Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

Everyone has a “type” of some sort.

Some guys prefer women who look or act a certain way; for some it helps if they have many interests in common; some find it sufficient just to screen out the loonies and the crazies.

Does it help to make a list of the qualities you want in a woman when building your “radar” for screening?

A student of mine recently set to do just that…and he was asking me, if he were to set aside the physical qualities, and focus mostly on the “core”
qualities, how careful would he need to choose?

Personally, I wouldn’t want a list too long. And also, here is a question: 

What state of mind do you want to be in when you make your list?

If you’ve studied my Magick stuff, a big part of setting goals has to do with making sure you don’t drag your old limiting beliefs and stuck emotions into framing what you are claiming.

(Oooh: I like that: “Framing what you are claiming”).

So, my first challenge:

1) What frame of mind do you want to be in when you are doing this?

2) What practices can you do to make sure you are in an optimum frame of mind?

Next, I have found that it helps me to do two things:

1) Use alliteration when naming the qualities. For example: “Daring, Depth, Dimension” as a 3-cluster of qualities that have to be there.

2) I like using groups of three or four, alliteration or not. As in:

• Feet on the ground
• Head screwed on straight
• Heart wide-open to me
• Pussy dripping wet, in all ways eager to please me

Use this as a basis for building and calibrating your radar and you’ll find your focus shifting toward more of the women you truly want to be with.

Peace and piece,
RJ

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Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Once again, I reach into my lovely mail bag and pull out an e-mail I got from a student about… his attempt to e-mail an HB9 he met at a party.

Some of the patterning was good, but it came off…just…BAD because the context was WAY OFF.

> I met this girl HB9 at a party full of people 3 weeks ago. I talked with her only for a few times and for short periods.  We kept getting interrupted by her friends, an attempt by another guy to cockblock me.  She behaved also like a social butterfly talking to different people, breaking conversations fast, etc.  I managed to get her email address just before she left.

Yeah, in what context? In other words, was it done after you and she were into each other, you had captured and lead her imagination and emotions, future-paced spending time together, as in, “It’s too bad we can’t FIND A WAY TO HANG OUT AGAIN AND SEE WHAT WE COULD ENJOY”.

Or did you just say, “give me your email”?

I think it was more the latter, rather than the former.  Anyway, let’s continue.

> My first email to her was two weeks later.  It read:
>
> I am Matthew, I enjoyed meeting you at the party.  It was pleasant and without giving you the impression to be too serious, too early, I learned how much it is rare to find someone funny, authentically sympathetic, nice and charming; but enough about me, you seem to be also a potentially interesting girl
>
> By observing you that evening, I noted that you were rather sympathetic and smiling. At the same time, you showed some reserve when in contact with new people. It is as if there is an interior conflict in you between a natural reserve and a desire to connect with others.
>
> You know, with me, you can feel at ease, be completely yourself without needing to play a social part or without having fear of being judged.  The tolerance, the open mindedness and the compassion for me and the others you showed are paramount values which guide my way of being, thinking and acting.
>
> Could you describe me one of your passions? You know one of these activities in which you feel yourself completely transported, completely absorbed by what you do, where time seems to be slowing, until it stops and where you feel the spirit, the flame in you that shines. And it is in one of these moments, that you feel yourself more alive, that you feel the most passion and that you are more in contact with the spiritual force which is with each one of us and which then appears with the most clearness and beauty. For me, I am fascinated by literature and in particular by poetic creation. If you like also poetry, we could exchange poems and give our respective impressions.
>
> Please answer me,
> Matthew

After trying to salvage the situation by snagging her e-mail address from the clutches of total defeat, why did you mastur-wait for two weeks before dropping her a line?

How do you know she liked you on that first meeting?  From what you described, it seems like you were struggling to get two words in.  How do you know?  And then what? A personality reading? It comes across as begging for her approval, trying to impress her.  Total AFC here.

Next, how was she tolerant, open minded and compassionate?  How do you get all that from a casual chat at a party that kept getting interrupted?

Speed Seduction® isn’t about reciting speeches that have NO relation to the context, the person or anything that you yourself have experienced. These aren’t Magick chants.

Well, She Answered The Following Day

And…it was a doozy.  I knew she’d answer – but I saw this coming before I even read that far.

> hi matthew,
>
> thank you for your message, but, how did you have my email??  you know, I spoke with many people that evening. what did we talk about, at which moment of the evening?  what do you look like?  sorry I can’t remember.
>
> unless you tell me more about you, I am sorry but I won’t be able to talk to you further.

Ouch. She didn’t even fucking recognize who you were. That’s my point. In a seduction situation, email, texting, phone calls, can work, but without a command of non-local influence, you have to put in the work IN PERSON, FACE TO FACE.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. What this student was trying to do was shift her thoughts without saying a word and without even having to be in her presence.  Right idea, wrong formula.  Join me where I show you the RIGHT way in our Secrets Of Energized Magick, Manifestation and “Non-Local” Influence Seminars.  Click here to reserve your seat now!

Dear Speed Seduction® Students And Fans,

Here are a few worn-out, wasted, and woe-begone cliches you’ve probably heard before.

