Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A great way to teach you how to succeed with women is to let you see how it works in real-time.  A student of mine asked me to critique a recent supermarket pickup he did.  Watch and learn:

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Peace and piece,

RJ

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Here’s an actual “pick up sequence” that you can take to the car wash.

Use this on that dripping wet (in more ways than one) hottie and you’ll get more than just your hubcaps polished.  You’ll get more than just your dashboard Armor-All-ed.  You’ll get more than just your bumpers waxed.  You’ll get more than your tailpipe…ok…you get it.

Watch how this worked for a student of mine, using 3 out of the 4 energetic vibes & attitudes that turn women on.

After dropping off his car and paying the cashier, he sat down in front of her, in the waiting area. She was removing one of her shoes to scratch her foot.  The shoe was one of those gold-spangled slipper type things.

Looking over his shoulder, he said, “Cute shoe”.

She said, “it’s comfy”.

He said, “Cute and Comfy. Those are the names of my cats”.

She laughed.

(Do you see what he is doing here? He went from making a comment to being funny.)

He said,  “Ok. That was probably the 5th dumbest thing I’ve said to meet a cute girl all week. The dumbest was probably, “Where did you get that magazine?” and we were standing in a bookstore.”

She laughed again and said, “It wasn’t that bad!”

Now, notice what he is doing here. He is using an IMPLIED compliment. He didn’t tell her directly that he thought she was cute.

No, he said that what he said to her was one of the dumbest things he’d said to meet a cute girl.

He IMPLIED it, rather than directly stated it. Remember, what you IMPLY has to be processed by the woman’s imagination, and therefore she will perceive it as her own thought, rather than something you are trying to impose on her. Knowing when to imply and when to directly state something  is a very powerful skill set indeed!

Him, “No, seriously, my flirt-powers have gone to shit. It must be the holidays!”

Her, “I think you are doing fine!”

Him, “Ah, guys’ll say anything. Our need to procreate doesn’t always get a good message to the brain.”

Now, what is he doing here, guys?

He’s actually disarming her by appearing to stumble over himself. This makes him appear vulnerable, genuine and sincere, rather than a polished pick-up artist! Remember, women want to be intrigued by you, but they also want to feel safe!

Her, “What’s your name?”

Notice she shows her interest by asking his name first! So they exchanged names and handshakes.

At this point, however, she was still sitting behind him and he had to change that. He wanted her sitting beside him to build the connection.

Looking at her kind of cock-eyed he said, “You know, your piri-spinal muscles are laterally asymmetrical”

She looked puzzled. “What does that mean?”

He said, “Stand up and come over here” in a fairly commanding tone.  She did exactly that.

“Turn around,” he said.

Then he put his hands on her hips. “One hip is a little higher than another. So when you Salsa (then he started moving her hips around like she was dancing and she got with it and start moving too!) make sure you keep this hip even with this one.”

Then he took her hand and sat her down in the chair next to him.

Now, this stuff about her muscles and hips was nonsense. But because she couldn’t figure out if he was complimenting her or criticizing her, she had to get curious and co-operate further!

“Wow,” he said. “I think my flirt powers just started working.”

At this point, she got very curious about him, started peppering him with questions, etc. etc, so he simply said, “you know, I can tell we will enjoy talking to each other a lot more somewhere, some other time…so if you aren’t seeing anyone right now, maybe we can hang out and talk.”

Note what he did here is to future pace enjoying being around him another time.

At that point she offered her number, without his having to ask, and he gave her his as well.

Note that in this less than 10 minute conversation he built comfort, curiosity, intrigue and some connection. Note that he went back and forth from being self-effacing, to being funny, to being a little puzzling, to being commanding.

When you can learn to alternate and offer these different vibes and aspects of yourself to a woman, it really ups your success!  Note that once he saw she had sufficient curiosity and interest, he did NOT ask her out. He simply told her what he could imagine (therefore directing HER to imagine it) and she went right along by offering her number to him without his having to ask.

Remember, when you just ask for a number, you put yourself into the category as all the other guys who are trying to get into her pants. If instead you create the curiosity, comfort, intrigue and connection and then describe what you can imagine, she will go right along and offer her number as part of the continuation of the connection she is feeling and wants to continue to enjoy.

Ok. Hope you learned from and enjoyed this example pick-up.

Piece and peace,
RJ

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P.P.S. Be careful when first meeting a woman about touching her. In this case, he sensed her comfort and also created enough intrigue that touching her on her hips was fine. But be careful and I don’t recommend that to the beginner at all! Use your best judgment and always keep a woman’s boundaries and safety concerns in mind at all times!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

At my recent live 3-day seminar, I did a series of live demonstrations, with female models, on how to apply my girl-getting teachings as pertain specifically to the Sarge.

Watch this video clip (just 4:41) to see it in action, now, and then leave a comment to tell me what you think:

playwithdorotasmaller

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

Merry Fukking X-mas and listen up:

There is NO Santa.

And there is no such thing as a “soul mate”.

Now listen: on my member’s only Yahoo group, one of the students wrote about his break up with a girl he thought was his “soul mate”.  And how, in fact, in retrospect, she really had very few of the qualities he actually looks for in a partner.

Your Soul Mate?

