Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

What’s worse than being in that “not so sweet spot” where you’ve met a woman, and you don’t know what to say to her? There she is – right in front of you, this incredibly sexy hot babe who, up until now, you never in a million years DREAMED would be sitting right next to you, hanging on every word you say. Yet…

… you can’t find the friggin’ words!

Rather than dazzling her with smooth banter, you’re internally going berserk while hoping she doesn’t notice the 24-pound giant cat that has sunk his claws into your tongue and stretched it all the way to the floor like a flaccid fruit roll-up.

Later the “right words” will come to you, all right. While you’re back at your place, alone, imagining what it would have been like to score with her.

Well, all that’s about to change. Effective immediately, I hereby declare a “State of Sarge” because it’s time to …

… Get Into The State For Conversating, So You Don’t End Up M*****bating!

Many guys find they don’t have a lot to say when she’s right there, because he’s “been there” before. Say the wrong thing, or even say the right thing but with the wrong pitch, and she’ll drop you faster and harder than an 18-pound bowling ball comes crashing when dropped off an 18-story building.

When you find yourself internally whining to yourself about girls who “shot you down” on the playground in third grade, you’re not going to be in the state of Sarge that gets you to home base with the woman who’s here, right now.

Instead, close your eyes, relax, and alter the “shot down” state you’re in. Visualize the results you’ll be getting when having the right conversations with women. Focus on how you WANT things to be and the way you WANT things to go, and the chances are you’ll get there a hell of a lot faster.

Have you recently had a Sarge that went horribly wrong? Does it seem like your overall “batting average” with the ladies is in a slump? Do you find yourself so wrapped up in what went wrong, that you can’t vision things going right?

When you find yourself reflecting on “Sarges gone bad,” I challenge you to focus on what went RIGHT. Then, release any worry or angst about the “dumb things you said or did” and the moment when she gave you a dirty look and walked out on you. Because now, it doesn’t matter.

Stay focused on where you WANT to go (that being, back to your place for a night or weekend of “screaming with ecstasy ’till the neighbors call the cops, mind-blowing” sex)… and with that vision as your guiding force, you’ll get there faster.

My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

What happens when all of your effort with a woman, or multiple women go to s&$t?

The other day, I was doing an interview with an instructor in this field who is one of the few guys I actually respect. (When the interview goes live on his site, I’ll be sure to let you know).

But I was sharing with him the reality, that even I, having taught and practiced this stuff for years, don’t always get what I want with women.

Contrary to the brags and bluffs and claims of the others in this field, I am human. I have all the frustrations you do; I just have them a lot less often.

But more importantly, I have a good method of dealing with them.

How I Handled My Most Recent Frustrating And Disappointing Experience
With A Very Sweet, Hot, Sexy “China” Babe

Here is a recent case in point: I met a woman at my most recent LA seminar and it was clear she was attracted to me.. And I was attracted to her: hot, fun, smart, just how I like them.

We wind up hanging out two Sundays ago, and I had a great time with her, but this girl was clearly uncertain about how she felt with what I do for a living. She kept going back and forth between being clearly into me, and then bombarding me with questions. And try as I might to defuse it, I wound up getting NOWHERE with her.

Wait a second, you may be thinking. What kind of seduction guru brags about NOT getting somewhere with a woman?

Listen: the reality that no other “guru” will share with you, is that dealing with women, no matter how good your skill set, will occasionally feel a bit crazy. Women being the lovely chaotic and complex people that they are, can suddenly turn cold, display contradictory behavior, and behave pretty nuts from time to time.

Unless you have a disciplined method for dealing with the s&$t when it hits the fan, it will wind up sticking. Mostly right to you.

When this happens, it’s crucial you have a disciplined method, in place and ready, to rapidly handle the confusion and frustration and not let it color your sense of possibility in the world.

You can learn more about how to intelligently handle frustration and confusion, and convert them rapidly to clarity and informed motivation and right action, right here.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Did my experience with this girl sting? You bet. I laughed a lot with this lovely lady and really had a fantastic time. Remember, I may have mad skills, but I feel everything that you do, and I understand what these situations are like. That is why I feel uniquely qualified to help you deal with it.

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students and Fans,

[This is something I wrote a while ago, but it's one of my all-time favourites and it teaches a very important lesson.  So for you, I am pulling it out of the vault...]

Life sure is funny, sometimes.

Today, I was driving my SAAB convertible from the dealer, after having it repaired. (Note: SAABS are fun as hell, but expensive to maintain. Any SAAB lover will tell you it is worth it, but don’t get one if you aren’t willing to fork over some cash from time to time.)

Anyway, as I was driving, some blond girl in a beat up Honda Civic was tail-gating me.

Apparently, 45 miles an hour wasn’t fast enough for her. So she was right on my tail.

