Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

A key signal that you have achieved a level of self-assurance and confidence that lets you fully show the world who you are and what you have to offer is boldly claiming your results with women without first getting absolute certainty that you’ll succeed on EVERY approach.

One source of uncertainty: does she have a boyfriend?

Second source: what if she acts single and receives what I have to give now, then LATER she suddenly sicks her boyfriend on me like a raging pit bull claiming I was bugging her?

One night, recently, a student of mine got a text from a woman he’d hooked up with recently, and at first it seemed like she was letting him know she wanted an encore, that night if he was available.  BUT, after 3 or 4 back and forths, she all of a sudden comes out with this: “I want to talk to you but I can’t.  My ex is riding me about me talking to you.”

He texted back: “I thought he was your EX.  Once you get clear on your status, please let me know.” Then he said to himself, “Exit, stage left!” and went back to what he was doing at the time.

But, a minute later it raised a larger question in my student’s mind…

“What if that had actually been her so-called ‘ex’ writing that, and now he’s gonna come after me?”

Hey: boyfriend destroyer or no boyfriend destroyer, the next woman you Sarge might have a boyfriend, and just because kicking your ass because you approached his woman may seem childish and insecure to YOU, doesn’t mean he won’t kick your ass anyway.

Even if she did nothing but ENCOURAGE you to make a move at the time, regardless of the story she’s telling him now.

The only way to have certainty this will never happen is to take a vow of celibacy and solitude RIGHT NOW.

OR, you could take how another student handled this same situation as a guide:

Wednesday night, I called a woman I had “number closed” on Monday, who I met Monday when I was at a business meeting where she works. I asked for her. She says “speaking”. I introduced myself and said “we met on Monday at your office?” She says “yeah?”. It was 9:30 pm and I tell her I hope its not to late to call.

Her response was a cold, “I am with my boyfriend right now!” (In a tone to indicate, like, I should have known so). I say “Ok then, I’ll call back some other time.” and we hang up.

Within 30 seconds, my phone rings.

ME: Hello?

BF: Hello. Who is this?

ME: This is Rick, who is this?

BF: This is Angie’s boyfriend. I am calling to tell you that I don’t want you to call her anymore.

ME: Is this what Angie wants?

(I don’t know where I got the balls to turn this on them, but I am glad I did. At this point he puts me on hold and asks her if this is what she wants. I hear in the distance her voice saying that she doesn’t want me to call her again. He then comes back on the phone)

BF: Angie says that she doesn’t want you to call her again.

ME: Then why didn’t she just tell me that? Why did she give me her number?

BF: And what the hell are you thinking picking up somebody at work? You put her on the spot asking in front of everyone!

ME: We were ALONE when she gave me her number!

BF: (pause) You were alone?

ME: Of course! There was no one around. (raising my voice to match his) Why didn’t she tell me that she had a boyfriend? She never said that. She could have said No when I asked for the number.

BF: (backing off) Well, she’s shy.

ME: Even so, all she had to say was that she had a boyfriend. What are you thinking? Ask her! Ask her if she ever told me she had a boyfriend! Ask her now!

(Pause. I am guessing that he at this point doesn’t know where this is going. I hear him ask her, “Did you tell him that you have a boyfriend? To my happy surprise, she ADMITTED she didn’t. I think she was just as surprised by my hutzspa as I was.)

BF: Ok. She didn’t tell you.

ME: You see? She didn’t have to give me the number, she could have said, no, she could have told me that she had a boyfriend and she didn’t!

BF: Look, I am just telling you that if you plan to call her again…

ME: (cutting him off) Don’t you worry, I have no intentions of ever calling her again. This is stupid. Look you, I am not the type of guy that goes around starting trouble OK? I meant YOU no disrespect! And what she did here is disrespectful! She should’ve just said that she had a boyfriend, and she didn’t! (At this point, I am in control, but I am obviously pissed off in my tonality)

BF: (apologetically) Well, it’s OK.

ME: No it’s not! What she did is disrespectful to YOU, AND me! This is not acceptable at all.

At this point, he seems to be trying to calm me down, and by the time we get off the phone, I am still in control, and hang up after I say “bye”. In a weird sense, I got some rapport with him, and I really felt that near the end, he was actually on my side.

The study of seduction is more that just memorizing the next pick up line. It is a process that changes who you are inside and out. Three years ago, I would have freaked out, tried to figure out how I was to blame, and apologized like crazy. Today, I made no apologies for my desires as a man, and I called a woman on her bullshit. I know that I have still a ways to go. But by the universe as my witness, I will become a true Master Seducer.

Bottom line: this student has taken a HUGE step toward becoming a true Master Seducer. He had the balls to stand up to her shit and to give them BOTH a lesson.  Chances are, her little game backfired on a BIG way and this boyfriend of hers will see the light and leave that trouble making cock teaser in the dust.

The best part?  My student found out her little act before wasting any time or money.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You know, Angie’s boyfriend might not be a total meathead after all.  If he came to me and asked how Speed Seduction® might blast him past the stuck points that have had him, up until now, settling for these cock teases and letting them yank his chain instead of getting real results with top quality women who will treat him right, I would suggest he click here right now.

Dear Speed Seduction® Master-In-Training,

One of the most powerful “side effects” of mastering your girl-getting game is also achieving a level of power and mastery in other walks of life that you never thought possible.

Reminds me of a Sarge report I got from a student not too long ago about how my teachings not only got him the girl, but also saved him from getting his head caved in!

You heard it here first: Speed Seduction® is a life-saver – literally!

Join me for a moment as we explore…

How The “Boyfriend Destroyer” Pattern Got Him The Girl…
Then Sargy Persuasion Kept Him From Getting Destroyed…
By The Boyfriend!

Here’s what happened.  A student of mine was on the phone with another student of mine, then next thing you know, he sees some guy come charging into his apartment (without knocking) DEMANDING to speak with his roommate. My student put the phone down and dealt with this confrontation with this intruder, who is screaming and yelling and about to start tearing the place up…

My student manages to persuade this guy to wait outside while he gets his roommate, then gets back to his phone call.  Things cooled off for a minute… then next thing you know, the intruder is back… and angrier than ever.  Charges right past my student and goes to his roommate’s door and starts pounding on the door, saying “Get out here so I can kick your f@@king a@@ RIGHT NOW you lousy son of a….”

So my student sets the phone down again, gets the intruder to slow down just a bit, and says to the intruder, “Stop and imagine how you would feel if someone were to force their way into your home. Wouldn’t you want them to be cool and go outside?”

It was like magic.  The angry boyfriend instantly chilled out and was easily led outside.  Crisis diffused!

Why Was This Intruder So Flippin’ Angry??

Here’s what happened: my student’s roommate was banging this angry guy’s girlfriend (she told him she was single… what my student’s roommate should do about this lying chick is another story)… and she was in his room AT THAT MOMENT. The boyfriend put two and two together and followed her there, then sat outside for awhile getting good and pissed off before bounding up to destroy this “boyfriend destroyer” who was making his chick.

My student made strategic use of suggestions and embedded commands to diffuse the situation and lead the intruder’s imagination… outside.  Go back up and read what my student told this angry boyfriend and tell me how many commands and suggestions you find.  See how this works?

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. Moral of the story: see what happens when you have Sargy, persuasive power?  It becomes a reservoir of knowledge you can draw upon at-will, whenever necessary or desired, anytime, anyplace, anywhere.

Click here to learn how to get people eagerly doing your bidding in every walk of life…