Speaking to you as someone who is a fan of crypto-zoology-the study of unknown creatures like Big Foot, the Loch Ness Monster, Moth Man, etc-I can tell you that while some folks say they have seen what look like Yeti foot-prints and living Tasmanian Tigers, no one has every actually spotted tracks or droppings from the wholly mythological creature, “the soul mate”.

My friends who are hopeless romantics, cover your eyes: there ain’t no such critter.

Do people experience feelings of connection, deep compatibility? Sure. Are these experiences likely partially a matter of millions of years of evolutionary mechanisms that cause us to form pair bonds? Almost certainly.

But much of our experiences of “love” and “soul mates” and other nonsense is due to the social programming/romantic mythology that has been pounded into our heads from infancy, right up to the present day.

If you think your experiences in these areas of life are wholly and only “natural” and “genuine” and “authentic”, think again.  They are also shaped by the mythology and expectations that media and peers have perpetuated.

The Speed Seduction(R) Difference

Listen: one of the major differences between Speed Seduction(R) and the other “systems” out there is that SS requires you to examine the filters, beliefs, ideas, responses that have been clouding your judgment and shaping your outcomes with women in ways that do NOT serve you.

De-hypnotizing yourself from useless social constructs(and your own bad habits) is a huge part of being radically successful-in radically getting out of your own way-in this area of life.

One of the other good benefits is that this kind of deep level freedom to choose your responses, attitudes and beliefs is very sexy, in and of itself.

So, if you want to learn more about this, I suggest you check out the chance to learn with me live Jan 22, 23 and 24 in Los Angeles. I guarantee you will never be able to think the same dumb ways!

Peace, and piece,

RJ

P.S. Nothing wrong with enjoying your own personal mythology, that you create, as long as it serves you and you realize it’s only a filter for fun.  Personally, I love Pippi Longstocking.   Can’t get  enough of them Swedish Girls!

Dear Speed Seduction(R) Student,

This video is a clip from one of my live “Afternoon With RJ” seminars.

Click here to view the embedded video.

As you watch it, you’ll probably easily recognize that I love teaching life changing information that touches minds in a whole new way.

This clip is about getting the right frame of mind for success with women.

This will be part of a series that explores frame of mind, meaning and vibe.

Enjoy and the more you comment below, the more I’ll continue to share.

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. I’ll be posting more clips from my 3 day Speed Seduction(R) Seminars too. I want to show you guys what an amazing teacher I am so you can discover for your own reasons why you MUST come learn from me.

P.P.S. My LA January 2010 seminar is open for registration now, and if you get in within the next 30 days there is a HUGE discount, plus you bring a friend for free!  Look here

Dear About To Be Blatantly Teased Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Between this coming Sunday, Nov 8, and Wed, Nov 11, I’ll be posting three, free, chick-pulling, babe-bedding videos that you are going to have to watch.

Yes, it’s true that each of these videos contains great info that you can go out and pull chicks with right away.

But I’m doing this as a blatant tease and to generate “buzz” around the OFFICIAL Launch of my new “Best of RJ Coaching Collection, Volume 1″, which will take place at 12 Noon Pacific, Thursday, Nov 12.

Why The Hell This Matters To You

Like I said, I’m out to generate buzz. So the 5 people who post the best comments on this blog, in response to the 3 videos I post, will win a free “Best of RJ” collection, sent right to their doors.

2 DVDs, and 18 CDs, chock a block with 30, babe-bagging, bed-filling,  custom designed video “mini-seminars”, hundreds of pages of PDF transcripts,  12 “Ask me anything” student coaching calls, dozens of Mp3s-enough stuff to choke a blue whale’s elim with not even enough room to spare for a baby-krill sandwich.

So all you “gotta have free stuff” whores have to pay close attention to the blog.

The first free video, just ripe for your comments(and your chance to win your free set of the Best of RJ Coaching, Volume 1), goes up on 12 Noon Pacific Time, Sunday.

Be here. Get teased. Win free stuff.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction(R) Students,

Who says when you want to pick up women, it has to be done under ideal circumstances?

I keep saying that the key to pick up and seduction success isn’t any particular line, but rather the frame of mind you can create for yourself and the attitude you take towards and into the field when you approach women.

Today, I witnessed a huge apartment fire taking place in my neighborhood and I happened to have my Flip-Cam along. So not only did I record the event, I got into the spirit of sarging and figured, “Why the fuck not? Let’s show the guys that you can even pick up chicks at the scene of a disaster!”

(By the way, for you moralizing idiots NO ONE was harmed.  No one was home when the fire occurred and it was safely extinguished, although the damage looked pretty severe from what I could see).

In this first video, you see me open her with a line, “What’s a nice girl like you doing at a fire like this?”

Click here to view the embedded video.

Next, I notice her accent and offer my intuition that she is from Ocean Township, New Jersey. Turns out she’s from just north of this. Watch how she reveals she has a husband and how I play off her answer when she tells me how they met.

Click here to view the embedded video.

Pretty good? Notice how I get rapport by talking about “the east coast attitude”. And the patter about “letting this character come inside you”.

If you want to learn how to meet women, anytime, anywhere, check out this:

GOLD WALK UP DVD

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S.  Just in case you want more video on the fire, here is footage of some more trucks arriving:

Click here to view the embedded video.

Keep in mind it was this nasty WHILE I was sarging this girl!