I thought, “Honey, you are going to try to shut ME down when I’m in this turbo-charged rocket? No way.”

I just tapped the accelerator and my SAAB shot off like a rocket, leaving her eating my California clean-air-standard- compliant exhaust emissions.

Here is the really funny part.

She caught up to me, behind me, at the red light.

And when the light turned green, she whipped around me in the right turn lane, and illegally proceeded to cross back in the intersection so she could “cut me off” and pass me.

As she did, she flipped me the bird.

I burst out laughing.

Then I thought, “Now, why was that so funny?”

What was funny is how stuck that poor girl was.

She really thought she HAD to “beat” me.

She was willing to break the law and endanger herself and others just so she could have her “victory”.

And she had to flip me off and make it personal into the bargain.

But you know what?

After she took off, I was STILL in my beautiful, joy-to-drive, incredible SAAB.

And she will still be driving around all day today, and probably for the next few years, in her crappy, beat-up, falling-apart, shitty Civic.

Now, this is NOT about the car you drive.

It’s about looking where you THINK you are finding your little “victories” without realizing that you are really just re-enforcing being stuck.

And it’s about not being reactive to other people’s stuff.

I could have taken offense at that girl.

Instead, I laughed at her need to “beat” me.

Sometimes, the best thing to do in life is just let the idiots zoom by you, thinking that they’ve won.

And the seduction lesson is this:

Women are running around on auto-pilot 99% of the time.

The actions they take often have NOTHING to do with you, but their own pre-programmed stuff.

So when you run into a woman who responds in a cruel or bitchy way when you have really done nothing to merit it, just picture my little blond bitch in the shitty Civic, flipping me off.

And realize she’s done you a huge favor.

Peace and piece,

RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

In the spirit of Thanksgiving (USA), I challenge you to thank yourself by simply “letting go” of what has held you back until now.

Look: in life, we all make mistakes.

When it comes to learning Speed Seduction®, and indeed, the entire subject of success with women, you can count on TWO things:

1. You WILL make mistakes. Mistakes in judgment. Mistakes in execution. Mistakes in what you leave out. Mistakes in what you put in. Expect it.
2. No matter HOW prepared you think you are, women will test you and women WILL surprise you. Just when you THINK you have a girl “all wrapped up” she will pull something out of her hat (or a##). So, like I have said in my original book and have repeated over and over, when you start really liking a girl, just remember: you never know where you stand with a girl until you make that first, serious physical move. Until then, it’s all talk, talk, and sometimes just play-acting. Sad but true.

In any event, I have learned that, too often, guys hold onto their “failures” and dwell on them. It’s like obsessively chewing on the same wad of gum for year after year, as it collects more gunk, bacteria, mouth goo, etc. etc. etc. You wouldn’t do that, would you? But so many guys dwell on their “failures”. Or on how some girl screwed them over (instead of screwing them!) back when they were still “nice guys”.

Look, the problem with dwelling on all this is, what you dwell on, you are actually just rehearsing and retraining your mind to do it again the next time around!

That is the problem with “slumps”. The more you dwell on how awful you are doing, the more you carry those emotions into your efforts and it is like putting a 100 lb lead weight around each leg and then trying to jump out a 30 foot hole!

And again, what you mentally dwell on with strong emotion is what you communicate to your subconscious mind that you want it to do!

Despite all your positive programming, which I believe in and teach, your NEGATIVE programming thru dwelling on mistakes will probably more likely influence how you think, act and respond, BECAUSE IT IS MOST FAMILIAR AND IT IS WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN WITH STRONG EMOTION.

Remember this: the unconscious is most impressed by anything that includes strong emotion, repetition, and strong belief. It does what is most familiar, not what you necessarily most consciously may want.

So avoiding this negative loop requires better attitudes toward learning. It requires the discipline and awareness to notice when you are beating on yourself and to stop it. And it requires acceptance of mistakes.

If you find yourself dwelling on the past or getting mad that you are not making fast enough progress, repeat this out loud.

Forgiving others, and letting them go is good training for forgiving myself. So even if they don’t “deserve” it I will do it for my own sake. I will either get what I want or learn what I need to. Mistakes are just MARKERS; marking out where I can step into new freedom, choice, power and growth.

I may wish I had been born more evolved or perfect, but THIS is my path and I embrace it. I may not always like it, I may slip and grumble, BUT THIS IS MY PATH. I will let my learnings pull me forward. I will never stop learning til I draw my last breath and in that last breath I will learn what THAT is like as I embrace the Source of All Learning … right now, today.

Allow this new attitude and new learning into your future seductions. And even imagine that idea going off into your past, adding its energy into your past as well. Come up to the present with this image inside you. Be thankful for your past; as it has helped you become the person you are today.

Happy Thanksgiving!

Peace and piece,

- RJ

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