“Men and women must be in love before they have sex.” “Women will most likely have sex on the third date, but will not decide if they love him for another 6 months, because they believe love takes time.” (Is this why the “third date” is assigned so much importance?)

As you continue to master your girl-getting game and achieve more and more tight trim triumph… as you peel away the layers of doubt and beliefs that haven’t served you… please get this; discovering your false and limiting beliefs ARE GAINS!!!

As you see what actually works with women in the world, you cannot help having your old beliefs challenged and changed. As you change and challenge your old beliefs, you cannot help but make progress in the field.

This is what makes Speed Seduction® unique and special: it requires you deeply re-examine how you think about women, what attracts them, and indeed, what “attraction”, “love” “desire” really are, as PROCESSES with a structure, sequence, flow, movement etc.

Well, my belief is that you can NOT have a truly “loving” relationship WITHOUT sex. So there.

Forget about such stupid generalities as the “all important third date” and other calls to mastur-wait-ion. Those who preach these ideas base them on THEIR limits.  Just because THEY need to go on “dates” and follow the “rules” to get the chick in bed, YOU should too.  That’s how they’d have it.

I’ve had women “fall in love” with me in 20 minutes. Some never do.

Look, the real issue is: will doing as OTHERS say help YOU go where you need to?

What is the process – the methodology – by which YOU will discover what works and what is true? Do you really need written reassurances or can you move through some uncertainty with a determination to FIND OUT FOR YOURSELF WHAT WORKS?

Do you see my point? The real value is asking a better question than “when will women have sex or fall in love?”

The better question is, “How do YOU find out what is true and real, for yourself? And how do you handle the uncertainty of looking? Can you convert into excitement, curiosity, playful determination?”

More and more I am convinced that my job as a master teacher is NOT to answer the question the student asks. 70% of the time it is redirecting the student to ask the much more useful question or questions that they aren’t even thinking to ask.

Peace and piece,
RJ

P.S. You can get some progress just by mindless imitation; but deep change and huge sastisfaction / suck-sex requires you change the filters and beliefs through which you address the world of women.  The best way to do this is twofold – reprogram the belief mentally and through ritual.  Explore my Nail Your Inner Game and Magick/Psychic Influence courses.

Dear Speed Seduction® Student,

I’m at my most creative and inspired when I am helping a student solve actual challenges. In fact, three of the patterns and mantras I have shared lately were direct solutions to specific girl-getting situations that two of my students were claiming mastery of. [To work with me directly, in person, in mastering your Seduction game, join me on Sunday, November 22 for my next "Afternoon With Ross Jeffries."]

Speed Seduction® is designed to help smart guys like you succeed with women by giving you not only the power and charisma necessary to meet women and get them hot and bothered, but also to master the Seduction mindset and provide the ability to adapt my teachings to YOUR specific challenges and situations.

This student took an innovative approach. Check THIS out:

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Hey Ross, I finally crushed my approach anxiety, using sigils. I had just been interested in psychology in general and learned a lot about the conscious/unconscious from you and also intense.

I’m thanking you because without your teachings of how the mind works, I would have thought sigils to be B.S. But it made perfect sense that the sigil is just a program that your unconscious tries to decode, and since it can interpret all meanings you can kind of hack your reality … quantum mechanics s#&t ya know?

Anyway, any of your other students who are still having problems with approach anxiety may want to try sigils. I thought I would never be able to approach a girl. I had good attraction skills with girls in my social circle, but I still wasn’t controlling my reality like I wanted to. The world is a whole new place of possibilities to me now. Seemed like I was never meeting any girls….now it’s like there’s THOUSANDS of them walking around EVERYWHERE This is AMAZING! Now I actually have to memorize some patterns. I never did….because I thought, “what’s the point” if I couldn’t even go up and talk to them. And the best news I’m still in my 20s. I have plenty of time ahead of me. Thanks Brother!

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First of all, for those of you who have not heard the term “sigil” – a sigil is defined by Dictionary.com as “A seal; a signet” and “A sign or an image considered magical.” I encourage you to research this topic and you’ll see how these can have impact on mindset – both yours, and those of the women you desire.

Now, with respect to the above:

• The women were there the whole time, waiting for you. Up until now, it was your anxiety that was clouding your vision and making them invisible to you.
• Your reality is what you claim it to be. You are the master of your destiny.

For those of you who are in the process of mastering your girl-getting game, remember, repeat, and realize: My skills. My results. My satisfaction. My world. Mine.

Now, I bet that sure beats a poke in the eye!

Peace and piece,

RJ

P.S. Would you like to enjoy incredible power and influence with lovers, co-workers, business-people friends … and have them happily give you what you want without your having to say a word?

Would you like to silently draw to you and powerfully influence whomever you need, and smile to yourself at the effortless way in which who and what you want just seems to “flow to you”…while your friends try in vain to figure out your “good luck”? Would you like to be able to psychically influence someone…without even having to utter a word?

If you have answered “yes” to any of these questions (and I know you have), you need to check out my Magick/Psychic Influence Home Study Course. Claim your copy (and your destiny) now!