAIN from doing all the deeds you will indeedy do be doing.

Get it?

You can be strong, hot, challenging, fun, outrageous and STILL respect the vaginal environment. Play responsibly. Replace and replenish as you go.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Once you meet her friends, it isn’t just suggestive language that will get them joining you on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle  – it’s also the clever way in which it’s structured to seem like a perfectly ordinary conversation! Learn how this is done in Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

One of my readers who receives our Steaming Hot Seduction Secrets newsletter is asking what, for many of you, is an important question.

He knows that I don’t recommend going to “meat markets” or “pick up joints” because they’re usually too noisy so you can’t work your Sargy magic, there’s too many people around, and besides, women will have their guards up because they know guys are there to hit on them.

I also don’t suggest meeting women online.  On dating sites, again, her guard will be up, plus what have I said about introducing any form of “dating” frames with women before you sleep with them?  Even on f@@king Facebook.  Those chat rooms and “naughty boxes”, you don’t know if, in her mind, she’s chatting with YOU, or some idealized vision of what she thinks you might be.

So, where are you going to effortlessly approach and meet women this weekend?

One of the best ways to meet women is to encounter them during the normal activities you engage in, connecting with women while they go through their normal activities.   For example…

• You think there might be some wet, willing women at the car wash?
• What about the succulent hottie standing next to you in line at the checkout?
• Maybe she’s your “friend” now, but did you know you can use the friend zone to get her in bed?
• Going out of town and flying solo?  Or, you’re staying close to home, but your wingman isn’t around to back you up this weekend?  Don’t worry, you’re covered either way.

And, yes, I’ll address the elephant in the room.  You know the old cliche about what you’ll find at the produce section in the supermarket?  Well, it’s not a cliche.  My students in southern California (where I’m from) know that you’ll usually find some fresh fare at Ralphs.

That should give you some ideas.

And I better not hear about how you got some chick’s number this weekend so you could call her up and ask her out on a date, unless she gave it to you AFTER catching her breath from the whirlwind flight on the Cape Carnal-Veral Shuttle.

Get out there and make it happen.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. My recommendation for today is that you get out there and DO it.  But if you need some instant, right-now access to some great videos that teach various aspects of Speed Seduction®, just click here to grab it.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Only one thing pleases me more to hear that a student is kicking ass and taking names when it comes to scoring BIG with the ladies.

What could please me more than that, you ask?

Hearing that a student is actually helping out a fellow student to get amazing results.

Look: when I think back to what an incredibly tongue-tied, nerve-wracked, chicken-chokin’ loser I used to be with women, it makes me want to cry.

So, when a student gets marvelous results, and then helps another student achieve the same, well, I’m proud, delighted beyond delight’s sweet delight.

So, imagine my good feelings when I read the following email, from an attendee of a previous 3-day seminar in London, UK (note: the DVDs he mentions are all inside the Speed Seduction@ Power Pack):

Hi Ross,

I thought the story of what happened last night might be interesting for Some of you – especially the newer SS students.

After the London seminar the Irish lads decided that we should get together and start to really push these skills forward.

After a number of bars we were all off the mark and had already got some great responses. Things  were off to a great start – the guys had gone from not being able to open, to using blurt-outs, intuitive openers, humorous approaches, and some great sincerity, which we learned from the Gold Walk Ups DVD.

The more women that were opened, the further the old beliefs faded. THE WOMEN LOVED THESE CHARMING  GUYS.

I helped one student, Dan, with some of the exercises on your Fear Into Charisma DVD.

Here is the REALLY INTERESTING THING – he got some great smiles, some kino from these women, and out of about 50 approached women, only 2 semi negative responses. The energy was grounded before going out, and his state, energy, and awareness were totally controlled and supercharged.

After this, women were approaching  him, and there was no more fear of approaches – he hit the 100 openers’ mark by the end of the night.

Then came Selig.

This guy was amazing, he really got into the ritual before hand, and we reversed  some of the energy surrounding his former fear of clubs when we arrived at the place.

After a little while Selig had hit 60 approaches. At this stage there was no stopping him.

Selig had moved from being afraid to speak to women, to a guy who was magnetic, charming, intuitive, and dynamic in a little under 5 hours. He broke the 100 approaches mark by the end of the night.

I’m sure the guys will have their own stories to post in more detail, but suffice to say, approaches are no longer a problem.

John Stein – Cork, Ireland

RJ here again.  John, what can I say? A huge “right on” for helping out your fellow Speed Seduction® students.  May you always find women with warm hearts, firm bods, and lots of moist pink relief!

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Want to overcome YOUR fear of approaching women and know the 4 different ways to meet them anytime, anywhere, and never worry about what to say?  This is one of many topics we’ll be covering in our Speed Seduction® 3-Day Seminars.

P.P.S. For the “in the box” version that gets you in HER box more often, you’ll want Speed Seduction® 3.0.

Either way, let me know when you top meeting 100 women a night!

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Merry Fukking X-mas and listen up:

There is NO Santa.

And there is no such thing as a “soul mate”.

Now listen: on my member’s only Yahoo group, one of the students wrote about his break up with a girl he thought was his “soul mate”.  And how, in fact, in retrospect, she really had very few of the qualities he actually looks for in a partner.

Your Soul Mate?

Speaking to you as someone who is a fan of crypto-zoology-the study of unknown creatures like Big Foot, the Loch Ness Monster, Moth Man, etc-I can tell you that while some folks say they have seen what look like Yeti foot-prints and living Tasmanian Tigers, no one has every actually spotted tracks or droppings from the wholly mythological creature, “the soul mate”.

My friends who are hopeless romantics, cover your eyes: there ain’t no such critter.

Do people experience feelings of connection, deep compatibility? Sure. Are these experiences likely partially a matter of millions of years of evolutionary mechanisms that cause us to form pair bonds? Almost certainly.

But much of our experiences of “love” and “soul mates” and other nonsense is due to the social programming/romantic mythology that has been pounded into our heads from infancy, right up to the present day.

If you think your experiences in these areas of life are wholly and only “natural” and “genuine” and “authentic”, think again.  They are also shaped by the mythology and expectations that media and peers have perpetuated.

The Speed Seduction(R) Difference

Listen: one of the major differences between Speed Seduction(R) and the other “systems” out there is that SS requires you to examine the filters, beliefs, ideas, responses that have been clouding your judgment and shaping your outcomes with women in ways that do NOT serve you.

De-hypnotizing yourself from useless social constructs(and your own bad habits) is a huge part of being radically successful-in radically getting out of your own way-in this area of life.

One of the other good benefits is that this kind of deep level freedom to choose your responses, attitudes and beliefs is very sexy, in and of itself.

So, if you want to learn more about this, I suggest you check out the chance to learn with me live Jan 22, 23 and 24 in Los Angeles. I guarantee you will never be able to think the same dumb ways!

Peace, and piece,

RJ

P.S. Nothing wrong with enjoying your own personal mythology, that you create, as long as it serves you and you realize it’s only a filter for fun.  Personally, I love Pippi Longstocking.   Can’t get  enough of them Swedish Girls!

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

This video is a clip from one of my live “Afternoon With RJ” seminars.

Click here to view the embedded video.

As you watch it, you’ll probably easily recognize that I love teaching life changing information that touches minds in a whole new way.

This clip is about getting the right frame of mind for success with women.

This will be part of a series that explores frame of mind, meaning and vibe.

Enjoy and the more you comment below, the more I’ll continue to share.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. I’ll be posting more clips from my 3 day Speed Seduction(R) Seminars too. I want to show you guys what an amazing teacher I am so you can discover for your own reasons why you MUST come learn from me.

P.P.S. My LA January 2010 seminar is open for registration now, and if you get in within the next 30 days there is a HUGE discount, plus you bring a friend for free!  Look here